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Christian man, husband, father, father-in-law, and granddaddy

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Posted by on March 25, 2015 in Sermon

 

Overcoming Disappointment


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One of the biggest causes of anger is disappointment over not getting what we expect. We expect life to work out in our favor–we want to be loved and appreciated and all that. But the truth is we’ll never get everything we want or expect. If we can accept that fact, it will do a lot to minimize our big disappointments. Disappointment is often the salt of life. [1]

John Calvin understood it when he expressed that we should “…let us not cease to do the utmost that we may incessantly go forward in the way of the Lord; and let us not despair because of the smallness of our accomplishments.”

disappointment-signLife often comes in horrible waves of despair and disappointment. But behind those realities is also the goal of discipline, with the purpose of character and holiness:

“And you have forgotten that word of encouragement that addresses you as sons: “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.” Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”(Hebrews 12:5-11).

Robert Hamilton understood this eternal concept and expressed it well:

“I walked a mile with Pleasure, She chattered all the way,

And left me none the wiser, For all she had to say.

“I walked a mile with Sorrow, And not a word said she.

But oh, the things I learned from her, When Sorrow walked with me.”

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[1] Theodore Parker, Instant Quotation Dictionary, p. 97.

 
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Posted by on March 25, 2015 in Sermon

 

Modern denominational myths


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In our present age many myths are being circulated as biblical truths. In this article we will examine some of them.

1. Salvation by Faith Only.
One myth being circulated which is contrary to God’s Word is that we are saved by faith only. Romans 5:1 tells us we are justified by faith. James 2:24 tells us we are justified by works and not by faith only. Is there a contradiction between these two scriptures. No! James 2:24 says in essence “Yes, you are justified by faith, but not by faith alone, some works are required.” Do we then merit our salvation? No, salvation comes only by undeserved favor or grace. We do however have to follow God’s plan to accept or receive that grace. Faith defined is “A conviction of things not seen”. We must have faith. “Without faith it is impossible to please God…” Hebrews 11:6. So we see that faith is essential to seo-myths-mythbustersalvation but in itself it is useless. James says, “Faith if it has not works is dead.” No one, not I anyone else, refutiates the fact that we are saved and justified by faith, Ephesians 2:8 and Romans 5:1 both say so, but it is not faith alone because James 2:24 says so.

You say it is confusing. No, not really. Let me illustrate. Say you have a real bad infection and you go to the doctor. He tells you to fill the prescription he lays down in front of you and you will be made well. Faith tells you he knows what he is talking about and that following his instructions will save you heartaches. Now the question is “Does that faith by itself make you well?” Of course not! It does however cause you to fill the prescription and follow the doctor’s orders to the letter.

The same principle applies to God’s Word, the Bible. It tells us that faith in Jesus as the Son of God, His death and resurrection will save us from sin, but it goes on to say faith alone will not save. For faith to be any good, it must immediately be followed by action. The faith does not save, but it leads us to take certain steps which do save us. So then in the sense that faith leads us to obey Jesus” commandments, it does save. That is what the Hebrew writer, Paul and James were saying. Faith saves only in that it leads us to obey.

2. Saved by Faith and Repentance Only.
Another fallacy in our modern day religious circles is that if we have faith and repent only we will be saved. The Bible very clearly lays down a pattern through which we may be saved. Though repentance is a necessary part of salvation, salvation does not stop there. We see in Luke 13:3 and Acts 17:30 that repentance is commanded. We cannot be saved without repenting, just as we could not be saved without faith, believing. To be saved without repenting would be to say, “Okay God, save me, but I want to continue to sin against you and never come to realize my sins hurt and grieve you or turn from them.” To repent means literally to turn, to change one’s mind.

Paul says to repent we must first be sorry for our sins ( 2 Corinthians 7:10 ). Being sorry then is not repentance, but it leads us to repent. Who can be truly sorry for doing wrong, and continue to do so? If we truly are sorry, then we will repent or turn from sin?

3. Faith, Repentance, Confession alone are not Salvation.
In other religious circles it is taught that if we have faith or believe, repent and confess only we will be saved. Although admittedly Romans 10:10 says if we confess we shall be saved, we cannot say that salvation stops at confession without doing a great injustice to the Bible, God’s Word. We know that without coming into contact with Christ’s blood we cannot be saved. Confession does not bring us into contact with His blood nor does faith and repentance. Without confession though, we cannot be saved. Luke 12:8,9 says so. We must confess Christ before men for Him to  onfess us before God. If we deny Him, He’ll deny us!! Our confessions must be by mouth. ( Romans 10:10 ). We cannot sign a card or such thing. We must verbally confess our belief in Christ.

4. To be saved we do not confess our sins.
Many would have us think that to be saved we must confess our sins. There is no scriptural authority for this. Christians are instructed to confess their sins. (1 John 1:9 ) and do so before men (James 5:16 ) where their faults are concerned, but with praying for forgiveness this applies ONLY to Christians. 

5. Baptism does not save.
Such a statement is contrary to all the apostles taught, Jesus ordered, and history shows! In Mark 16:16, Jesus said, “He who believes and is baptized shall be saved, but he who believes not ( hasn’t faith ) is damned.” People in most religious circles like to omit baptism in the first part of this statement and over emphasize “believes not” in the second part. I agree one hundred percent that if we do not believe (have faith) it is impossible to please God! That does not however release us from the command to be baptized. Contrary to what they teach, the Bible teaches that baptism is essential by reason for it, what it does and the actions of the early preachers and apostles!

Let us consider why we are to be baptized.

  • (A) Baptism was commanded by Jesus ( Matthew 28:18,19; Mark 16:16 ).
  • (B) Baptism is for the remission or forgiveness of sins. We all know that when we are saved our sins are forgiven. It is impossible to be saved otherwise. Acts 2:38 makes it clear that if our sins are to be forgiven we must “repent and be baptized for the remission of sins.” The word remission here means “pardon” or “forgiveness”. That is real clear then that for forgiveness of sins we are to be baptized.
  • The apostle Paul was told at his conversion “Arise and be baptized and wash away thy sins” ( Acts 22:16 ). Notice here that Ananias would not wait, he wanted it done right then. He says, “Why tarriest thou; arise and be baptized and wash away thy sins.” Even though Jesus told Ananias He had a special purpose in Paul. Ananias would take no risks and he rushed to get him baptized then and there. It must have been extremely important then, wouldn’t you say?
  • Another important scripture to consider is Galatians 3:27, not to mention Romans 6:3. These both say, we are “baptized into Christ.”

What is in Christ? “Spiritual blessings” ( Ephesians 1:3 ); “no condemnation” ( Romans 8:1 ); “eternal life” ( 1 John 5:11,12); “salvation” ( 2 Timothy 2:10 ). How do we get into Christ to receive all these things? Baptism! ( Romans 6:3; Galatians 3:27). Baptism then is important! Even essential! 1 Peter 3:21 says, “The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now save us…”

6. Baptism does not refer to water.
Many will say, “Well, baptism does not refer to water, it refers to the spirit.” Just two points to mention on that subject. First, Jesus refers to being born of the water and of the Spirit in John 3:5. They will refutiate that by saying water means physical birth. The very verse before it tells us differently as do the context and circumstances. It is very clear from the previous verse that Nicodemus knew Jesus was talking about a “second birth” and the context of the whole scripture tells us that is what Jesus meant. For this to have meant physical birth Jesus would have insulted the intelligence of Nicodemus. Nicodemus was a member of the Sanhedren, the Jewish ruling council. I think he had enough sense to know that if you were to do something the second time you had to have done it the first! I just cannot picture my Lord and Savior as being so arrogant as to spring that newsflash on an old man!

