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God’s Person in an Upside-Down World” — The Be-attitudes Series #2 “How Sadness Becomes Happiness”


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As we said last week that if you really look at them as a whole, what Jesus is trying to get across in the Beatitudes is this, that our happiness is not a product of circumstances, it’s a product of our attitudes.

beatitudes-list-right-alignedAnd while most of the world buys into the “when and then” philosophy, you know, “When I get this…” or “When that changes…” or “When this happens, then I’ll be happy.” Jesus says, “No, it doesn’t work that way.” Your happiness is not a product of circumstances. Your happiness does not depend upon what’s happening around you, it depends upon what’s happening in you. It’s a series of attitudes.

Let’s look at the second beatitude. Found in verse 4 of Matthew 5, it simply said, “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”

Mourning is hateful and irksome to poor human nature. From suffering and sadness our spirits instinctively shrink. By nature we seek the society of the cheerful and joyous.

 The Greek word for to mourn, used here, is the strongest word for mourning in the Greek language. It is the word which is used for mourning for the dead, for the passionate lament for one who was loved.  

In the Septuagint, the Greek version of the Old Testament, it is the word which is used of Jacob’s grief when he believed that Joseph, his son, was dead (Genesis 37:34).

It is defined as the kind of grief which takes such a hold on a man that it cannot be hid. It is not only the sorrow which brings an ache to the heart; it is the sorrow which brings an ache to the heart; it is the sorrow which brings the unrestrainable tears to the eyes.

Now the first part of that really makes no sense. Happy are those who mourn? Happy are those who grieve? Happy are those who are expressing sorrow? That’s nonsensical, until you read the last part of the verse, “for they will be comforted.”

How can I be happy when I’m mourning? How can I be happy when I’m grieving? How can I be happy when I’ve experienced a great pain or loss? By receiving the comfort of God.

Now before we look at that comfort and how you receive it, I’ve got to give you a warning that’s straight from Scripture. Not all mourning is going to receive the comfort of God.

In II Corinthians 7:10, Paul says this. “Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.”

Did you hear that? There’s a godly sorrow and there’s a worldly sorrow, and the worldly sorrow we need not expect any comfort for that. You say, well what are you talking about? What do you mean worldly sorrow?

  1. Pessimism.

The world is full of people who can’t see the good in anything. They can’t see the good in anybody. They live in kind of a state of perpetual mourning. Somebody said, “You can’t have rosy thoughts about your future when your mind is filled with blues from the past.” That’s a pessimist. And that person, he or she just mourns all the time. God promises no comfort for that. That is contrary to his will.  

  1. There’s a second kind of worldly sorrow caused by discontentment.

Our society is geared for constant competitiveness and the urge to keep up with the Joneses. Madison Avenue advertising companies specialize in making us feel disenchanted. They create itches that we need to scratch and yet their real job is to create an itch that we never can adequately scratch.

There’s a kind of mourning that goes with discontentment and our Lord won’t comfort that kind of mourning. Instead, he warns against it. Luke 12:15, Jesus said, “‘Watch out! Be on your guard against all kinds of greed; a man’s life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.'”

I Timothy 6:7: “We brought nothing into this world, and we can take nothing out of it. And he says in verse 8, “But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that.”

  1. Punishment and the consequences of wrongdoing.

A thief may mourn over time that he’s spending in jail, only to be planning his next theft. Do you see what I’m getting at? He’s not grieving over his sin, he’s grieving over getting caught. Now that’s a worldly grief. And all of those things, God says, “Look, those things lead to death. Don’t think I’m going to come down and just take that kind of mourning away. I will not.”

But that same verse says, “There is a godly sorrow which God will comfort.” And this is a mourning that we experience when we hurt and when we have heartaches from the suffering that floods this world.

Suffering that brings pain and that brings death, suffering we have no control over, that we didn’t bring about, but we’re all victims of it.

There are three ways in which this beatitude can be taken.

