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Benefits which come from beginning the day with prayer


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1. It enables us to form a habit of close and ultimate union, communion, and fellowship with God. The law and force of habit are well understood; for all men live and act, more or less under the influence of habit. Those who neglect their duty, or engage in sinful practices, will soon find that they are drawn to these things by an invisible and almost irresistible influence.  

They may see many examples to warn them of the dangers which confront them, and they may feel keenly the awful forebodings and warnings of a guilty and an aroused conscience; but, in spite of all these, the force of habit generally overcomes all their fears and feeble resolutions. Under its still-increasing power they continue their neglect, or sinful practices, until their characters have been largely developed; and then it is well-nigh impossible to change them. “An act often repeated hardens into a habit, and a habit long continued petrifies into character.”

thOn the other hand, if one begins his life on the ascending scale, and forms the right kind of habits, he will soon find that he will have little difficulty in ascending still higher and higher on his way to eternal life and a home with God.

These habits become helps and encouragements to him, and will cause him to hunger and thirst after the Kingdom of God and His righteousness.

The habit of prayer, and especially of secret prayer, is altogether in harmony with this general law of habit and the growth and development of human character. In no other religious exercise is one brought so near to God; and in no other can he be so familiar with the Creator of his body and the Father and Preserver of his spirit.

Furthermore, it is a law of nature that one forms attachment to and for those with him he associates, and even becomes like them in his character; and since this is true, it follows that no other act of devotion is so favorable for the cultivation of godliness. Those therefore, who have been most devoted to prayer, in its true sense, have always been the most pious and the happiest of men.

2. It serves to cultivate and educate our spiritual nature. It is generally understood that all parts of our nature are developed and strengthened by exercise; and if that is a law of our human constitution, then what can be more serviceable in the way of spiritual culture than the devotion to the practice of prayer, and especially private prayer?

When one prays in secret there is no motive; to try to deceive God, or to make a vain display of his person, dress, or good works. Instead, his mind turns upon itself; the conscience is awakened; and he sees himself in the light of God.

The practice of secret devotions brings one under the deep and solemn conviction that he is on holy ground, and that the eye of God is upon him; and with that feeling he is almost compelled to be humble, to repent of his sins, to forgive those who have sinned against him, to sympathize with the afflicted, to love and honor the Lord, and to endeavor to exercise all the powers of his being in harmony with the will of God.

There is, therefore, a deep significance in the words of Jesus: “But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thine inner chamber, and having shut thy door, pray to thy Father who is in secret, and thy Father who seeth in secret shall recompense thee.” (Matt. 6:6).

3. It serves to preserve us from many evils. It is impossible to live in this world without coming in contact with the influence of evil to some extent.

(John 17:15)  My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one.

(1 Corinthians 5:9)  I have written you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people–

(Ephesians 6:10-15)  Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. {11} Put on the full armor of God so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. {12} For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. {13} Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. {14} Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, {15} and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace.

The worst enemies that anyone has are his lusts and passions.prayer

(James 1:13-16)  When tempted, no one should say, “God is tempting me.” For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone; {14} but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. {15} Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death. {16} Don’t be deceived, my dear brothers.

(1 Peter 2:1-2)  Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind. {2} Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation,

4. It secures to us and for us much positive good by fulfilling a condition upon which God has promised to bestow His blessings. Some have erroneously supposed that the influence of prayer is wholly subjective, or, at least, that it never extends beyond the narrow limits of our own earthly associations. The Bible, however, plainly teaches that God hears the prayers of His faithful children, and that He is influenced for good by them.

5. Prayer is a powerful and divinely appointed means of convicting, sanctifying and saving others. This is especially true of the family. The relation of the parent to a child is one of the nearest, dearest, and most interesting on earth; and for that reason it involves an influence which is peculiar to itself.

The example of the parent is to the child, during the most tender and impressible period of its existence, the standard of all that is right, noble, and magnanimous. The child’s greatest concern is to imitate the parent, whether it be good or bad; and if the parent prays or neglects to pray, he may expect the child to follow.

The parent, therefore, is responsible for the proper exercise of the influence of prayer over his child; and it will be a terrible thing for him to stand before the Judge of all the earth and have his child say to him, “You were responsible for bringing me into the world, but you never taught me to read and study the Bible and to pray to the heavenly Father; and now it is too late.”

Heaven is full of answers to prayers for which no one ever bothered to ask. On a gloomy day in 1857 a man in New York City by the name of Jeremiah Lanthier scanned the morning newspaper as he rode to his office. He was distressed to read that the depression gripping the nation was causing fear and panic among the people. Factories were stopping production and thousands were unemployed. Although Lanthier was not a big industrialist, but only a clerk, he had one important distinction. He was a man who had great faith in God!

Concerned with the grim economic situation, he sent a note to all his business acquaintances, telling them that each day at noon a prayer meeting would be held in his office. With high hopes he arranged 20 chairs in a circle, but the first day no one came. All alone he prayed fervently that God would bring about a great change in him and in America. The second day he was encouraged, for a few friends joined him. A short time later a similar gathering was started on Wall Street, another on Williams Street, and finally a fourth on Broadway. Then like wildfire the movement spread to all parts of the country. The moral tone of the nation was affected, and there was a great upsurge in the spiritual life of the people. Some historians say that this effort of united prayer and faith was an integral part of the improvement in the economy which soon followed.

I learned early in life that we need to be careful what we pray for, because God might grant it. I prayed for patience, and it seemed my whole world fell apart…..disaster, difficulty, and despair one after the other. My mother had a simple explanation: “you prayed for patience and God put you in circumstances when patience was required.”

The following is also true: I asked God to take away my pride, and God said, “NO.” He said it was not for Him to take away, but for me to give it up. I asked God to make my handicapped child whole, and God said, “NO.” He said the child’s spirit is whole, the body is only temporary. I asked God to grant me patience and God said, “NO.” He said that patience is a by product of tribulation. It isn’t granted it’s earned. I asked God to give me happiness and God said, “NO.” He said He gives blessings, happiness is up to me. I asked God to spare me pain, and God said, “NO.” He said suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to Me. I asked God to make my spirit grow, and God said, “NO.” He said I must grow on my own, But He will prune me to make me fruitful. I asked God if He loved me, and God said, “YES.” He gave me his only Son who died for me, and I will be in Heaven someday because I believe. I asked God to help me love others as much as He loves me, and God said, “AH, FINALLY, YOU HAVE THE IDEA.”

Many successful people have acknowledged in their memoirs that whenever they came to an impasse in their work and were completely baffled, they sought wisdom from the Lord.

This was true in the life of the inventor of the telegraph, Samuel F. B. Morse. In an interview, George Hervey inquired, “Professor Morse, when you were making your experiments at the university, did you ever come to a standstill, not knowing what to do next?” “I’ve never discussed this with anyone, so the public knows nothing about it. But now that you ask me, I’ll tell you frankly — I prayed for more light” “And did God give you the wisdom and knowledge you needed?” Yes He did,” said Morse. “That’s why I never felt I deserved the honors that came to me from America and Europe because of the invention associated with my name. I had made a valuable application of the use of electrical power, but it was all through God’s help. It wasn’t because I was superior to other scientists. When the Lord wanted to bestow this gift on mankind. He had to use someone. I’m just grateful He chose to reveal it to me.” In view of these facts, it’s not surprising that the inventor’s first message over the telegraph was: “What hath God wrought!”