Second, Romans 6:4 says, “We are buried in baptism, so that like Christ was raised from the dead, so we can be to walk in the newness of life”. Couple this with John 3:5 and the other scriptures we have studied such as Galatians 3:27 and those referring to all things being in Christ and add to all this one dash of Acts 10:47 in which Cornelius and his family have already received Holy Spirit baptism and Peter wants them baptized in water and what do you have? WATER BAPTISM: resulting in the second birth.

We are buried with Christ, ( Romans 6:4 ) in water baptism ( Acts 10:47; 8:37-38 ) and raised to newness of life ( Romans 6:4 ). This obviously is the second birth spoken of in John 3:5. Baptism then brings us in contact with Christ ( Romans 6:3; Galatians 3:27 ) and hence forth His blood where in is atonement for our sins.

We see then that to be saved we must have faith and believe ( Hebrews 11:6; John 3:24 ) but believing only is not enough nor is faith only (James 2:19,24 ) or the devils would be saved.

We must also repent, which is merely changing one’s mind, no prayers involved. Then we must confess Christ and our belief in Him ( Luke 12:3,9; Romans 10:9,10; Acts 17:30; Luke 13:3; John 9:31 ).

Then we must be baptized for remission of sins, ( Acts 2:38 ), to get into Christ ( Galatians 3:27; Romans 6:3 ) to obtain salvation which is in Christ ( 2 Timothy 2:10 ). 

7. Baptism is sprinkling or pouring.

This cannot be so! We see from Romans 6:3-5 that baptism is a burial so it couldn’t possibly be done by sprinkling or pouring, but would have to be done by immersion.

For what reason were you baptized? Were you saved by the above method? Were you baptized before you were saved, for the remission of sins following belief, repentance, and confession of faith? We see in Ephesians 4:5 there is only one baptism. It is before salvation for remission of sins and to get into Christ ( Galatians 3:27; Romans 6:3) where salvation lies ( 2 Timothy 2:10 ). It is a burial, signifying submersion or immersion.

Baptism alone after you are saved does not count, or for any reason besides remission of sins does not count or without faith, belief, repentance and confession of faith does not count or by any means other than immersion such as sprinkling, pouring does not count or by any authority other than Christ ( Matthew 28:18,19 ) does not count.

Do you fall under any of these? There is a Church of Christ in your community. Contact them and they will be glad to Scripturally baptize you. Call on them, will you? Don’t wait another minute because it may then be too late ( James 4:14 ), and good intentions will not save (Matthew 7:21-23 ).

Please do not take our word as final on anything you read here. May God bless you as you search for His truth!

 
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Posted by on March 20, 2015 in Church, Doctrine

 

“Disappointments New Christians Face”


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There is great joy in seeing new Christians grow in the faith:
(2 John 1:4) “It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us.”

(3 John 1:3-4) “It gave me great joy to have some brothers come and tell about your faithfulness to the truth and how you continue to walk in the truth. {4} I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”

Unfortunately not all new Christians grow as they should. Problems and disappointments often overwhelm them, and some even fall away.

This ought to concern older Christians, for we have a responsibility to those who are young in the faith:

(Rom 15:1-2) “We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. {2} Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.”

(Gal 6:1-2) “Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. {2} Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

1. SAME WEAKNESSES AS BEFORE (Disappointed with themselves)
Many become Christians with joyful anticipation…

1. Excited about forgiveness of sins…
2. ” the chance to start over…”
3. “the help God is going to give them to change…”

…but they soon discover….
1. That the temptations are just as strong as before (sometimes even stronger!)

2. They can easily be discouraged and overcome

HOW CAN WE HELP?

1. By teaching them that “transformation” is an on-going process:
(Rom 12:1-2) “I urge you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. {2} And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.”

2. By reminding them of God’s willingness to forgive and provide strength???????????????????????????
(Phil 2:12-13) “Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed–not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence–continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, {13} for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.”

(1 John 1:9) “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

(1 John 2:1) “My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense–Jesus Christ, the Righteous One.”

2. IMPERFECT CHRISTIANS (Disappointed by their brethren)
They witness inconsistency in the lives of others…
1. They see those who do not practice what they preach

2. It really hurts when seen in those they had looked up to
3. But this problem is not a new one

Ill treatment  by Christians…
1. May occur in Bible classes, business meetings, at work, at play

2. Harsh words can be devastating to those new in the faith

WHAT CAN WE DO?
1. First, set better examples!

(1 Tim 4:12) “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.”

2. Confess wrong when it occurs

3. Help the new Christian realize that older Christians are ALSO going through the process of “transformation”

(Phil 3:12-14) “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. {13} Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But
one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, {14} I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

3. TRIALS AND TEMPTATIONS (Disappointed by the world)
Such as pleasures and responsibilities of the world…
1. Often drawing the new Christian away (e.g., job, family, hobbies)…choking them to the point of unfruitfulness. Discouragement by unconverted friends and family…

2. Want them to come back to the things of the world

3. As Paul warned in (1 Cor 15:33-34) “Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.” {34} Come back to your senses as you ought, and stop sinning; for there are some who are ignorant of God—I say this to your shame?”

 WHAT CAN WE DO?

1. Demonstrate what it means to “seek first the kingdom of God”
2. Make it clear by our own example who it is we love the most (i.e., not our jobs, hobbies, etc.)
3. Develop close friendships with new Christians IN THE LORD; friendships centered around Christ and His work

4. FALSE CONCEPTIONS ABOUT PROSPERITY (Disappointed by lack of success)
Thinking that now all our problems will go away…an idea propagated by the gospel of health and wealth” teachers.

 But such is not always the case, even as it was in the days of the first century (James 1:2-4) “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, {3} because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. {4} Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

(1 Pet 1:6-9) “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. {7} These have come so that your faith–of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire–may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. {8} Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, {9} for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your
souls.”

We need to prepare new Christians for possible adversity; this need is especially great because Satan often strikes hardest when one is new in the faith

5. TOO MUCH “NEGATIVE” TEACHING (Disappointed by their teachers)
1. Certainly there is a place for learning about those in error

2. But there can be dangers involved in doing so…
   a. If it is done in an arrogant, self-righteous spirit
   b. If it is done to make us feel good or superior
   c. If it is done to the exclusion of learning what WE need to do

3. If we are not careful, it can create carnal Christians, given to strife and envy

When “negative teaching” is called for…
1. It should be done: for the purpose of trying to understand and each those in
error…out of love for those in error. It should be done as Paul did it…

   a. With prayer for their souls

   b. With recognition for their accomplishments

3. It should be done with the qualities mentioned in (2 Tim 2:24-26) “And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. {25} Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, {26} and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.”

CONCLUSION
It may help to quickly point that Christians generally go through four stages of spiritual growth…

a. The “ball of fire” stage, following their conversion to Christ
b. The “reality” stage, when the disappointments start to come in
c. The “up and down” stage…here, people either grow through it to the next stage…or they fall away, or become apathetic (i.e., “pew-warmers”)
d. Finally, those who persevere reach the stage of “steady as she goes”, where growth is progressive and steady:

 
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Posted by on March 15, 2015 in Church, Encouragement

 

What about Israel and the Jews? Acts 28:16-20


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A Quick Review Of Other Millennial Assertions.

Daniel 9:24-27 is supposed to represent a “prophetic clock” that stops ticking at the death of Christ and does not start ticking again until seven years of tribulation, recorded in the book of Revelation, at the “first phase” of the Second Coming of Christ.

Where is the gap?  Where does the Bible show that the “clock” stops for 2000 years before it resumes ticking?

