(1) He observes the hidden person of her heart

1 Peter 3:4 (ESV) ⁴  but let your adorning be the hidden person of the heart with the imperishable beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which in God’s sight is very precious.

(2) He lives with his wife in an understanding way and honors her

1 Peter 3:7 (ESV) ⁷  Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. (3) He honors his wife

(3) He does not act bitterly to his wife

Colossians 3:19 (ESV) ¹⁹  Husbands, love your wives, and do not be harsh with them.

(4) He encourages his wife’s godly and chaste behavior

1 Timothy 2:10 (ESV) ¹⁰  but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.

1 Peter 3:2 (ESV) ²  when they see your respectful and pure conduct.

(5) He supports her good works

1 Timothy 2:10 (ESV) ¹⁰  but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.