Every time you face a perplexing problem, seek wisdom from above. And when the answer comes, always be sure to thank God and give Him all the glory.

Good advice for difficult times? A sign in front of a church carried this admonition: “When your knees knock together, kneel on them.” That’s good advice! Quieting our hearts before God will calm our fears and renew our courage.

 
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Posted by on March 30, 2015 in Article

 

The Meaning of the Miracles  Mark 4: 35-41


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It is a sad truth is that many theologians throughout the history of the church have not taken any of the miracles of our Lord seriously. The Jews of our Lord’s day did not challenge the actual events, but rather the power by which these miracles were performed (cf. Mark 3:22ff.)

The heathen Greek did not challenge the miraculous event either, but only its interpretation.93 Others, such as Spinoza, held the pantheistic view that miracles were contrary to the nature of God.94

Miracles were considered impossible by Spinoza because of his presuppositions. Skeptics, like Hume, held that miracles are simply incredible, because they contradict man’s normal experience.95 Since Hume doubted that nothing could be known with absolute certainty, those phenomenon which took place outside of the normal course of nature could never be accepted as true.

Schleiermacher and others explained the miraculous in terms of the unknown and misunderstood. Our Lord’s miracles were ‘relative miracles,’ as a savage might consider television, which he does not understand.96 The Rationalistic School would have men believe that Christ never claimed to perform any miracles. Only those who sought the spectacular found something miraculous in the records.97 Christ did not change the water to wine at Cana, but merely provided a new supply of wine. He did not walk on the water, but on the nearby shore. Others, Like Woolston have found the Gospel miracles to have no factual or historical validity, but are merely ‘tales’ which contain a much deeper spiritual truth.98

Such are the views of the skeptics and critics of God’s Word. But for the sincere student of Scripture, there is no satisfaction in these theories. The miracles are an integral part of our Lord’s ministry. They not only authenticate His message; they are a vital part of it.99

The Terms Employed

The miraculous works of our Lord Jesus were communicated by the use of three primary terms, each of which accentuated one particular facet of the supernatural activity of Christ. These three terms are found together in several passages. “Men of Israel, listen to these words: Jesus the Nazarene, a man attested to you by God with miracles and wonders and signs which God performed through Him in your midst, just as you yourselves know” (Acts 2:22, cf. also 2 Corinthians 12:12; 2 Thessalonians 2:9).

The term ‘miracle’ (dunamis), emphasizes the mighty work that has been done, and, in particular, the power by which it was accomplished. The event is described in terms of the power of God in action.

If ‘miracle’ emphasizes the cause of the miraculous event, ‘wonder’ (teras) , underscores its effect on those who are witnesses. On many occasions, the crowds (even the disciples) were amazed and astonished by the works of our Lord (e.g. Mark 2:12; 4:41; 6:51, etc.). Origen pointed out long ago that this term ‘wonder’ is never employed alone in the New Testament, but always in conjunction with some other term which suggests something far greater than a mere spectacle.100

The most pregnant term used with reference to the miracles of our Lord is ‘sign’ (se„meion), which focuses upon the deeper meaning of the miracle.101 A sign is a miracle which conveys a truth about our Lord Jesus. A miracle is usually a sign, but a sign need not always be a miracle (cf. Luke 2:12).

The miracles of our Lord are at one and the same time a visible manifestation of divine power (miracle) an awe-inspiring spectacle (wonder), and an instructive revelation about God (sign).102

Classification of the Miracles

Perhaps the most common classification of the miracles of our Lord is into three categories: (1) those which pertain to nature; (2) those which pertain to man; and, (3) those which pertain to the spirit world.103

I find it helpful to distinguish between what can be called ‘Class A’ and ‘Class B’ miracles. ‘Class A’ miracles overrule or transcend the laws of nature. Such would be the case of our Lord’s walking on the water (Mark 6:45-52). Here the law of gravity was overruled. ‘Class B’ miracles do not overtly violate natural laws. For example, the stilling of the storm did not appear to violate any natural law. Storms on this lake, we are told, stopped as quickly as they commenced. The fact that it stopped at the time of our Lord’s rebuke is evidence of His sovereignty over nature. ‘Class B’ miracles would be viewed by unbelievers as mere coincidence. ‘Class A’ miracles, such as the raising of Lazarus were an outright affront to natural laws and processes (thus the statement, ‘he stinks’ in John 11:39, stressing the normal course of nature). Both categories, ‘Class A’ and ‘Class B,’ are miracles, but ‘Class A’ miracles are more undeniably so to the skeptic.

Characteristics of the Miracles of Our Lord

Miraculous deeds were not unknown to the age in which our Lord revealed Himself to men. But the miracles which He accomplished were far different than those claimed by other religions. For a few moments, we shall attempt to characterize the miracles of our Lord:104

(1) They were truly historical. In the Gospel accounts, the writers have not presented the miracles of our Lord as anything other than actual events. They are not true myths, mythical stories with ‘spiritual lessons,’ but real events conveying spiritual truths. The Miracles of other religions are far more mythical in nature. Though perhaps not precisely stated, we can sense a kind of ‘once upon a time’ mood. Not so in the Gospels.

(2) They were reasonable. The miracles of the Apocryphal Gospels are fantastic and questionable.105 They are completely out of character, with Jesus arbitrarily and capriciously using His supernatural powers. In contrast, the Gospels show a highly ethical use of His power, in a way totally consistent with His person.

(3) They were useful. Almost every miracle of our Lord was designed to meet a physical need. Our Lord refused to employ His powers to satisfy His own appetites, or to ensure His protection. He turned down every invitation to do the miraculous to satisfy idle curiosity (cf. Luke 23:8).

(4) They were accomplished openly. The miracles were performed in the most public situations, not oft in a dark corner. While so many alleged ‘miracles’ of today defy documentation, those of our Lord were mainly public.

(5) They were accomplished simply. Others who claimed to be ‘miracle workers’ always operated with a great deal of ritual and ceremony. A ‘miracle’ was an extravaganza, a carrying-on with pomp and circumstance. Our Lord most often merely spoke a word, and at times performed His miraculous deeds at a distance (cf. Matthew 8:5-13).

(6) They were accomplished instantly. With very few exceptions, the miracles of Jesus were completed instantly and completely.

(7) They were accomplished in a variety of circumstances. While some could do their deeds only under the most controlled environment, Jesus did His works under a great variety of circumstances. His powers were demonstrated over nature, over sickness and disease, and over the forces of Satan. The sicknesses He healed were of amazing variety.106

(8) They were accomplished on the basis of faith. The miracles of the Gospels were accomplished on the basis of faith, either that of our Lord (cf. John 11:41-43), or of the one cured (cf. Mark 5:34), or of others who are concerned (cf. Matthew 8:10, Mark 2:5). Where there was little faith, little was accomplished (cf. Mark 6:5,6).

(9) They were gratuitous. While in the cults, a fee of payments was expected, the miracles of our Lord were free of charge. No fee was expected or accepted. Our Lord’s ministry, from start to finish, was one of grace.