Why not let the 70 weeks of Daniel be literal like the 1000 years of Revelation (dispensationalists commonly say the weeks are actually 490 years)?

Revelation 20:1-6 is alleged to show a literal 1000 year reign of Christ, on the earth, on David’s throne. Where is the earth mentioned in Revelation 20:1-6)?  Is Satan’s chain literal, and if not, why in a book of symbols should the 1000 years be literal?  Where is Jerusalem and David’s throne in Revelation 20:1-6?

The book of Revelation has the Father and the Son located in heaven (4:1; 5:1, 6; 6:9-11).  he slain of Revelation 6:9-11 were to wait in God’s presence until the full number of martyrs came in—the very thing that happens in Revelation 20:4. This is a heavenly scene.

What Christians Need To Be Doing As They Face The Millennium.

Matthew 24:42-51 makes it clear that since we do not know when Jesus will return, we should live in faith at all times.  alking in the light is the way of security (I Jn. 1:7).  Seeking God’s kingdom and His righteousness are first priorities (Matt. 6:33).  God gives glory to the quiet, everyday kind of faith (I Thess. 4:11-12).  Those who have relied on sensational things rather than on simple trust and obedience will be disappointed (Matt. 7:21-23).

WHAT ABOUT ISRAEL AND THE JEWS? (Acts 28:16-20)

INTRODUCTION

  1. R.DeHaan said, “Following the Rapture of the church, God will gather Israel into Canaan, rebuild the temple, re-establish the Old Testament form of worship and sacrifices.”
    1. Christ then appears to set up the earthly kingdom with Jerusalem as its capital.
  2. Hal Lindsey – “Late Great Planet Earth” pp. 42-47
    1. Uses Matthew 24 to teach a rebuilt temple.
    2. Israel restored to her land.
    3. Sacrificial system and Sabbath re-instituted.
  3. According to Pre-Mill., the land promises God made to Israel have not been fulfilled, and were eternal in nature.
  4. Questions to be answered:
    1. What were the promises God made to Israel?
    2. Have these promises been fulfilled?
    3. Were those promises conditional or unconditional?
    4. Where is the “Israel of God” today?
  1. WHAT WERE THE PROMISES GOD MADE TO ISRAEL? (Gen. 12:1-7; 13:14-17).
    1. God promised Abram:
      1. A new land.
      2. Would be a great nation
      3. God would bless him and make his name great
      4. Through Abram, all families of the earth would be blessed.
      5. Physical and spiritual blessings.
    2. What land was promised?
      1. The land he traveled to upon the command of God (Gen. 12:6-7).
      2. The larger land of Canaan (Gen. 15:18; Ex. 23:30-31) to the river Euphrates.
      3. Promises made to Abraham and His seed (Gen. 17:8; Ex. 6:4-8).

 II. HAVE THESE PROMISES BEEN FULFILLED?

  1. Land of Promise has been fulfilled (Deut. 1:7-8; Joshua 21:43-45; 2 Samuel 8:3; 2 Chron 9:26; Neh. 9:7-8).
  2. When was this promise fulfilled?
    1. Following the bondage in Egypt as Moses let Israel to and Joshua lead them into the Canaan Land.
    2. Abraham himself received not one foot of Canaan – but his seed did.
    3. Pre-Mill. say that Abraham must be raised from the dead to enter millennial kingdom in order to possess the land.
    4. Stephen said “the time drew near” while Israel was in Egyptian bondage (Acts 7:17).

III. WERE LAND PROMISES CONDITIONAL OR UNCONDITIONAL?

  1. Pre-Mill. say unconditional (Gen. 17:7-8). “Everlasting covenant”
    1. Word translated “everlasting” means “age-lasting.” Same for Sabbath and other O.T. rituals which are not kept today.
    2. As long as Law of Moses lasted, these things lasted. When Law of Moses ended, these things ended.
  2. Notice the conditions of keeping the land (Deut. 8:19-20; 28:29-30, 63, 64; Josh. 23:14-16; 1 Kings 9:3-7).
  3. Israel lost their land.
    1. Northern Kingdom carried away by Assyria.
    2. Southern Kingdom carried away by Babylon (2 Chron. 36:17-19).
  4. Restoration promises (Deut. 30:1-3; Ezek. 37:11-22; Isa. 10:20-23 (remnant return) Jer. 30:3).
  5. Has Israel been restored? (2 Chron. 36:20-23; Jer. 25:11-13; Ezra 9:9).
    1. All prophecies concerning the return to the land, rebuilding of the temple, etc., were made prior to 516 B.C. Since the rebuilding of the temple of that time – following a return to Palestine – there have been no prophecies concerning a return to the land or a rebuilding of the temple.
  1. WHO ARE THE ISRAEL – JEWS OF GOD TODAY?
  1. Jesus spoke of a “new kingdom” to the Jews of his day (Matt. 21:41-45; 23:38; 24:1-35).
  2. Circumcision nor uncircumcision avail anything – but new creature (Gal. 5:6).
  3. Christians are now God’s Jews – God’s Israel (Rom. 2:28-29; Gal. 3:26-29; Rom. 4:13-16; 9:7-8).
  4. Conversion destroys nationality (Col. 3:10-11).
  5. Paul’s allegory of two women (Gal. 4:21-31).
    1. Two women are two covenants – OLD AND NEW.
    2. Two sons – two nations – fleshly and spiritual.
    3. Hagar and Ishmael had nothing in common with Sarah and Isaac. National Israel has nothing in common with spiritual Israel.
    4. Final verdict – “Cast out the bondwoman and her son.” National Israel cannot have an inheritance with Spiritual Israel.  CHRISTIANS ARE THE ONLY ISRAEL GOD HAS TODAY!
  6. Can Jews be saved today?
    1. Yes, all men come to God the same way, through Christ (Eph. 2:14-18).
    2. The same gospel is for all (Matt. 28:18-20).
    3. Great commission was for the Jews also (Acts 10:34-43).
    4. Paul’s prayer for Israel was “that they might be saved” (Rom. 10:1-4).
    5. No New Testament passages affirm or predict a return of Jews to Palestine and a second chance to accept Christ as Messiah. It is now or never!

CONCLUSION

  1. God promised Israel the Canaan land and they occupied that land hundreds of years ago.
  2. The nation God promised to make of Abram’s seed no longer exists as it did in Old Testament times.

(appreciation to Bill Craddock for much of this material)

 
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Posted by on March 15, 2015 in Church, Doctrine

 

What is the basis for our security?


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First, the sovereignty of God is the basis for our security. We dare not be confident in ourselves. We dare not doubt that we shall be more than conquerors. This would be to deny His Word and to distrust God. We, like Paul, should be absolutely convinced concerning these things, based upon the Word of God. Our security is rooted in God, in His sovereignty, and in His unfailing love.

securitySecond, our security and confidence in God is the basis for our service. It is not doubt, nor fear, nor guilt which should motivate our service, but a confidence in God mixed with deep and abiding gratitude. Because we are secure in Christ, we may serve. We need not focus on ourselves but on Him. Since He is the “author and finisher of our faith,” we must “fix our eyes on Him” (Hebrews 12:1-2)

Third, our security is never an excuse for sloppiness. Some would abuse the doctrine of God’s sovereignty and the believer’s security. They would sinfully suggest that since God is in control, it matters not what we do. This is just the opposite of the truth. God’s sovereignty is the basis for our diligence and obedience. If we trust in ourselves, this would be folly, because we will fail. But when we trust in God, we know that we ultimately cannot fail and that our efforts are not in vain.