(i) It can be taken quite literally: Blessed is the man who has endured the bitterest sorrow that life can bring. The Arabs have a proverb: “All sunshine makes a desert.” The land on which the sun always shines will soon become an arid place in which no fruit will grow. There are certain things which only the rains will produce; and certain experiences which only sorrow can beget.

Sorrow can do two things for us. it can show us, as nothing else can, the essential kindness of our fellow-men; and it can show us as nothing else can the comfort and the compassion of God. Many and many a man in the hour of his sorrow has discovered his fellow-men and his God as he never did before. When things go well it is possible to live for years on the surface of things; but when sorrow comes a man is driven to the deep things of life, and, if he accepts it aright, a new strength and beauty enter into his soul.

“I walked a mile with Pleasure, She chattered all the way,

But left me none the wiser For all she had to say.

I walked a mile with Sorrow, And ne’er a word said she,

But, oh, the things I learned from her When Sorrow walked with me!”

(ii) Some people have taken this beatitude to mean:

Blessed are those who are desperately sorry for the sorrow and the suffering of this world.

When we were thinking of the first beatitude we saw that is it always right to be detached from things, but it is never right to be detached from people. This world would have been a very much poorer place, if there had not been those who cared intensely about the sorrows and the sufferings of others.

Christianity is caring. This beatitude does mean: Blessed is the man who cares intensely for the sufferings, and for the sorrows, and for the needs of others.

(iii) No doubt both these thoughts are in this beatitude, but its main thought undoubtedly is: Blessed is the man who is desperately sorry for his own sin and his own unworthiness.

“It is mourning over the felt destitution of our spiritual state, and over the iniquities that have separated us and God; mourning over the very morality in which we have boasted, and the self-righteousness in which we have trusted; sorrow for rebellion against God, and hostility to His will; and such mourning always goes side by side with conscious poverty of spirit.”

As we have seen, the very first word of the message of Jesus was, “Repent!” No man can repent unless he is sorry for his sins. The thing which really changes men is when they suddenly come up against something which opens their eyes to what sin is and to what sin does.

A boy or a girl may go his or her own way, and may never think of effects and consequences; and then some day something happens and that boy or girl sees the stricken look in a father’’ or a mother’s eye’s; and suddenly sin is seen for what it is.

That is what the Cross does for us. As we look at the Cross, we are bound to say, “That is what sin can do. Sin can take the loveliest life in all the world and smash it on a Cross.”

One of the great functions of the Cross is to open the eyes of men and women to the horror of sin. And when a man sees sin in all its horror he cannot do anything else but experience intense sorrow for his sin.

Christianity begins with a sense of sin. Blessed is the man who is intensely sorry for his sin, the man who is heart-broken for what his sin has done to God and to Jesus Christ, the man who sees the Cross and who is appalled by the havoc wrought by sin.

It is the man who has that experience who will indeed be comforted; for the experience is what we call penitence, and the broken and the contrite heart God will never despise (Psalm 51:17). The way to the joy of forgiveness is through the desperate sorrow of the broken heart.

God is going to comfort people who go through that and that’s all of us. Godly grief is also the mourning that we do over our own sins, not the getting caught, but the sin itself.

God says, “If you’ll mourn over your own sin, I’ll come and comfort your heart.” And godly grief is also the sadness that we share for others in their loss. He said, “I’ll bless that if you hurt with other people. I’ll come and take that sorrow away.”

Here, then, are the first birthmarks of the children of God. He who has never come to be poor in spirit and has never known what it is to really mourn for sin has neither seen nor entered the Kingdom of God. How thankful the Christian reader ought to be that the great God condescends to dwell in the humble and contrite heart!

Now today and tomorrow, when you experience that kind of grief and that kind of mourning, sorrow that is left unattended will literally rob you of your happiness, how do you apply this beatitude? And how do you claim this promise?

If you really want to be happy in this world, you’ll not be happy by just avoiding sadness because you can’t. We’re all going to mourn, we’re all going to grieve, how do I get through that by the power of God so that I’m happy way yonder more than I’m sad?

Three simple steps, write them down.