(10) They were free from retaliation. With the possible exception of the cursing of the fig tree (Mark 11:12-14) none of the miracles of Jesus were of a punitive or negative variety. This is in contrast, not only to the desires of his own disciples (Luke 9:52-56), but also the practices of other ‘healers’ of His day, and even of what often occurred in the Old Testament.107

(11) They were eschatological. The miracles of Jesus were evidence of the dawn of a new age. With the presentation of Jesus as Messiah, a new age had begun. He had come to restore man from his fallen state, and creation from the chaos resulting from sin. He had come to restore and to save. Man had been placed an the earth to rule over it. When the last Adam (Jesus Christ) came nature immediately recognized its master. When our Lord confronted sickness and disease He mastered it. He came to save, and thus the word often used for healing was ‘to save.’108

The Purpose of the Miracles

Several purposes emerge from the Scriptures for the exercise of miracles by our Lord.

(1) They attracted men. Though not the primary thrust of our Lord’s miraculous ministry, one outcome was that His miracles attracted men and women who were anxious to hear His message. To many, His deeds were at least those of a prophet (cf. John 3:2; 4:19). Here was a man with a message from God.

Our Lord made many attempts to avoid the spectacular and to arouse misdirected Messianic hopes (Matthew 8:4; 12:16; 16:20, etc.). But we must also recall that it was the miraculous healing ministry of Jesus which drew the multitudes to the place where the Sermon on the Mount was delivered (Matthew 4:24-25).

(2) They accredited Jesus. It was expected that when Messiah came He would be accredited by miracles. When our Lord presented Himself at the synagogue in Nazareth, He quoted a passage from Isaiah chapter 61:

“And the book of the prophet Isaiah was handed to Him. And He opened the book, and found the place where it was written, ‘The Spirit of the Lord is upon Me, because He anointed Me to preach the gospel to the poor. He has sent Me to proclaim release to the captives, and recovery of sight to the blind, to set free those who are downtrodden, to proclaim the favorable year of the Lord” (Luke 4:17-19) .

The people expected Messiah to present Himself by signs (John 7:31). Our Lord’s power over demons demonstrates the coming of the Kingdom: “But if I cast out demons by the finger of God, then the Kingdom of God has come upon you” (Luke 11:20). By reason of His work alone, men should receive Him as Messiah (John 10:37-38).

(3) They reveal God. As we have previously noted, the miracles of Jesus were not merely deeds to authenticate the message of Messiah, but a vital part of that message. The miracles not only revealed the power of God, but His person. In the miracles of Jesus we see the sympathy and compassion of God. Jesus was deeply moved by human suffering and need (cf. John 11:35). These needs prompted Him to action. Again, the miracles reveal Jesus to be the Redeemer and Restorer of a fallen universe. He came to save.

 
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Posted by on March 26, 2015 in Article

 

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Posted by on March 25, 2015 in Sermon

 

Overcoming Disappointment


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One of the biggest causes of anger is disappointment over not getting what we expect. We expect life to work out in our favor–we want to be loved and appreciated and all that. But the truth is we’ll never get everything we want or expect. If we can accept that fact, it will do a lot to minimize our big disappointments. Disappointment is often the salt of life. [1]

John Calvin understood it when he expressed that we should “…let us not cease to do the utmost that we may incessantly go forward in the way of the Lord; and let us not despair because of the smallness of our accomplishments.”

disappointment-signLife often comes in horrible waves of despair and disappointment. But behind those realities is also the goal of discipline, with the purpose of character and holiness:

“And you have forgotten that word of encouragement that addresses you as sons: “My son, do not make light of the Lord’s discipline, and do not lose heart when he rebukes you, because the Lord disciplines those he loves, and he punishes everyone he accepts as a son.” Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as sons. For what son is not disciplined by his father? If you are not disciplined (and everyone undergoes discipline), then you are illegitimate children and not true sons. Moreover, we have all had human fathers who disciplined us and we respected them for it. How much more should we submit to the Father of our spirits and live! Our fathers disciplined us for a little while as they thought best; but God disciplines us for our good, that we may share in his holiness. No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”(Hebrews 12:5-11).

Robert Hamilton understood this eternal concept and expressed it well:

“I walked a mile with Pleasure, She chattered all the way,

And left me none the wiser, For all she had to say.

“I walked a mile with Sorrow, And not a word said she.

But oh, the things I learned from her, When Sorrow walked with me.”

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[1] Theodore Parker, Instant Quotation Dictionary, p. 97.

 
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Posted by on March 25, 2015 in Sermon

 

Modern denominational myths


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In our present age many myths are being circulated as biblical truths. In this article we will examine some of them.

1. Salvation by Faith Only.
One myth being circulated which is contrary to God’s Word is that we are saved by faith only. Romans 5:1 tells us we are justified by faith. James 2:24 tells us we are justified by works and not by faith only. Is there a contradiction between these two scriptures. No! James 2:24 says in essence “Yes, you are justified by faith, but not by faith alone, some works are required.” Do we then merit our salvation? No, salvation comes only by undeserved favor or grace. We do however have to follow God’s plan to accept or receive that grace. Faith defined is “A conviction of things not seen”. We must have faith. “Without faith it is impossible to please God…” Hebrews 11:6. So we see that faith is essential to seo-myths-mythbustersalvation but in itself it is useless. James says, “Faith if it has not works is dead.” No one, not I anyone else, refutiates the fact that we are saved and justified by faith, Ephesians 2:8 and Romans 5:1 both say so, but it is not faith alone because James 2:24 says so.

You say it is confusing. No, not really. Let me illustrate. Say you have a real bad infection and you go to the doctor. He tells you to fill the prescription he lays down in front of you and you will be made well. Faith tells you he knows what he is talking about and that following his instructions will save you heartaches. Now the question is “Does that faith by itself make you well?” Of course not! It does however cause you to fill the prescription and follow the doctor’s orders to the letter.

The same principle applies to God’s Word, the Bible. It tells us that faith in Jesus as the Son of God, His death and resurrection will save us from sin, but it goes on to say faith alone will not save. For faith to be any good, it must immediately be followed by action. The faith does not save, but it leads us to take certain steps which do save us. So then in the sense that faith leads us to obey Jesus” commandments, it does save. That is what the Hebrew writer, Paul and James were saying. Faith saves only in that it leads us to obey.

2. Saved by Faith and Repentance Only.
Another fallacy in our modern day religious circles is that if we have faith and repent only we will be saved. The Bible very clearly lays down a pattern through which we may be saved. Though repentance is a necessary part of salvation, salvation does not stop there. We see in Luke 13:3 and Acts 17:30 that repentance is commanded. We cannot be saved without repenting, just as we could not be saved without faith, believing. To be saved without repenting would be to say, “Okay God, save me, but I want to continue to sin against you and never come to realize my sins hurt and grieve you or turn from them.” To repent means literally to turn, to change one’s mind.

Paul says to repent we must first be sorry for our sins ( 2 Corinthians 7:10 ). Being sorry then is not repentance, but it leads us to repent. Who can be truly sorry for doing wrong, and continue to do so? If we truly are sorry, then we will repent or turn from sin?