Fourth, the Scriptures never raise any doubt that God will finish what He started at salvation. The question raised in Scripture is not, “Will the saints endure to the end?” The question is rather, “Are we sure that we are in Christ?” The security of the believer is never brought into question in the Scriptures. Whether or not we are a believer is a question which is raised, and rightly so. The Bible gives us the examples to follow (Acts 2:38;  8:4-29; 9:1-20; 22:1-16; 10:1-48; 16:12-15, 22-34; 18:8; 19:1-6).

Fifth, the basis for our salvation and our security is found in the work of Christ on the cross of Calvary. Did you notice that every fear, every dread, in this text is the result of sin? And did you notice as well that every cure goes back to the cross of Calvary?placeforyou2

Here is God’s means of redemption. Here is the measure of His love. Here is the assurance and confidence that God’s purposes and promises will never fail. No wonder we must continually go back to the cross.

We should never grow weary of going back to the cross. Here is where our salvation began. Here is where it was finished. That God sent Jesus to the cross is the measure of His love for us. That God would raise Jesus from the dead is the measure of His power. When such love and power meet, we, as sons of God, have every reason to be confident.

Finally, the security of the believer requires a response. Paul’s conclusion reminds us that biblical revelation requires a response. The security of the believer in the sovereign love of God should produce humility, gratitude, dependence, confidence, and praise.

Let us ponder these closing words of Romans 8, especially in contrast to the agonizing cry at the end of chapter 7. Let us savor our security, and let us stand fast, knowing that our labor in the Lord is not in vain.

 
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A Message for Parents and Grandparents


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How much do you love your children? How much do you love your grandchildren? To conscientious Christians, children and grandchildren represent one of life’s most important and unique treasures.

Few sacrifices are rejected if their well being is at stake. Regardless of circumstances, their well being is priority for parents or grandparents. At birth our concern is enormous, and that concern grows as they grow. In adolescent years, our concern passes description.

thFrom years one to twenty-one, we make every possible preparation for their development and future. Does my child have a learning disability? Where can I get help for my child? Does my child have a medical problem? Where can I get treatment for my cindexrca-bhild? Does my child need special training? Where can I find it for my child?

We provide them the best educational opportunity we can afford. We create special opportunities for them in every form of development from athletics to talent. We alter our adult schedule and run ourselves crazy for them. We do everything possible to build their self-images, develop their skills, teach them poise, and give them advantages mentally, psychologically, and physically.

I pray you consider for a long time these things I share with you.

We as Christians understand parents have a spiritual responsibility to provide our children spiritual instruction and guidance.

That responsibility existed from Christianity’s beginning.

Ephesians 6:1-4 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise), so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” (This refers to one of the Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20:12 with its focus on the responsibility on adult children.)

Parents focused indexrcc-bon God provide their children a reason to obey them.

  • If they honor God, they can obey their parents without problem.
  • Parents have not abused them, neglected them, refused to love them, or done things to generate and nurture a lasting anger in them.
  • Instead, the parents provide them an example of how to live a disciplined life devoted to God and His instructions.

Colossians 3:21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.

  • Parents’ relationship with their children should not create and nurture a continuing frustration producing a state of discontentment.
  • The severity and fault finding that destroys the spirit should not characterize the parents’ relationship with their children.
  • Parents, do not be deceived into believing that our parental faith in and commitment to Jesus Christ guarantees our children automatically will become Christian adults.

The Old Testament has a number of examples of godly persons whose children did not follow God.

Perhaps the greatest period of Israelite godliness came in Joshua’s leadership.

indexrcd-bJudges 2:7 “The people served the Lord all the days of Joshua, and all the days of the elders who survived Joshua, who had seen all the great work of the Lord which He had done for Israel.”

What a testimony to godly influence!


Then Judges 2:10 notes, “All that generation also were gathered to their fathers; and there arose another generation after them who did not know the Lord, nor yet the work which He had done for Israel.”

I do not think you could convince me that Joshua did not teach godliness to his children. Yet, his descendants did not follow God. I conclude they were deliberately ignorant and willfully forgetful.

Samuel was a powerful spiritual influence in Israel in an extremely ungodly period.

Listen to 1 Samuel 8:3 “His sons, however, did not walk in his ways, but turned aside after dishonest gain and took bribes and perverted justice.”

Grandparents-Print-Tan-DamaskKing David made some serious mistakes, but he was a man whose love for God included the knowledge of repentance.

We are still blessed by some of his powerful thoughts. In the New Testament he is still known as the man after God’s own heart. Yet, many of his children were truly ungodly.

Hezekiah led one of Judah’s few spiritual reforms.

Listen to 2 Kings 18:3, 5 “He did right in the sight of the Lord, according to all that his father David had done.  …He trusted in the Lord, the God of Israel; so that after him there was none like him among all the kings of Judah, nor among those who were before him.”

Now listen to what is said about his son, Manasseh in 2 Kings 21:2, 9: “He did evil in the sight of the Lord, according to the abominations of the nations whom the Lord dispossessed before the sons of Israel. …But they did not listen, and Manasseh seduced them to do evil more than the nations whom the Lord destroyed before the sons of Israel.”

The New Testament covers too brief a historical period to include such detail. The most important factor in determining what your child becomes as a spiritual adult is the person he or she marries. Your child will make that choice largely to your exclusion. You will not choose the person your child “falls in love” with. You will not choose how the experience of “falling in love” will affect your child. If you try to exercise an inflexible control over the people your child dates, you likely will severely injure your relationship with your child.

While you certainly must provide guidance, there are restrictions on the guidance you can provide.

Attempts to provide inflexible control can alienate, create an unhealthy dependence, or drive your child to the person of your disapproval.


If you try to structure, control, direct, or alter your child’s marriage, you create more serious problems than you correct. Rarely is continuous parental involvement in a child’s marriage constructive. Attempting to “run or fix” a child’s marriage often produces undesirable results:

  • Anger
  • Alienation
  • Resentment
  • Impeding or destroying their maturing process.
  • Destruction of healthy independence.
  • Creation of a sick dependence on the parent.
  • Interference in a child’s marriage can produce many bad things and few good things.

We should understand that. Look at the impact of your parents’ unwanted advice and interference in your marriage. Recall the problems, stress, anger, and complications produced when your parents felt like they needed to structure an aspect of your marriage. Do not deceive yourself into believing your actions will be viewed as constructive and thereby appreciated. The possibility of your child experiencing a serious marriage crisis is frightening.

The fact that you provide them the best home, best training, best environment, and best spiritual foundation you can provide does not eliminate the possibility of your child experiencing a serious marriage crisis.

Your initial reaction may be, “That cannot be true!”

For the sake of reflection, recall married people you know from 5 years younger than you to 5 years older than you. How many people did you go to school, college, or church with who are now divorced, separated, or in deeply troubled marriages? And those are just the situations your know about! Every major social influence in this society (today) works against “once for life” marriage, not in support of it. Consider a living nightmare.

  • You witness your own child in an abusive, unloving, selfish, inconsiderate marriage.
  • You watch as it happens causing your child suffering, pain, and agony.
  • You see what this is doing to your child as a person.
  • You witness your grandchildren in such a marriage.
  • As you watch, there is little you can do.
  • You cannot fix it.
  • You cannot “make it go away.”
  • You do not dare try to take control for fear of making things worse.
  • You cannot make the relationship healthy.

If such happens in your family, let me suggest what to pray for.