  1. Number one, realize God is with you.

You know when we’re hurting, we tend to forget where God is. We think he’s distant that he is far away. Look at Psalm 34:18, “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” When you’re mourning, when you’re in pain, remember three simple things: God is aware, God cares, and God is there. Just those three simple things. God is aware, he cares, and he’s there.

God is aware. Job said, “You keep a close watch on all my paths. There are many, many of you who have come today and you’re in pain, but I want you to know something, God is watching over you. Nothing escapes his eyes. The Bible says, not just the number of hairs on your hair are numbered, the Bible says, even your tears are numbered. I’ve heard people say hundreds of times, nobody knows what I’m going through. That may be right if you’re talking about somebody else in the flesh, but somebody knows what you’re going through. God is keenly aware of everything you’re going through.

  1. He is not only aware, number two, he cares.

Look at the little book of Nahum 1:7, “The Lord is good, a refuge in times of trouble. He cares for those who trust in him,” God’s not only aware, he cares, your pain matters to God.

  1. Number three, he’s there.

That’s the best thing of all. Hebrews 4:16 says, “Let us then approach the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.”

I thank God that he doesn’t just offer awareness and sympathy, he offers help when you hurt. He’s not powerless like you and I feel in times of mourning. He doesn’t just write a note like I do that says, “I’m thinking about you in this time of need.” God says, “I’m not just thinking about you, I’m right there and my hand is reaching down to help you.”

Isaiah 43:2, our God says, “‘Fear not, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine. When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. And when you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze. For I am the Lord, your God,…'”

God says when you’re mourning, I want to come and build you up with my strength. I want to fortify you. I want to stand beside you.

  1. So the first step in being comforted, being happy when you’re sad, is to realize God’s presence.

Now having said that, have you ever noticed there are some people who grow in their pain and there are other people who get stuck there? Why is that? I think more than any other reason, it’s because they fail to apply step two.

  1. Release the hurt.

Somebody says, “I’m in pain.” Let it go. How do you let it go? Here’s the key thing, you stop focusing on what’s lost and start focusing on what’s left. After your loss, after your tragedy, after your pain, start focusing on what’s lost and start focusing on what’s left.

The whole idea here is to quit looking backward and start looking forward.

Isaiah 43:18 says, “‘Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.'”

Philippians 3:13, Paul says, “But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal…” And it goes on to say the goal is the prize of the heavenward call of Christ Jesus.

The Bible says your past is your past, let it go. It doesn’t need to hurt you anymore. Some of you are letting memories of people who have hurt you in the past, hurt you right now. I don’t want to be cruel, but I want to be honest. That’s dumb.

If they’ve hurt you in the past, and you’re letting the memory hurt you now, all you are doing is letting them hurt you twice. Don’t let the pains of the past control you. Don’t let the guilt of your past strangle you. If you want the comfort of God, release your hurt. That power is within you.

See there are choices about what to do with the hurts and the pains and the grief sources of the past. Here are some things different folks do at different times, they are on your outline.

You can repress those hurts.

You know you can just push them down. You can swallow them, try to keep them way down deep inside. But I’ve said many times, if you swallow your feelings, your stomach keeps score. There are so many thousands and thousands of Christians right now who are walking wounded, and they are walking wounded because they have repressed their hurt. They’ve never dealt with them, they’ve never even admitted them, they just keep them deep.

You can rehearse them.

Just keep rehearsing the pain. Have you ever seen somebody who just won’t let it go? They keep bringing it up in their mind and going over and over and over. And some of them they do it verbally. That’s all they’ll tell you about. “Oh, I’ll never get over this…” “Oh, I’ll never…” They torture themselves by rethinking about it over and over. But God says don’t dwell on the past.

Folks, there is a big difference between mourning and moaning. A big difference—A big difference between mourning and moaning. Mourning is legitimate grief. There are times for bona fide sadness. And when you go through that, God wants to comfort that; but moaning is self pity. And if you’re moaning, you’re doing it honestly because you want to. You just kind of want to hold on to that hurt because that’s your attention-getter. That may be the only way you think you’re getting self esteem that’s tearing you up.