3. Faith, Repentance, Confession alone are not Salvation.
In other religious circles it is taught that if we have faith or believe, repent and confess only we will be saved. Although admittedly Romans 10:10 says if we confess we shall be saved, we cannot say that salvation stops at confession without doing a great injustice to the Bible, God’s Word. We know that without coming into contact with Christ’s blood we cannot be saved. Confession does not bring us into contact with His blood nor does faith and repentance. Without confession though, we cannot be saved. Luke 12:8,9 says so. We must confess Christ before men for Him to  onfess us before God. If we deny Him, He’ll deny us!! Our confessions must be by mouth. ( Romans 10:10 ). We cannot sign a card or such thing. We must verbally confess our belief in Christ.

4. To be saved we do not confess our sins.
Many would have us think that to be saved we must confess our sins. There is no scriptural authority for this. Christians are instructed to confess their sins. (1 John 1:9 ) and do so before men (James 5:16 ) where their faults are concerned, but with praying for forgiveness this applies ONLY to Christians. 

5. Baptism does not save.
Such a statement is contrary to all the apostles taught, Jesus ordered, and history shows! In Mark 16:16, Jesus said, “He who believes and is baptized shall be saved, but he who believes not ( hasn’t faith ) is damned.” People in most religious circles like to omit baptism in the first part of this statement and over emphasize “believes not” in the second part. I agree one hundred percent that if we do not believe (have faith) it is impossible to please God! That does not however release us from the command to be baptized. Contrary to what they teach, the Bible teaches that baptism is essential by reason for it, what it does and the actions of the early preachers and apostles!

Let us consider why we are to be baptized.

  • (A) Baptism was commanded by Jesus ( Matthew 28:18,19; Mark 16:16 ).
  • (B) Baptism is for the remission or forgiveness of sins. We all know that when we are saved our sins are forgiven. It is impossible to be saved otherwise. Acts 2:38 makes it clear that if our sins are to be forgiven we must “repent and be baptized for the remission of sins.” The word remission here means “pardon” or “forgiveness”. That is real clear then that for forgiveness of sins we are to be baptized.
  • The apostle Paul was told at his conversion “Arise and be baptized and wash away thy sins” ( Acts 22:16 ). Notice here that Ananias would not wait, he wanted it done right then. He says, “Why tarriest thou; arise and be baptized and wash away thy sins.” Even though Jesus told Ananias He had a special purpose in Paul. Ananias would take no risks and he rushed to get him baptized then and there. It must have been extremely important then, wouldn’t you say?
  • Another important scripture to consider is Galatians 3:27, not to mention Romans 6:3. These both say, we are “baptized into Christ.”

What is in Christ? “Spiritual blessings” ( Ephesians 1:3 ); “no condemnation” ( Romans 8:1 ); “eternal life” ( 1 John 5:11,12); “salvation” ( 2 Timothy 2:10 ). How do we get into Christ to receive all these things? Baptism! ( Romans 6:3; Galatians 3:27). Baptism then is important! Even essential! 1 Peter 3:21 says, “The like figure whereunto even baptism doth also now save us…”

6. Baptism does not refer to water.
Many will say, “Well, baptism does not refer to water, it refers to the spirit.” Just two points to mention on that subject. First, Jesus refers to being born of the water and of the Spirit in John 3:5. They will refutiate that by saying water means physical birth. The very verse before it tells us differently as do the context and circumstances. It is very clear from the previous verse that Nicodemus knew Jesus was talking about a “second birth” and the context of the whole scripture tells us that is what Jesus meant. For this to have meant physical birth Jesus would have insulted the intelligence of Nicodemus. Nicodemus was a member of the Sanhedren, the Jewish ruling council. I think he had enough sense to know that if you were to do something the second time you had to have done it the first! I just cannot picture my Lord and Savior as being so arrogant as to spring that newsflash on an old man!

Second, Romans 6:4 says, “We are buried in baptism, so that like Christ was raised from the dead, so we can be to walk in the newness of life”. Couple this with John 3:5 and the other scriptures we have studied such as Galatians 3:27 and those referring to all things being in Christ and add to all this one dash of Acts 10:47 in which Cornelius and his family have already received Holy Spirit baptism and Peter wants them baptized in water and what do you have? WATER BAPTISM: resulting in the second birth.

We are buried with Christ, ( Romans 6:4 ) in water baptism ( Acts 10:47; 8:37-38 ) and raised to newness of life ( Romans 6:4 ). This obviously is the second birth spoken of in John 3:5. Baptism then brings us in contact with Christ ( Romans 6:3; Galatians 3:27 ) and hence forth His blood where in is atonement for our sins.

We see then that to be saved we must have faith and believe ( Hebrews 11:6; John 3:24 ) but believing only is not enough nor is faith only (James 2:19,24 ) or the devils would be saved.

We must also repent, which is merely changing one’s mind, no prayers involved. Then we must confess Christ and our belief in Him ( Luke 12:3,9; Romans 10:9,10; Acts 17:30; Luke 13:3; John 9:31 ).

Then we must be baptized for remission of sins, ( Acts 2:38 ), to get into Christ ( Galatians 3:27; Romans 6:3 ) to obtain salvation which is in Christ ( 2 Timothy 2:10 ). 

7. Baptism is sprinkling or pouring.

This cannot be so! We see from Romans 6:3-5 that baptism is a burial so it couldn’t possibly be done by sprinkling or pouring, but would have to be done by immersion.

For what reason were you baptized? Were you saved by the above method? Were you baptized before you were saved, for the remission of sins following belief, repentance, and confession of faith? We see in Ephesians 4:5 there is only one baptism. It is before salvation for remission of sins and to get into Christ ( Galatians 3:27; Romans 6:3) where salvation lies ( 2 Timothy 2:10 ). It is a burial, signifying submersion or immersion.

Baptism alone after you are saved does not count, or for any reason besides remission of sins does not count or without faith, belief, repentance and confession of faith does not count or by any means other than immersion such as sprinkling, pouring does not count or by any authority other than Christ ( Matthew 28:18,19 ) does not count.

Do you fall under any of these? There is a Church of Christ in your community. Contact them and they will be glad to Scripturally baptize you. Call on them, will you? Don’t wait another minute because it may then be too late ( James 4:14 ), and good intentions will not save (Matthew 7:21-23 ).

Please do not take our word as final on anything you read here. May God bless you as you search for His truth!

 
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Posted by on March 20, 2015 in Church, Doctrine

 

“Disappointments New Christians Face”


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There is great joy in seeing new Christians grow in the faith:
(2 John 1:4) “It has given me great joy to find some of your children walking in the truth, just as the Father commanded us.”

(3 John 1:3-4) “It gave me great joy to have some brothers come and tell about your faithfulness to the truth and how you continue to walk in the truth. {4} I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”

Unfortunately not all new Christians grow as they should. Problems and disappointments often overwhelm them, and some even fall away.

This ought to concern older Christians, for we have a responsibility to those who are young in the faith:

(Rom 15:1-2) “We who are strong ought to bear with the failings of the weak and not to please ourselves. {2} Each of us should please his neighbor for his good, to build him up.”