  1. Pray he or she is in a congregation that believes in loving those that hurt and reaches out to those who are troubled.
  2. Pray he or she is part of a people who help the distressed.
  3. Pray he or she is not part of a congregation who turns it back on “Christians who have problems like that.”
  4. Pray they are under a compassionate eldership who believes in shepherding.
  5. Pray they are under elders who know how to listen and be understanding.
  6. Pray they know how to be constructively supportive.
  7. Pray they believe in keeping confidences.
  8. Pray they are in a congregation devoted to administrating Jesus’ spiritual healing.
  9. Pray that scripturally uninformed members do not control the congregation.
  10. Pray their congregation is not filled with Christians who feel it is their duty to say:
    • “If you genuinely believed in Christ, you would not have a problem like that.”
    • “Real Christians do not have marriage problems.”
    • “You are not a spiritual person.”
    • “If you trusted God like I do, this never would have happened.”

Constantly help us be a congregation that brings the troubled to Jesus’ forgiving healing, to Jesus’ compassion, to Jesus’ hope, to Jesus’ help. Help us want to be just Christians who are not afraid to let Jesus teach us how to compassionately care. Help us be a people that troubled Christians can turn to without fear because we are ruled by the Great Physician. Help us be the kind of people who care in the same way the first congregations cared.

Why do this? We want to be just Christians. We want to be a congregation of people who fit the image of Jesus’ expectations. We want to be an oasis of spiritual healing for ourselves, our children, and our grandchildren when worlds collapse and life falls apart. In a world filled with hopeless struggle, we want to be a refreshing place of healing. May we each say, “That attitude begins with me.”

 
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Coming to Know God


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In the early days of the automobile a man’s Model-T Ford stalled in the middle of the road.  He couldn’t get it started no matter how hard he cranked nor how much he tried to advance the spark or adjust things under the hood.  Just then a chauffeured limousine pulled up behind him, and a wiry, energetic man stepped out from the back seat and offered his assistance.  After tinkering for a few moments the stranger said, “Now try it!”  Immediately the engine leaped to life.  The well-dressed individual then identified himself as Henry Ford.  “I designed and built these cars,” he said, “so I know what to do when something goes wrong.”

God, as our creator, knows how to “fix” us when our lives are broken by sin.

god-make-me-an-instrumentGod is not discoverable or demonstrable by purely scientific means, unfortunately for the scientific minded.  But that really proves nothing.  It simply means that the wrong instruments are being used for the job.

A Sunday School teacher saw one of her little boys drawing furiously with a set of crayons. “What are you doing, Johnny?” she asked. “I’m drawing a picture of God,” said Johnny. “But Johnny,” said the teacher, “nobody knows what God looks like.” Replied Johnny: “Well, they will by the time I’m through with THIS!”

In looking for a challenge or some direction in life, the most challenging task we can approach is the zeal to come to know God. Think how that process might begin with some questions/answers:

Name: God.
Also known as: The Almighty, Jehovah, the Father, Lord.
Occupation: Sustainer and ruler of the universe.
Address: Everywhere.
Sex: Does not apply.
Place of birth: Does not apply.
Social Security: None.
Mother’s maiden name: None.
Dependents: Everyone.
Honors received: Too numerous to list.

God doesn’t fit a mold, does he? He is, to put it mildly, unique. One of a kind. Indescribable, some would say! God is beyond cataloging, and no computer resume, no investigating committee, not even a CIA computer could give an exhaustive profile of who He is and all that He’s done.

God cannot be grasped by the mind. If he could be grasped, he would not be God. Yet we cannot give up! We can’t throw up our hands and dismiss Him as a mystery…we need Him!

Imagine a sheer, steep crag with a projecting edge at the top. Now imagine what a person would probably feel if he put his foot on the edge of this precipice and, looking down into the chasm below, saw no solid footing nor anything to hold on to.

This is what I think the soul experiences when it goes beyond its footing in material things, in its quest for that which has no dimension and which exists from all eternity. For here there is nothing it can take hold of, neither place nor time, neither measure nor anything else; our minds cannot approach it.

And thus the soul, slipping at every point from what cannot be grasped, becomes dizzy and perplexed and returns once again to what is connatural to it, content now to know merely this about God, that it is completely different from the nature of the things that the soul knows. [1]

It’s amazing in this world the way people respond to God, as they understand Him…it’s very different: some grovel before totems; others bring offerings of chickens and goats; others kneel five times daily to chant prayers; others go into trances. Some believe in God so intensely they preach in foreign lands; others deny His existence by their silence.

We need to come to see God in people around us. We need to know Him in a personal way.

I’m thinking of a little boy named Timmy. Timmy was very afraid of the lightning and the thunder. His mom and dad went into his room during a thunderstorm and said, “Now, Timmy, don’t be afraid. God is right here in the room with you.”

He said, “Okay, Mommy and Daddy, I won’t be afraid.”

But then as the mommy and daddy went into their room and started to get ready for bed, the lightning clapped, and the thunder rolled, and Timmy screamed bloody murder. Timmy’s daddy and mommy went back into the room and said, “Honey, we thought we told you, you don’t need to be afraid. God is right here in the room with you.”

Timmy said, “Mommy and Daddy, I know God is right here in the room with me, but I need someone with skin on.” [2]

What is God like? Answers don’t come easy, because of the immensity of the subject. God is huge, filling the universe. Also people might know the right words, but they seem to become hollow shells because they can’t comprehend them.

We say that God is holy, righteous, loving, gracious, Father-Son-Spirit, but we don’t know what all this means. How do we know the words are empty? We can tell by the way many Christians behave!

Our behavior exposes our failure to understand the words coming out of our mouths. We can talk about God, but we do not know Him! God is not like us — He’s one of a kind! God is different from men. Anyone trying to know God and learn to relate to Him must begin with this fundamental truth.

God is not optional! Unlike everything else, God is absolutely necessary, like water for fish. We can’t just “take God or leave Him” — He is inescapable, even more so than death and taxes. We must not be too “familiar” with God, or regard Him as optional…we must learn to let God be God.

A. W. Tozer wrote concerning the desperate need for the church to revise its concept of God due to a very distorted conception of Him: It is my opinion that the Christian conception of God current in these middle years of the twentieth century is so decadent as to be utterly beneath the dignity of the Most High God and actually to constitute for professed believers something amounting to a moral calamity.[3]

Tozer goes on to say, The heaviest obligation lying upon the Christian Church today is to purify and elevate her concept of God until it is once more worthy of Him—and of her.[4]

A. W. Pink is of the same opinion: The god of this century no more resembles the Sovereign of Holy Writ than does the dim flickering of a candle the glory of the midday sun. The god who is talked about in the average pulpit, spoken of in the ordinary Sunday school, mentioned in much of the religious literature of the day, and preached in most of the so-called Bible conferences, is a figment of human imagination, an invention of maudlin sentimentality. The heathen outside the pale of Christendom form gods of wood and stone, while millions of heathen inside Christendom manufacture a god out of their carnal minds.[5]

One day it occurred to me that God is the most fascinating person alive and that getting to know Him could well be the most helpful thing that ever happened to me. The more I probed His nature the more convinced I became that knowing Him is the solution to most of my problems. I became convinced that knowing God better was the answer to many of their problems as well. I decided that I want to get to know God intimately, and that I want to help others get to know Him as well, if I possibly can.

God is knowable, and He does want to be known. As a matter of fact, He tells us that our eternal state depends upon knowing Him. Jesus said, “And this is eternal life, that they may know Thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom Thou hast sent” (John 17:3). Knowing God and His Son Jesus is the heart of the whole matter of eternal life. The word know in this verse does not refer to a casual acquaintance either. It is the kind of knowledge that comes through living contact and personal relationship. If knowing God is that important, maybe we ought to talk about how we can get to know Him.

A mother was approached by her young son, who asked, “Mommy, did God make Himself?”  Realizing that such questions by children are very important and must be answered, she dropped what she was doing and sat down with her youngster for a little talk.  Pointing to her wedding band, she said, “This is a ‘love ring,’ which your daddy gave me when we were married.  Look at it closely and tell me where it begins and where it ends.”