Resent those things.

I guess that’s the greatest tendency of all. We tend to resent what we believe to be the cause of our pain. If that’s another person, we tend to resent them. If it’s our job, we tend to resent it. If we can’t blame it on a specific person, place, or thing, then often God is resented for just letting it happen. The problem with resentment is, it hurts you more than the person you resent.

If you really want to handle your hurt, rightly, then the fourth choice is the best, re-channel them.

Don’t repress them, don’t rehearse them, don’t resent them—re-channel them. Use the energy that you would use repressing, rehearsing, resenting, turn it constructively outward instead of destructively inward.

Do you know who my model is for this—straight from the Bible? The apostle Paul. You talk about, can you imagine the pain and the guilt of knowing if you were Paul that you were the most destructive force on the early church. Read Acts 8:1, it says Paul was the ringleader. He was the one that was seeking to destroy it. And yet he was the very man who wrote what I read to a moment ago from Philippians, “Forgetting what lies behind, I press on…”

Do you know what he did? He didn’t repress his guilt, he didn’t rehearse his guilt, he didn’t resent his guilt, he re-channeled it. He said, “I could lie around all day on the couch and feel guilty, guilty, guilty, then I could do nothing or I could take that and say, “No God, I’ve learned and I’m going to re-channel this for your glory.” People, that’s not hypocrisy, God honors that. He honors that, and he blesses that, and he comforts you when you do that.

  1. The way God will comfort me is by relying on God’s resources.

When you’re mourning and when you’re hurting, people try all kinds of things. Some get drunk, some pop pills, some watch t.v. all day long, some escape in novels, or just 1,001 things, all trying to dull the pain. God says, “No, no, those don’t work.” There are escapes, diversions, but they’re all dead-ends, they bring you right back to where you were. But God has got some resources you can tap into that really will bring you the comfort and lead you through your mourning. Here they are.

The first resource: God’s word.

Look at Psalm 119:25, here’s what that verse says, “I am laid low in the dust; preserve my life according to your word.” A few verses later, verse 62, David says, “I remember your ancient laws O Lord, and I find comfort in them.”

But the second resource God wants to use to comfort you is his people. That’s why he designed his church. See we weren’t made to be individually isolated or islands unto ourselves. There’s no such thing as a “lone ranger” Christian. We need each other. We’re supposed to be a family. We’re a God-given resource to provide comfort.

I love II Corinthians 1:3,4, here’s what it says, “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort,” look at this, “who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves have received from God.”

I mean that says just in black and white, the function of comforting and encouraging one another is just as important a function of the church as worship is. That’s the reason God comforts us. One of the keys, he said, “I comfort you so you can be conduit, so that you’ll go out and comfort other people who are also hurting.”

One minister tells this story:

Years ago, I talked to a man who had been worshipping for two years at a congregation, a big church. And after worshipping for two years, he became ill with cancer, went through a couple of hospital stays and was diagnosed as being terminal. Then going to see him on one occasion, he was bitter. He said it just seems like nobody cares, nobody cared at all. And I wasn’t trying to trap him, it was just an honest question. I said, “Well tell me, who are some of your closest friends in church?” Do you realize that after being there for two years, he couldn’t name the name of one person, not one person that he would have listed as a dear friend.

Folks, the Bible says that we are to comfort one another. That’s why small groups, support groups, care groups, whatever it takes are beneficial so that we can pass along the comfort of God. It’s not that you have to give advice, it’s not that you have to have all the answers, it’s just by saying I’ve been there and I hurt with you.

And then finally, God uses his Spirit to comfort us. When Jesus was here physically, knowing he was going to a cross, he made a promise, John 14:26, he said, “But the Counselor,” (the King James Version says the Comforter) “the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.”

Then he said, “My peace I leave with you;…” That was a promise to the apostles, but the Bible says that promise of the comfort from the Spirit is still applicable.