(Gal 6:1-2) “Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted. {2} Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

1. SAME WEAKNESSES AS BEFORE (Disappointed with themselves)
Many become Christians with joyful anticipation…

1. Excited about forgiveness of sins…
2. ” the chance to start over…”
3. “the help God is going to give them to change…”

…but they soon discover….
1. That the temptations are just as strong as before (sometimes even stronger!)

2. They can easily be discouraged and overcome

HOW CAN WE HELP?

1. By teaching them that “transformation” is an on-going process:
(Rom 12:1-2) “I urge you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living and holy sacrifice, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service of worship. {2} And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.”

2. By reminding them of God’s willingness to forgive and provide strength???????????????????????????
(Phil 2:12-13) “Therefore, my dear friends, as you have always obeyed–not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence–continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling, {13} for it is God who works in you to will and to act according to his good purpose.”

(1 John 1:9) “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.”

(1 John 2:1) “My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our defense–Jesus Christ, the Righteous One.”

2. IMPERFECT CHRISTIANS (Disappointed by their brethren)
They witness inconsistency in the lives of others…
1. They see those who do not practice what they preach

2. It really hurts when seen in those they had looked up to
3. But this problem is not a new one

Ill treatment  by Christians…
1. May occur in Bible classes, business meetings, at work, at play

2. Harsh words can be devastating to those new in the faith

WHAT CAN WE DO?
1. First, set better examples!

(1 Tim 4:12) “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in life, in love, in faith and in purity.”

2. Confess wrong when it occurs

3. Help the new Christian realize that older Christians are ALSO going through the process of “transformation”

(Phil 3:12-14) “Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. {13} Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But
one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, {14} I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.”

3. TRIALS AND TEMPTATIONS (Disappointed by the world)
Such as pleasures and responsibilities of the world…
1. Often drawing the new Christian away (e.g., job, family, hobbies)…choking them to the point of unfruitfulness. Discouragement by unconverted friends and family…

2. Want them to come back to the things of the world

3. As Paul warned in (1 Cor 15:33-34) “Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.” {34} Come back to your senses as you ought, and stop sinning; for there are some who are ignorant of God—I say this to your shame?”

 WHAT CAN WE DO?

1. Demonstrate what it means to “seek first the kingdom of God”
2. Make it clear by our own example who it is we love the most (i.e., not our jobs, hobbies, etc.)
3. Develop close friendships with new Christians IN THE LORD; friendships centered around Christ and His work

4. FALSE CONCEPTIONS ABOUT PROSPERITY (Disappointed by lack of success)
Thinking that now all our problems will go away…an idea propagated by the gospel of health and wealth” teachers.

 But such is not always the case, even as it was in the days of the first century (James 1:2-4) “Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, {3} because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. {4} Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.”

(1 Pet 1:6-9) “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. {7} These have come so that your faith–of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire–may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. {8} Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, {9} for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your
souls.”

We need to prepare new Christians for possible adversity; this need is especially great because Satan often strikes hardest when one is new in the faith

5. TOO MUCH “NEGATIVE” TEACHING (Disappointed by their teachers)
1. Certainly there is a place for learning about those in error

2. But there can be dangers involved in doing so…
   a. If it is done in an arrogant, self-righteous spirit
   b. If it is done to make us feel good or superior
   c. If it is done to the exclusion of learning what WE need to do

3. If we are not careful, it can create carnal Christians, given to strife and envy

When “negative teaching” is called for…
1. It should be done: for the purpose of trying to understand and each those in
error…out of love for those in error. It should be done as Paul did it…

   a. With prayer for their souls

   b. With recognition for their accomplishments

3. It should be done with the qualities mentioned in (2 Tim 2:24-26) “And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. {25} Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, {26} and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.”

CONCLUSION
It may help to quickly point that Christians generally go through four stages of spiritual growth…

a. The “ball of fire” stage, following their conversion to Christ
b. The “reality” stage, when the disappointments start to come in
c. The “up and down” stage…here, people either grow through it to the next stage…or they fall away, or become apathetic (i.e., “pew-warmers”)
d. Finally, those who persevere reach the stage of “steady as she goes”, where growth is progressive and steady:

 
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What about Israel and the Jews? Acts 28:16-20


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A Quick Review Of Other Millennial Assertions.

Daniel 9:24-27 is supposed to represent a “prophetic clock” that stops ticking at the death of Christ and does not start ticking again until seven years of tribulation, recorded in the book of Revelation, at the “first phase” of the Second Coming of Christ.

Where is the gap?  Where does the Bible show that the “clock” stops for 2000 years before it resumes ticking?

Why not let the 70 weeks of Daniel be literal like the 1000 years of Revelation (dispensationalists commonly say the weeks are actually 490 years)?

Revelation 20:1-6 is alleged to show a literal 1000 year reign of Christ, on the earth, on David’s throne. Where is the earth mentioned in Revelation 20:1-6)?  Is Satan’s chain literal, and if not, why in a book of symbols should the 1000 years be literal?  Where is Jerusalem and David’s throne in Revelation 20:1-6?

The book of Revelation has the Father and the Son located in heaven (4:1; 5:1, 6; 6:9-11).  he slain of Revelation 6:9-11 were to wait in God’s presence until the full number of martyrs came in—the very thing that happens in Revelation 20:4. This is a heavenly scene.

What Christians Need To Be Doing As They Face The Millennium.

Matthew 24:42-51 makes it clear that since we do not know when Jesus will return, we should live in faith at all times.  alking in the light is the way of security (I Jn. 1:7).  Seeking God’s kingdom and His righteousness are first priorities (Matt. 6:33).  God gives glory to the quiet, everyday kind of faith (I Thess. 4:11-12).  Those who have relied on sensational things rather than on simple trust and obedience will be disappointed (Matt. 7:21-23).

WHAT ABOUT ISRAEL AND THE JEWS? (Acts 28:16-20)

INTRODUCTION

  1. R.DeHaan said, “Following the Rapture of the church, God will gather Israel into Canaan, rebuild the temple, re-establish the Old Testament form of worship and sacrifices.”
    1. Christ then appears to set up the earthly kingdom with Jerusalem as its capital.
  2. Hal Lindsey – “Late Great Planet Earth” pp. 42-47
    1. Uses Matthew 24 to teach a rebuilt temple.
    2. Israel restored to her land.
    3. Sacrificial system and Sabbath re-instituted.
  3. According to Pre-Mill., the land promises God made to Israel have not been fulfilled, and were eternal in nature.
  4. Questions to be answered:
    1. What were the promises God made to Israel?
    2. Have these promises been fulfilled?
    3. Were those promises conditional or unconditional?
    4. Where is the “Israel of God” today?
  1. WHAT WERE THE PROMISES GOD MADE TO ISRAEL? (Gen. 12:1-7; 13:14-17).
    1. God promised Abram:
      1. A new land.
      2. Would be a great nation
      3. God would bless him and make his name great
      4. Through Abram, all families of the earth would be blessed.
      5. Physical and spiritual blessings.
    2. What land was promised?
      1. The land he traveled to upon the command of God (Gen. 12:6-7).
      2. The larger land of Canaan (Gen. 15:18; Ex. 23:30-31) to the river Euphrates.
      3. Promises made to Abraham and His seed (Gen. 17:8; Ex. 6:4-8).