The youngster examined it carefully and then said, “There’s no starting place and stopping place to a ring.”  The mother replied, “That’s the way it is with God.  He had no beginning and has no end, yet He encircles our lives with His presence. He is too wonderful, too great, for our minds to understand. Nobody ever made God — He always was!”  Somehow the boy realized that for God to be God, He could not have been created. He had to be without beginning and without end.

Martin Luther once was so depressed over a prolonged period that one day his wife came downstairs wearing all black.  Martin Luther said, “Who died?”  She said, “God has.”  He said, “God hasn’t died.” And she said, “Well, live like it and act like it.”

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[1] Gregory of Nyssa (d. about 395), “Eastern Orthodoxy,” Christian History, no. 54.

[2] Thomas Tewell, “The Tenacity of a Bulldog,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 141.

[3] A. W. Tozer, The Knowledge of the Holy (New York: Harper and Row, Publish­ers, 1961), p. 10.

[4] Ibid., p. 12.

[5] Arthur W. Pink, Gleanings in the Godhead, pp. 28-29.

 
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Posted by on March 2, 2015 in God

 

Willing to Worship…A man can no more diminish God’s glory by refusing to worship him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word darkness on the walls of his cell


Erwin Lutzer said, “If we haven’t learned to be worshipers, it doesn’t really matter how well we do anything else. “

Realizing the awesome presence of God is quite a discovery. It changes our life. Our worship. Our Eternity.

The plea is a simple one:

   Bring yourself and your spirit of worship. Bring reverence for God and His house. Bring your offering (the tithe plus).

   Bring a spirit of love and fellowship. Bring a hearty handshake and a smile. Bring a kind word and helpful thoughts.

   Bring your willingness to help sing, and sing out of your heart. Bring a friend or relative. Be sure to bring your visiting friend.

   Bring your best each Sunday to worship. Get the church-going habit.

In their book Lessons from History, Will and Ariel Durant observed, “There is no significant example in history, before our time, of a society successfully maintaining moral life without the aid of religion.”

I hope Charles Spurgeon was incorrect, when he observed that “ I believe a very large majority of churchgoers are merely unthinking, slumbering worshipers of an unknown God.”

We have crowded God out of the center by replacing Him with ourselves.  And it is much worse to have a false idea of God than no idea at all.

A wife remarked to her husband after the church service: “Did you see the hat Mrs. Jones was wearing?” “No,” said her husband, “I didn’t.” “Did you see the new dress Mrs. Smith had on?” she asked. “I’m afraid I didn’t,” said her husband. To this his wife replied: “Well a lot of good it does YOU to go to church!”

God used to rage at the Israelites for frequenting holy groves. I only wish I could find one. Somehow, in the secularizing sweep in our world, we have lost the light out of the treetops. We’ve lost the sense of holiness that somehow permeates the sacred groves, and there isn’t anything sacred to most of us anymore.

We have gone all the way from pantheism to pan-atheism–from a view of life that found God in everything to a view of life that finds God in nothing. [We have gone] from a view of life where everything was holy to a view where we hardly ever see anything holy anymore. [1]

The majority of us do not enthrone God, we enthrone common sense. We make our decisions and then ask the real God to bless our god’s decision. [2]

The one essential condition of human existence is that man should always be able to bow down before something infinitely great. If men are deprived of the infinitely great, they will not go on living and will die of despair. The Infinite and the Eternal are as essential for man as the little planet on which he dwells.[3]

Men must worship something, if they do not worship an unseen Being who loves and cares for them, they will worship the works of their own hands; they will secretly bow down to the things that they see, and hear, and taste, and smell; these will be their lords and master.[4]

A silent love is acceptable only from the lower animals. God has given us speech that we should call upon his name. Worship is to religion what fragrance is to the flower.[5]

G. Campbell Morgan told a story about a father and his young daughter who were especially close.  They enjoyed spending time together.  If he went for a walk or made a social call, she wanted to go along.  But then he began to notice a change. When he asked her to accompany him on errands, she made excuses.  As the weeks passed, he became concerned about it.

When his birthday came, she presented him with a pair of slippers she had made.  Then he realized that she had been working on them while he was out of the house.  “Darling, I like these slippers very much,” he said gently, “but next time buy the slippers and let me have you all the days.  I would rather have you than anything you can make for me.”

Beyond any work we may do for God, time spent in His presence must take priority.  He desires our fellowship first of all.  If our worship is neglected, our work will be deficient.

It’s a necessary lesson to discover that worship does not satisfy our hunger for God; it only whets our appetite.

If we yearned after God even as much as a cow yearns for her calf, we would be the worshiping and effective believers God wants us to be.  If we longed for God as a bride looks forward to the return of her husband, we would be a far greater force for God than we are now. [6]

God wants us to worship Him. He doesn’t need us, for He couldn’t be a self-sufficient God and need anything or anybody, but He wants us. When Adam sinned it was not he who cried, “God, where art Thou?” It was God who cried, “Adam, where art thou?”[7]

 It is a terrible thing to be grateful and have no one to thank, to be awed and have no one to worship. [8]

 

Ten Values of Church Attendance:

1. It keeps your heart in constant tune with God.

2. It keeps your mind on the great necessity for having God’s word spread throughout all nations.

3. It improves your character by learning the great examples that Christ gave to us.

4. It improves your disposition by learning to be meek and humble like Christ.

5. It helps in your everyday life by learning to love one another, even as Christ loved you.

6. It teaches you to give and know the wonderful joy you receive by giving.

7. It teaches you to pray, for prayer is the answer to many of your problems.

8. It gives your soul great joy and comfort to worship and know that God is near.

9. It shows the world that you are working for Christ and His Kingdom.

10. It is what Christ intended for you to do. “For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”[9]

 

The church is not:

* An ark for the saving of a select few.

* A ferryboat to take effortless passengers to the shores of heaven.

* A life insurance company, with no obligation on policy holders except the payment of a small annual premium.

* A social set, welcoming certain people and excluding others from its fellowship.

* A Sunday pleasure club for the providing of pleasant occupation on the day of rest.

 

The church is:

* A lifeboat for the rescue of sin-wrecked and perishing souls.

* A family, in which love and service are expected from each member to each member.

* An organized community, with constant activities and continual growth and development.

* A company of believers who have found the one way of life and obey the one Lord of life.

* A union of those who love for the benefit of those who suffer.

* A center of social worship, in which the spiritual life of each is helped by the spiritual life of his fellow.

* The representative — the “body” — of Jesus Christ on the earth, reflecting his spirit and controlled by his will.

 

 

I like the following list, which speaks not only to sporting events but also worship: The reasons why I’m giving up sports (football in the fall, baseball in the summer, basketball in the winter). I’ve had it all. I quit attending sports once and for all, and here are my excuses:

   1. Every time I went, they asked for money.

   2. The people I sat next to didn’t seem friendly.

   3. The seats were too hard and not comfortable at all.

   4. I went to many games but the coach never came to call on me.

   5. The referees made decisions that I couldn’t agree with.

   6. The game went into overtime and I was late getting home.

   7. The band played numbers I’d never heard before and it wasn’t my style of music.

   8. It seems the games are always scheduled when I want to do other things.

   9. I suspect that I was sitting next to some hypocrites. They came to see their friends and they talked during the whole game.

   10. I was taken to too many games by my parents when I was growing up.

   11. I hate to wait in the traffic jam in the parking lot after the game.

 

Adrian Rogers maintains that Americans attend church at least three times in their life. When they are hatched, matched, and dispatched. The first time they throw water. The second time they throw rice. The third time they throw dirt.