Romans 15:13 says, “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”

Mourners comforted—destroyers condemned (v. 14; 5:4).

While this verse is not in some manuscripts of Matthew, it is found in Mark 12:40 and Luke 20:47. Instead of mourning over their own sins, and mourning with needy widows, the Pharisees took advantage of people in order to rob them. They used their religion as a “cloak of covetousness” (1 Thes. 2:5).

 
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Posted by on October 6, 2015 in Article

 

Why it’s difficult for some spouses to apologize


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Is it difficult for your spouse to apologize and tell you that he (or she) is sorry? Or is it hard for you to offer an apology?

Some individuals can say “I’m sorry” easily while others can’t ever seem to choke the words out. When a spouse is reluctant to apologize, the partner inevitably ends up carrying emotional baggage from the resulting hurt feelings, resentment, and anger.

It’s often easier to offer an apology to a total stranger or a casual acquaintance than it is to a spouse. Usually, in those cases, whatever we have done—temporarily blocked the aisle with our shopping cart at the grocery store or bumped into someone in a hallway—was done unintentionally.

There’s normally not any feeling that one person did something to the other in a personal way. Instead, it feels like an accident, a momentarily distraction, or a misjudgment of visual space.

But when things happen between two spouses, an oversight or mistake can take on more personal tones and meaning. A spouse may harbor strong feelings that whatever occurred was deliberate and intentional.

When intense feelings are triggered and the emotional climate becomes either icy or raging, the offending spouse may retreat, not knowing what else to do. Or he (or she) may be afraid of doing the wrong thing and making the situation worse.

Some spouses view apologizing as a sign of weakness that brings about a loss of power and status. A spouse with this perspective may equate apologizing with admitting inadequacy and incompetence, and thus be reluctant to apologize for mistakes, failures, or misjudgments.

To others, it’s humiliating to have to apologize. They may have been ridiculed and criticized harshly by their parents when they made mistakes growing up, and as a result, they try to avoid admitting to mistakes and the unpleasant feeling that brings.

Accepting responsibility for personal actions and decisions is challenging for some spouses. They operate in denial, as though by not admitting fault they haven’t done anything “wrong.” It’s almost as though they are afraid of owning any inappropriate behaviors because then they might have to also take responsibility for other actions. So it’s just easier to avoid and deny than to admit responsibility and apologize.

If a spouse views apologizing as “all or nothing”—that the person who is “wrong” has to ask for forgiveness from the one who is “right”—that can also make the task more daunting. So can viewing the person who apologizes as the “loser” in an argument or dispute, while the one accepting the apology is the “winner.”

What Can You Do if It’s Hard for Your Spouse to Apologize?

The following five tips offer specific actions that you can take:

  1. Become comfortable with saying, “I’m so sorry for my part in what happened between us” or ‘I’m so sorry for my part in the misunderstanding.” That acknowledges two people are involved in what happens in relationship interactions and makes it less threatening for each to accept personal responsibility.
  2. If your partner refuses to make an apology for behavior that deeply hurt you, ask her (or him) if she at least regrets what happened. Some spouses will find it easier to say “I really regret what happened at the party” than “I’m really sorry for my behavior at the party.”
  3. Practice being the kind of partner that you wish you had. Apologize readily and model healthy behavior for your spouse. Be open about your feelings when it’s hard to apologize. Say, “I don’t know why it’s so hard to apologize sometimes—but it is. This isn’t easy for me to say because I’d rather blame you than look at myself, but I am truly sorry for the things I said last night.” You can’t control what your spouse decides to do or not to do, so focus on what you do have control over—your own reactions and behavior.
  4. Write your spouse a handwritten letter (pen and paper—no emails) sharing your feelings and say that in order to move on, you really need some sort of acknowledgement of your feelings and the hurt you have experienced. State that it’s important for you to know your partner cares about your feelings enough to apologize or admit regret for what happened.
  5. Remember that if your spouse can’t apologize to you, it doesn’t necessarily mean your spouse doesn’t love you. In some cases, it can indicate a callousness and indifference to the partner’s feelings. But in other cases, it can indicate a lack of relationship skills or unresolved individual issues.