 II. HAVE THESE PROMISES BEEN FULFILLED?

  1. Land of Promise has been fulfilled (Deut. 1:7-8; Joshua 21:43-45; 2 Samuel 8:3; 2 Chron 9:26; Neh. 9:7-8).
  2. When was this promise fulfilled?
    1. Following the bondage in Egypt as Moses let Israel to and Joshua lead them into the Canaan Land.
    2. Abraham himself received not one foot of Canaan – but his seed did.
    3. Pre-Mill. say that Abraham must be raised from the dead to enter millennial kingdom in order to possess the land.
    4. Stephen said “the time drew near” while Israel was in Egyptian bondage (Acts 7:17).

III. WERE LAND PROMISES CONDITIONAL OR UNCONDITIONAL?

  1. Pre-Mill. say unconditional (Gen. 17:7-8). “Everlasting covenant”
    1. Word translated “everlasting” means “age-lasting.” Same for Sabbath and other O.T. rituals which are not kept today.
    2. As long as Law of Moses lasted, these things lasted. When Law of Moses ended, these things ended.
  2. Notice the conditions of keeping the land (Deut. 8:19-20; 28:29-30, 63, 64; Josh. 23:14-16; 1 Kings 9:3-7).
  3. Israel lost their land.
    1. Northern Kingdom carried away by Assyria.
    2. Southern Kingdom carried away by Babylon (2 Chron. 36:17-19).
  4. Restoration promises (Deut. 30:1-3; Ezek. 37:11-22; Isa. 10:20-23 (remnant return) Jer. 30:3).
  5. Has Israel been restored? (2 Chron. 36:20-23; Jer. 25:11-13; Ezra 9:9).
    1. All prophecies concerning the return to the land, rebuilding of the temple, etc., were made prior to 516 B.C. Since the rebuilding of the temple of that time – following a return to Palestine – there have been no prophecies concerning a return to the land or a rebuilding of the temple.
  1. WHO ARE THE ISRAEL – JEWS OF GOD TODAY?
  1. Jesus spoke of a “new kingdom” to the Jews of his day (Matt. 21:41-45; 23:38; 24:1-35).
  2. Circumcision nor uncircumcision avail anything – but new creature (Gal. 5:6).
  3. Christians are now God’s Jews – God’s Israel (Rom. 2:28-29; Gal. 3:26-29; Rom. 4:13-16; 9:7-8).
  4. Conversion destroys nationality (Col. 3:10-11).
  5. Paul’s allegory of two women (Gal. 4:21-31).
    1. Two women are two covenants – OLD AND NEW.
    2. Two sons – two nations – fleshly and spiritual.
    3. Hagar and Ishmael had nothing in common with Sarah and Isaac. National Israel has nothing in common with spiritual Israel.
    4. Final verdict – “Cast out the bondwoman and her son.” National Israel cannot have an inheritance with Spiritual Israel.  CHRISTIANS ARE THE ONLY ISRAEL GOD HAS TODAY!
  6. Can Jews be saved today?
    1. Yes, all men come to God the same way, through Christ (Eph. 2:14-18).
    2. The same gospel is for all (Matt. 28:18-20).
    3. Great commission was for the Jews also (Acts 10:34-43).
    4. Paul’s prayer for Israel was “that they might be saved” (Rom. 10:1-4).
    5. No New Testament passages affirm or predict a return of Jews to Palestine and a second chance to accept Christ as Messiah. It is now or never!

CONCLUSION

  1. God promised Israel the Canaan land and they occupied that land hundreds of years ago.
  2. The nation God promised to make of Abram’s seed no longer exists as it did in Old Testament times.

(appreciation to Bill Craddock for much of this material)

 
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What is the basis for our security?


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First, the sovereignty of God is the basis for our security. We dare not be confident in ourselves. We dare not doubt that we shall be more than conquerors. This would be to deny His Word and to distrust God. We, like Paul, should be absolutely convinced concerning these things, based upon the Word of God. Our security is rooted in God, in His sovereignty, and in His unfailing love.

securitySecond, our security and confidence in God is the basis for our service. It is not doubt, nor fear, nor guilt which should motivate our service, but a confidence in God mixed with deep and abiding gratitude. Because we are secure in Christ, we may serve. We need not focus on ourselves but on Him. Since He is the “author and finisher of our faith,” we must “fix our eyes on Him” (Hebrews 12:1-2)

Third, our security is never an excuse for sloppiness. Some would abuse the doctrine of God’s sovereignty and the believer’s security. They would sinfully suggest that since God is in control, it matters not what we do. This is just the opposite of the truth. God’s sovereignty is the basis for our diligence and obedience. If we trust in ourselves, this would be folly, because we will fail. But when we trust in God, we know that we ultimately cannot fail and that our efforts are not in vain.

Fourth, the Scriptures never raise any doubt that God will finish what He started at salvation. The question raised in Scripture is not, “Will the saints endure to the end?” The question is rather, “Are we sure that we are in Christ?” The security of the believer is never brought into question in the Scriptures. Whether or not we are a believer is a question which is raised, and rightly so. The Bible gives us the examples to follow (Acts 2:38;  8:4-29; 9:1-20; 22:1-16; 10:1-48; 16:12-15, 22-34; 18:8; 19:1-6).

Fifth, the basis for our salvation and our security is found in the work of Christ on the cross of Calvary. Did you notice that every fear, every dread, in this text is the result of sin? And did you notice as well that every cure goes back to the cross of Calvary?placeforyou2

Here is God’s means of redemption. Here is the measure of His love. Here is the assurance and confidence that God’s purposes and promises will never fail. No wonder we must continually go back to the cross.

We should never grow weary of going back to the cross. Here is where our salvation began. Here is where it was finished. That God sent Jesus to the cross is the measure of His love for us. That God would raise Jesus from the dead is the measure of His power. When such love and power meet, we, as sons of God, have every reason to be confident.

Finally, the security of the believer requires a response. Paul’s conclusion reminds us that biblical revelation requires a response. The security of the believer in the sovereign love of God should produce humility, gratitude, dependence, confidence, and praise.

Let us ponder these closing words of Romans 8, especially in contrast to the agonizing cry at the end of chapter 7. Let us savor our security, and let us stand fast, knowing that our labor in the Lord is not in vain.

 
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A Message for Parents and Grandparents


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How much do you love your children? How much do you love your grandchildren? To conscientious Christians, children and grandchildren represent one of life’s most important and unique treasures.

Few sacrifices are rejected if their well being is at stake. Regardless of circumstances, their well being is priority for parents or grandparents. At birth our concern is enormous, and that concern grows as they grow. In adolescent years, our concern passes description.

thFrom years one to twenty-one, we make every possible preparation for their development and future. Does my child have a learning disability? Where can I get help for my child? Does my child have a medical problem? Where can I get treatment for my cindexrca-bhild? Does my child need special training? Where can I find it for my child?

We provide them the best educational opportunity we can afford. We create special opportunities for them in every form of development from athletics to talent. We alter our adult schedule and run ourselves crazy for them. We do everything possible to build their self-images, develop their skills, teach them poise, and give them advantages mentally, psychologically, and physically.