Reasons for attending church fall into two categories — good and bad. In the bad column are these: Attending is socially acceptable. God is angry if I don’t. Going merits His favor. I feel better. Such  motivations dishonor God, and some are the devil’s lies.

In the good column are these reasons: God’s Word commands it. I need Christian fellowship. Others need my encouragement. I can hear the Word. I can meet God.

A story might help to explain. One day the telephone rang in the minister’s office of the Washington church attended by the President. An eager voice said, “Tell me, do you expect the President to be there Sunday?” “That I cannot promise,” the minister said patiently. “But we do expect God, and we fancy it will be incentive enough for a reasonably large attendance.

Ted Malone, whose radio show came on early in the morning, told of the Idaho shepherd who wrote: “Will you, on your broadcast, strike the note ‘A’? I’m a sheepherder way out here on a ranch, far away from a piano. The only comfort I have is my old violin. It’s all out of tune. Would you strike ‘A’ so that I might get in tune?”

Malone honored the request. Later he received a “thank you” note from the distant shepherd saying, “Now I’m in tune.”

One of the purposes and responsibilities of personal and public worship is to enable the aspirant to keep tuned to the Great Shepherd.

One of the joys of the Christian life is to help others recapture the missing note!

Have you known of someone who could have written this following letter:  “Dear Minister:  You often stress attendance at worship as being very important for a Christian, but I think a person has a right to miss now and then. I think every person ought to be excused for the following reasons and the number of times indicated:

      Christmas (Sunday before or after)

      New Year (Party lasted too long)

      Easter (Get away for holidays)

      July 4 (National holiday)

      Labor Day (Need to get away)

      Memorial Day (Visit hometown)

      School Closing (Kids need break)

      School Opens (One last fling)

      Family Reunions (Mine & wife’s)

      Sleep late (Saturday night activities)

      Deaths in Family

      Anniversary (Second honeymoon)

      Sickness (One per family member)

      Business Trips (A must)

      Vacation (Three weeks)

      Bad Weather (Ice, snow, rain, clouds)

      Ball games

      Unexpected Company (Can’t walk out)

      Time changes (Spring ahead; fall back)

      Special on TV (Super Bowl, etc.)

“That leaves only two Sundays per year. So, you can count on us to be in church on the fourth Sunday in February and the third Sunday in August unless providentially hindered. Sincerely, A Faithful Member.”

No Excuse Sunday

To make it possible for everyone to attend church next Sunday, we are going to have a special “No Excuse Sunday.” Cots will be placed in the foyer for those who say, “Sunday is my only day to sleep in.” Murine will be available for those with tired eyes… from watching television too late on Saturday night. We will have steel helmets for those who say, “The roof would cave in if I ever came to church.” Blankets will be provided for those who think the church is too cold, and fans for those who think the church is too hot. We will have hearing aids for those who say, “The Minister speaks too softly,” and cotton for those who say he preaches too loudly.

Score cards will be available for those who wish to list the hypocrites present. Some relatives will be in attendance for those who like to go visiting on Sunday. There will be 100 T.V. dinners for those who cannot go to church and cook dinner also. One section will be devoted to trees and grass for those who like to seek God in nature. Finally, the sanctuary will be decorated with both Christmas poinsettias and Easter lilies for those who have never seen the church without them.

Just suppose the Lord would begin tomorrow to make people as sick as they claim to be on Sunday. Just suppose the Lord would take away the child whom the parents use as an excuse for staying away from church. Some things sound humorous, but they are serious! What is your excuse? See you next Sunday!?

One hour with God infinitely exceeds all the pleasures and delights of this lower world.   A. W. Tozer said, “We are called to an everlasting preoccupation with God.”

Orthodox Jews avoided Samaria because there was a long-standing, deep-seated hatred between them and the Samaritans.

The Samaritans were a mixed race, part Jew and part Gentile, that grew out of the Assyrian captivity of the ten northern tribes in 727 b.c. Rejected by the Jews because they could not prove their genealogy, the Samaritans established their own temple and religious services on Mt. Gerizim.

This only fanned the fires of prejudice. So intense was their dislike of the Samaritans that some of the Pharisees prayed that no Samaritan would be raised in the resurrection! When His enemies wanted to call Jesus an insulting name, they called Him a Samaritan (John 8:48).

He made it clear that all religions are not equally acceptable before God, that some worshipers act in ignorance and unbelief.

It was a devastating statement to say that worship would no longer be limited to the Jewish temple. This ties in with John 2:19-21 and also Stephen’s statement in Acts 7:48-50. John’s Gospel clearly reveals that there is a new sacrifice (John 1:29), a new temple (John 2:19-21; 4:20-24), a new birth (John 3:1-7), and a new water (John 4:11). Jews reading this Gospel should realize that God has established in Jesus Christ a whole new economy. The Old Covenant Law has been fulfilled and set aside.

Arthur Pink had a specific perspective of those who offer false worship: ‘They bring their bodies to the house of prayer but not their souls. They worship with their mouths but not in spirit and in truth.

“They are sticklers for early morning communion with God but they take no thought about keeping their hearts with all diligence.

“They boast of their orthodoxy but disregard the precepts of Christ.

“Multitudes of professing Christians abstain from external acts of violence, yet hesitate not to rob their neighbors of a good name by spreading evil reports against them.

“They contribute regularly to the church but shrink not from misrepresenting their goods and cheating their customers persuading themselves that business is business.

“They have more regard for the laws of man than those of God for his fear is not before their eyes.”

In a false worship we may detect three faults. First, a false worship is a selective worship.  It chooses what it wishes to know about God and omits the rest. 

One of the most dangerous things in the world is a one-sided religion.  It is very easy for a man to accept and hold such parts of God’s truth as suit him and to disregard the remainder. 

We would do well to remember that, although no man will ever grasp the whole orb of truth, it is total truth that we should aim at, not the snatching at fragments which happen to suit ourselves and our own position.

Second a false worship is an ignorant worship.  Worship ought to be the approach to God of the whole man.  A man has a mind and he has a duty to exercise it. 

Religion may begin with an emotional response; but the time comes when that emotional response has to be thought out.  E. F. Scott said that religion is far more than merely the strenuous exercise of the intellect, but that nonetheless a very great part of religious failure is due to nothing other than intellectual sloth. 

To fail to think things out is in itself a sin.  In the last analysis, religion is never safe until a man can tell, not only what he believes, but why he believes it.  Religion is hope, but it is hope with reason behind it (1 Peter 3:15).

Finally, a false worship is a superstitious worship.  It is a worship given, not out of a sense of need nor out of any real desire, but basically because a man feels that it might be dangerous not to give it. 

Many a person will refuse to walk beneath a ladder; many a person will have a pleased feeling when a black cat crosses his path; many a person will pick up a pin with the idea that good luck will follow; many a person will have an uncomfortable feeling when he is one of thirteen sitting at a table. 

He does not believe in these superstitions, but he has the feeling that there might be something in them and he had better play safe. 

There are many people whose religion is founded on a kind of vague fear of what might happen if they leave God out of the reckoning.  But real religion is founded not on fear but on the love of God and gratitude for what God has done.  Too much religion is a kind of superstitious ritual to avert the possible wrath of the unpredictable gods. [10]

A man’s spirit is the highest part of him.  That is the part which lasts when the physical part has vanished.  That is the part which dreams the dreams and sees the visions which, because of the weakness and faultiness of the body, may never be carried out.  It is the spirit of a man which is the source of his highest dreams and thoughts and ideals and desires. 

The true worship is when man, through his spirit, attains to friendship and intimacy with God.  Genuine worship does not consist in coming to a certain place nor in going through a certain ritual or liturgy nor even in bringing certain gifts.  True worship is when the spirit, the immortal and invisible part of man, speaks to and meets with God, himself immortal and invisible.[11]

I believe that if we are to be and to do for others what God means us to be and to do, we must not let adoration and worship slip into second place, “For it is the central service asked by God of human souls; and its neglect is responsible for much lack of spiritual depth and power.”

Perhaps we may find here the reason why we so often run dry. We do not give time enough to what makes for depth, and so we are shallow; a wind, quite a little wind, can ruffle our surface; a little hot sun, and all the moisture in us evaporates. It should not be so. [12]

Let me recite some lines from some ancient prayers from the black church. We have some people in every tradition who pray pretty much the same prayer every Sunday if they’re asked to pray. Many of these lines are well known all over the black church.

One of the lines is, “Lord, I thank you that the blood is running warm in my veins this morning and that my bed was not my cooling board.” Cooling board is a reference to the slab of concrete or marble on which a dead body lies in the mortuary. They just let your body cool down.

You get these old saints who say, “Lord, I thank you that this morning when I rose, my bed was not my cooling board. One more day to praise you and thank you. You’ve been good.”

Or another line is, “Lord, I want to thank you that you’ve allowed my golden moments to roll on.” I love that line: “You could have stopped my life at any point, but you allowed my golden moments to roll on.” God says, “I’ve been good to you. You ought to worship and praise me.” [13]  

We’ll close with these words:

If my lips could sing as many songs as there are waves in the sea:

if my tongue could sing as many hymns as there are ocean billows:

if my mouth filled the whole firmament with praise:

if my face shone like the sun and moon together:

if my hands were to hover in the sky like powerful eagles

and my feet ran across mountains as swiftly as the deer;

all that would not be enough to pay you fitting tribute,

O Lord my God. [14]

 

[1] Annie Dillard, Preaching Today.

[2] Oswald Chambers in The Oswald Chambers Devotional Reader.  Christianity Today, Vol. 36, no. 9.

[3] Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Leadership, Vol. 19, no. 1.

[4] Frederick Denison Maurice, Virtue, Vol. 21, no. 1.

[5] Henry Van Dyke in The Upward Path. Christianity Today, Vol. 42, no. 7.

[6] A. W. Tozer in Men Who Met God.  Christianity Today, Vol. 30, no. 15

[7] Ibid, Tozer.

[8] Phillip Yancey, Open Windows, Marriage Partnership, Vol. 5, no. 4.

[9] Manhattan Messenger, Pulpit Helps, May 1996, p. 25.

 [10] The Gospel of John Vol. 1 and 2, The Daily Study Bible Series Revised Edition by William Barclay

[11] Ibid

[12] Amy Carmichael in Edges of His Ways.  Christianity Today, Vol. 39, no. 13.

[13] Richard Allen Farmer, “The ‘What’s’ and the ‘Why’ of Worship,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 150.

[14] Hymn probably composed in the Talmudic period, 3rd-5th century A.D., in Praying with the Jewish Tradition (comp. Elias Kopciowski). Christianity Today, Vol. 41, no. 9.

 

 
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Posted by on February 28, 2015 in Church

 

A Psychiatrist’s Letter to Young People About 50 Shades of Grey


A Psychiatrist’s Letter to Young People About 50 Shades of Grey

By MIRIAM GROSSMAN, M.D.

There’s nothing gray about Fifty Shades of Grey.  It’s all black.

50I help people who are broken inside.  I ask questions, and listen carefully to the answers.

One thing I’ve learned is that young people are utterly confused about love — finding it and keeping it.  They make poor choices, and end up in lots of pain.

I don’t want you to suffer like the people I see in my office, so I’m warning you about a new movie called Fifty Shades of Grey. Even if you don’t see the film, its toxic message is seeping into our culture, and could plant dangerous ideas in your head.

Fifty Shades of Grey is being released for Valentine’s Day, so you’ll think it’s a romance, but don’t fall for it.  The movie is actually about a sick, dangerous relationship filled with physical and emotional abuse.  It seems glamorous, because the actors are gorgeous, have expensive cars and planes, and Beyonce is singing.  You might conclude that Christian and Ana are cool, and that their relationship is acceptable.

Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated! The people behind the movie just want your money; they have no concern whatsoever about you and your dreams.

Abuse is not glamorous or cool.   It is never OK, under any circumstances.

This is what you need to know about Fifty Shades of Grey: as a child, Christian Grey was terribly neglected.  He is confused about love because he never experienced the real thing.  In his mind, love is tangled up with bad feelings like pain and embarrassment.   Christian enjoys hurting women in bizarre ways.  Anastasia is an immature girl who falls for Christian’s looks and wealth, and foolishly goes along with his desires.

In the real world, this story would end badly, with Christian in jail, and Ana in a shelter — or morgue.  Or Christian would continue beating Ana, and she’d stay and suffer.  Either way, their lives would most definitely not be a fairy tale.  Trust me on this one.

As a doctor, I’m urging you: DON’T see Fifty Shades of Grey. Get informed, learn the facts, and explain to your friends why they shouldn’t see it either.

Here are a few of the dangerous ideas promoted by Fifty Shades of Grey:

1.  Girls want guys like Christian who order them around and get rough. No! A psychologically healthy woman avoids pain.  She wants to feel safe, respected and cared for by a man she can trust.  She dreams about wedding gowns, not handcuffs.

2.  Guys want a girl like Anastasia who is meek and insecure.  Wrong.  A psychologically healthy man wants a woman who can stand up for herself.   If he is out of line, he wants her to set him straight.

3.  Anastasia exercises free choice when she consents to being hurt, so no one can judge her decision. Flawed logic.  Sure, Anastasia had free choice — and she chose poorly.  A self-destructive decision is a bad decision.

4.  Anastasia makes choices about Christian in a thoughtful and detached manner. Doubtful.  Christian constantly supplies Anastasia with alcohol, impairing her judgment.   Also, Anastasia becomes sexually active with Christian — her first experience ever — soon after meeting him.  Neuroscience suggests their intimacy could jump start her feelings of attachment and trust, before she’s certain he deserved them.   Sex is a powerful experience — particularly the first time.  Finally, Christian manipulates Anastasia into signing an agreement prohibiting her from telling anyone that he is a long time abuser. Alcohol, sex, manipulation — hardly the ingredients of a thoughtful, detached decision.



5.    Christian’s emotional problems are cured by Anastasia’s love. 

Only in a movie.  In the real world, Christian wouldn’t change to any significant degree.  If Anastasia was fulfilled by helping emotionally disturbed people, she should have become a psychiatrist or social worker.



6.  It’s good to experiment with sexuality. The bottom line: the ideas of Fifty Shades of Grey are dangerous, and can lead to confusion and poor decisions about love.

Maybe for adults in a healthy, long term, committed, monogamous relationship, AKA “marriage”.  Otherwise, you’re at high risk for STDs, pregnancy, and sexual assault.  It’s wise to be very careful who you allow to get close to you, physically and emotionally, because just one encounter can throw you off track and change your life forever.

The bottom line: the ideas of Fifty Shades of Grey are dangerous, and can lead to confusion and poor decisions about love. There are vast differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships, but the movie blurs those differences, so you begin to wonder: “What’s healthy in a relationship?  What’s sick?  There are so many shades of grey — I’m not sure.”

Listen, it’s your safety and future we’re talking about here.  There’s no room for doubt: An intimate relationship that includes violence, consensual or not, is completely unacceptable. This is black and white.  There are no shades of grey here.  Not even one.

 
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Posted by on February 16, 2015 in Article