I pray you consider for a long time these things I share with you.

We as Christians understand parents have a spiritual responsibility to provide our children spiritual instruction and guidance.

That responsibility existed from Christianity’s beginning.

Ephesians 6:1-4 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise), so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” (This refers to one of the Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20:12 with its focus on the responsibility on adult children.)

Parents focused indexrcc-bon God provide their children a reason to obey them.

  • If they honor God, they can obey their parents without problem.
  • Parents have not abused them, neglected them, refused to love them, or done things to generate and nurture a lasting anger in them.
  • Instead, the parents provide them an example of how to live a disciplined life devoted to God and His instructions.

Colossians 3:21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.

  • Parents’ relationship with their children should not create and nurture a continuing frustration producing a state of discontentment.
  • The severity and fault finding that destroys the spirit should not characterize the parents’ relationship with their children.
  • Parents, do not be deceived into believing that our parental faith in and commitment to Jesus Christ guarantees our children automatically will become Christian adults.

The Old Testament has a number of examples of godly persons whose children did not follow God.

Perhaps the greatest period of Israelite godliness came in Joshua’s leadership.

indexrcd-bJudges 2:7 “The people served the Lord all the days of Joshua, and all the days of the elders who survived Joshua, who had seen all the great work of the Lord which He had done for Israel.”

What a testimony to godly influence!


Then Judges 2:10 notes, “All that generation also were gathered to their fathers; and there arose another generation after them who did not know the Lord, nor yet the work which He had done for Israel.”

I do not think you could convince me that Joshua did not teach godliness to his children. Yet, his descendants did not follow God. I conclude they were deliberately ignorant and willfully forgetful.

Samuel was a powerful spiritual influence in Israel in an extremely ungodly period.

Listen to 1 Samuel 8:3 “His sons, however, did not walk in his ways, but turned aside after dishonest gain and took bribes and perverted justice.”

Grandparents-Print-Tan-DamaskKing David made some serious mistakes, but he was a man whose love for God included the knowledge of repentance.

We are still blessed by some of his powerful thoughts. In the New Testament he is still known as the man after God’s own heart. Yet, many of his children were truly ungodly.

Hezekiah led one of Judah’s few spiritual reforms.

Listen to 2 Kings 18:3, 5 “He did right in the sight of the Lord, according to all that his father David had done.  …He trusted in the Lord, the God of Israel; so that after him there was none like him among all the kings of Judah, nor among those who were before him.”

Now listen to what is said about his son, Manasseh in 2 Kings 21:2, 9: “He did evil in the sight of the Lord, according to the abominations of the nations whom the Lord dispossessed before the sons of Israel. …But they did not listen, and Manasseh seduced them to do evil more than the nations whom the Lord destroyed before the sons of Israel.”

The New Testament covers too brief a historical period to include such detail. The most important factor in determining what your child becomes as a spiritual adult is the person he or she marries. Your child will make that choice largely to your exclusion. You will not choose the person your child “falls in love” with. You will not choose how the experience of “falling in love” will affect your child. If you try to exercise an inflexible control over the people your child dates, you likely will severely injure your relationship with your child.

While you certainly must provide guidance, there are restrictions on the guidance you can provide.

Attempts to provide inflexible control can alienate, create an unhealthy dependence, or drive your child to the person of your disapproval.


If you try to structure, control, direct, or alter your child’s marriage, you create more serious problems than you correct. Rarely is continuous parental involvement in a child’s marriage constructive. Attempting to “run or fix” a child’s marriage often produces undesirable results:

  • Anger
  • Alienation
  • Resentment
  • Impeding or destroying their maturing process.
  • Destruction of healthy independence.
  • Creation of a sick dependence on the parent.
  • Interference in a child’s marriage can produce many bad things and few good things.

We should understand that. Look at the impact of your parents’ unwanted advice and interference in your marriage. Recall the problems, stress, anger, and complications produced when your parents felt like they needed to structure an aspect of your marriage. Do not deceive yourself into believing your actions will be viewed as constructive and thereby appreciated. The possibility of your child experiencing a serious marriage crisis is frightening.

The fact that you provide them the best home, best training, best environment, and best spiritual foundation you can provide does not eliminate the possibility of your child experiencing a serious marriage crisis.

Your initial reaction may be, “That cannot be true!”

For the sake of reflection, recall married people you know from 5 years younger than you to 5 years older than you. How many people did you go to school, college, or church with who are now divorced, separated, or in deeply troubled marriages? And those are just the situations your know about! Every major social influence in this society (today) works against “once for life” marriage, not in support of it. Consider a living nightmare.

  • You witness your own child in an abusive, unloving, selfish, inconsiderate marriage.
  • You watch as it happens causing your child suffering, pain, and agony.
  • You see what this is doing to your child as a person.
  • You witness your grandchildren in such a marriage.
  • As you watch, there is little you can do.
  • You cannot fix it.
  • You cannot “make it go away.”
  • You do not dare try to take control for fear of making things worse.
  • You cannot make the relationship healthy.

If such happens in your family, let me suggest what to pray for.

  1. Pray he or she is in a congregation that believes in loving those that hurt and reaches out to those who are troubled.
  2. Pray he or she is part of a people who help the distressed.
  3. Pray he or she is not part of a congregation who turns it back on “Christians who have problems like that.”
  4. Pray they are under a compassionate eldership who believes in shepherding.
  5. Pray they are under elders who know how to listen and be understanding.
  6. Pray they know how to be constructively supportive.
  7. Pray they believe in keeping confidences.
  8. Pray they are in a congregation devoted to administrating Jesus’ spiritual healing.
  9. Pray that scripturally uninformed members do not control the congregation.
  10. Pray their congregation is not filled with Christians who feel it is their duty to say:
    • “If you genuinely believed in Christ, you would not have a problem like that.”
    • “Real Christians do not have marriage problems.”
    • “You are not a spiritual person.”
    • “If you trusted God like I do, this never would have happened.”

Constantly help us be a congregation that brings the troubled to Jesus’ forgiving healing, to Jesus’ compassion, to Jesus’ hope, to Jesus’ help. Help us want to be just Christians who are not afraid to let Jesus teach us how to compassionately care. Help us be a people that troubled Christians can turn to without fear because we are ruled by the Great Physician. Help us be the kind of people who care in the same way the first congregations cared.

Why do this? We want to be just Christians. We want to be a congregation of people who fit the image of Jesus’ expectations. We want to be an oasis of spiritual healing for ourselves, our children, and our grandchildren when worlds collapse and life falls apart. In a world filled with hopeless struggle, we want to be a refreshing place of healing. May we each say, “That attitude begins with me.”

 
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Coming to Know God


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In the early days of the automobile a man’s Model-T Ford stalled in the middle of the road.  He couldn’t get it started no matter how hard he cranked nor how much he tried to advance the spark or adjust things under the hood.  Just then a chauffeured limousine pulled up behind him, and a wiry, energetic man stepped out from the back seat and offered his assistance.  After tinkering for a few moments the stranger said, “Now try it!”  Immediately the engine leaped to life.  The well-dressed individual then identified himself as Henry Ford.  “I designed and built these cars,” he said, “so I know what to do when something goes wrong.”

God, as our creator, knows how to “fix” us when our lives are broken by sin.

god-make-me-an-instrumentGod is not discoverable or demonstrable by purely scientific means, unfortunately for the scientific minded.  But that really proves nothing.  It simply means that the wrong instruments are being used for the job.

A Sunday School teacher saw one of her little boys drawing furiously with a set of crayons. “What are you doing, Johnny?” she asked. “I’m drawing a picture of God,” said Johnny. “But Johnny,” said the teacher, “nobody knows what God looks like.” Replied Johnny: “Well, they will by the time I’m through with THIS!”

In looking for a challenge or some direction in life, the most challenging task we can approach is the zeal to come to know God. Think how that process might begin with some questions/answers:

Name: God.
Also known as: The Almighty, Jehovah, the Father, Lord.
Occupation: Sustainer and ruler of the universe.
Address: Everywhere.
Sex: Does not apply.
Place of birth: Does not apply.
Social Security: None.
Mother’s maiden name: None.
Dependents: Everyone.
Honors received: Too numerous to list.

God doesn’t fit a mold, does he? He is, to put it mildly, unique. One of a kind. Indescribable, some would say! God is beyond cataloging, and no computer resume, no investigating committee, not even a CIA computer could give an exhaustive profile of who He is and all that He’s done.

God cannot be grasped by the mind. If he could be grasped, he would not be God. Yet we cannot give up! We can’t throw up our hands and dismiss Him as a mystery…we need Him!

Imagine a sheer, steep crag with a projecting edge at the top. Now imagine what a person would probably feel if he put his foot on the edge of this precipice and, looking down into the chasm below, saw no solid footing nor anything to hold on to.

This is what I think the soul experiences when it goes beyond its footing in material things, in its quest for that which has no dimension and which exists from all eternity. For here there is nothing it can take hold of, neither place nor time, neither measure nor anything else; our minds cannot approach it.

And thus the soul, slipping at every point from what cannot be grasped, becomes dizzy and perplexed and returns once again to what is connatural to it, content now to know merely this about God, that it is completely different from the nature of the things that the soul knows. [1]

It’s amazing in this world the way people respond to God, as they understand Him…it’s very different: some grovel before totems; others bring offerings of chickens and goats; others kneel five times daily to chant prayers; others go into trances. Some believe in God so intensely they preach in foreign lands; others deny His existence by their silence.

We need to come to see God in people around us. We need to know Him in a personal way.

I’m thinking of a little boy named Timmy. Timmy was very afraid of the lightning and the thunder. His mom and dad went into his room during a thunderstorm and said, “Now, Timmy, don’t be afraid. God is right here in the room with you.”

He said, “Okay, Mommy and Daddy, I won’t be afraid.”

But then as the mommy and daddy went into their room and started to get ready for bed, the lightning clapped, and the thunder rolled, and Timmy screamed bloody murder. Timmy’s daddy and mommy went back into the room and said, “Honey, we thought we told you, you don’t need to be afraid. God is right here in the room with you.”

Timmy said, “Mommy and Daddy, I know God is right here in the room with me, but I need someone with skin on.” [2]

What is God like? Answers don’t come easy, because of the immensity of the subject. God is huge, filling the universe. Also people might know the right words, but they seem to become hollow shells because they can’t comprehend them.

We say that God is holy, righteous, loving, gracious, Father-Son-Spirit, but we don’t know what all this means. How do we know the words are empty? We can tell by the way many Christians behave!

Our behavior exposes our failure to understand the words coming out of our mouths. We can talk about God, but we do not know Him! God is not like us — He’s one of a kind! God is different from men. Anyone trying to know God and learn to relate to Him must begin with this fundamental truth.

God is not optional! Unlike everything else, God is absolutely necessary, like water for fish. We can’t just “take God or leave Him” — He is inescapable, even more so than death and taxes. We must not be too “familiar” with God, or regard Him as optional…we must learn to let God be God.

A. W. Tozer wrote concerning the desperate need for the church to revise its concept of God due to a very distorted conception of Him: It is my opinion that the Christian conception of God current in these middle years of the twentieth century is so decadent as to be utterly beneath the dignity of the Most High God and actually to constitute for professed believers something amounting to a moral calamity.[3]

Tozer goes on to say, The heaviest obligation lying upon the Christian Church today is to purify and elevate her concept of God until it is once more worthy of Him—and of her.[4]

A. W. Pink is of the same opinion: The god of this century no more resembles the Sovereign of Holy Writ than does the dim flickering of a candle the glory of the midday sun. The god who is talked about in the average pulpit, spoken of in the ordinary Sunday school, mentioned in much of the religious literature of the day, and preached in most of the so-called Bible conferences, is a figment of human imagination, an invention of maudlin sentimentality. The heathen outside the pale of Christendom form gods of wood and stone, while millions of heathen inside Christendom manufacture a god out of their carnal minds.[5]

One day it occurred to me that God is the most fascinating person alive and that getting to know Him could well be the most helpful thing that ever happened to me. The more I probed His nature the more convinced I became that knowing Him is the solution to most of my problems. I became convinced that knowing God better was the answer to many of their problems as well. I decided that I want to get to know God intimately, and that I want to help others get to know Him as well, if I possibly can.

God is knowable, and He does want to be known. As a matter of fact, He tells us that our eternal state depends upon knowing Him. Jesus said, “And this is eternal life, that they may know Thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom Thou hast sent” (John 17:3). Knowing God and His Son Jesus is the heart of the whole matter of eternal life. The word know in this verse does not refer to a casual acquaintance either. It is the kind of knowledge that comes through living contact and personal relationship. If knowing God is that important, maybe we ought to talk about how we can get to know Him.

A mother was approached by her young son, who asked, “Mommy, did God make Himself?”  Realizing that such questions by children are very important and must be answered, she dropped what she was doing and sat down with her youngster for a little talk.  Pointing to her wedding band, she said, “This is a ‘love ring,’ which your daddy gave me when we were married.  Look at it closely and tell me where it begins and where it ends.”

The youngster examined it carefully and then said, “There’s no starting place and stopping place to a ring.”  The mother replied, “That’s the way it is with God.  He had no beginning and has no end, yet He encircles our lives with His presence. He is too wonderful, too great, for our minds to understand. Nobody ever made God — He always was!”  Somehow the boy realized that for God to be God, He could not have been created. He had to be without beginning and without end.

Martin Luther once was so depressed over a prolonged period that one day his wife came downstairs wearing all black.  Martin Luther said, “Who died?”  She said, “God has.”  He said, “God hasn’t died.” And she said, “Well, live like it and act like it.”

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[1] Gregory of Nyssa (d. about 395), “Eastern Orthodoxy,” Christian History, no. 54.

[2] Thomas Tewell, “The Tenacity of a Bulldog,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 141.

[3] A. W. Tozer, The Knowledge of the Holy (New York: Harper and Row, Publish­ers, 1961), p. 10.

[4] Ibid., p. 12.

[5] Arthur W. Pink, Gleanings in the Godhead, pp. 28-29.

 
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