Your best strategy may be to see if your partner will agree to some marriage counseling sessions to improve communication and intimacy. Then, address the issue in the counselor’s office where your chances of being heard and opening the door for positive change are greatly increased. (By Nancy Wasson, Ph.D.)

 
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Posted by on October 1, 2015 in Marriage

 

An author’s background


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I am sometimes asked…”What is the particular religious persuasion reflected by the lessons on this homepage.

clear-vision-4581472These studies try to reflect a non-sectarian approach to the Bible, with a desire only to let the Scriptures speak for themselves. They are simply the results of my own personal studies of God’s Word, and are offered with a plea for you to apply “The Berean Test” (Acts 17:11) as you examine the studies.

As for me personally, I am simply a Christian, a disciple of Jesus Christ, and a member of the Lord’s body, the church, as one reads about in the New Testament. In view of our Lord’s prayer for unity (John 17:20-21), and Paul’s condemnation of division (1 Co 1:10-13), I dislike denominational distinctions and all forms of sectarianism.

I have been blessed to serve as a minister of the gospel of Christ for over 34+ years, having worked with churches made up of individuals  who are likewise trying to be simply Christians. Using the New Testament as their authority in matters pertaining to the work, worship, and organization of the local church, they are independent, self-governing churches, and totally non-denominational.

We have no written creed (other than the Bible), and constantly engage in Bible study (not creed rehearsal), fine-tuning our understanding and practice to what we learn from the Scriptures.

Frequently referred to as “churches of Christ” (Romans 16:16 ), they are not to be confused with any denomination that might be known as the “Church of Christ” (especially those that identify themselves as the “International Church of Christ,” or formerly the “Boston Church of Christ”).

DSC_0040With the religiously divided state of our society, I know many may find it hard to believe that you can be “a Christian only”. It is not easy, but I believe it is possible and from the Lord’s viewpoint, desirable. Therefore I often say that I am neither Jewish, Catholic, or Protestant; I am a Christian! And I am not a Mormon, Jehovah’s Witness, or member of any cult that believes in latter day revelations.

I believe that God has spoken fully and completely through His Son Jesus Christ and His apostles and prophets whose words are contained in the Bible. These studies reflect this belief…

I hope this helps to answer any questions you may have. — Gary Davenport

 
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The Problem of Suffering in the World


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Axioms we have heard:

“When the going gets tough, the tough get going.”

“When the world gives you a lemon, make lemonade.”

“If God sends us on stony paths, he provides strong shoes.” — Corrie Ten Boom.

“Great crises produce great men and great deeds of courage” —-John F. Kennedy, Profiles in Courage

sufferingYou know it’s going to be a bad day when:

* You call suicide prevention and they put you on hold.

* You see a 60 Minutes news team waiting in your office.

* Your birthday cake collapses from the weight of the candles.

* Your twin sister forgets your birthday.

Let’s make it clear: we’re NOT talking about “a bad day” when we hear some of the pleas offered in the midst of pain and suffering. While it is true that a crisis helps to make a person, it is also true that a crisis helps to reveal what a person is made of.

Life is filled with a variety of difficulties (Job 14:1-2)

“”Man born of woman is of few days and full of trouble. {2} He springs up like a flower and withers away; like a fleeting shadow, he does not endure.”….but God’s grace is sufficient (see “manifold” or “poikilos” in 1 Peter 1:6 and 4:10).

All we need to think of is Joseph, David, Daniel, Elijah, and Stephen. Jesus told us they would come:

(John 16:1-3) “”All this I have told you so that you will not go astray. {2} They will put you out of the synagogue; in fact, a time is coming when anyone who kills you will think he is offering a service to God. {3} They will do such things because they have not known the Father or me…. (32) “”But a time is coming, and has come, when you will be scattered, each to his own home. You will leave me all alone. Yet I am not alone, for my Father is with me. {33} “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.””

Paul said in 2 Timothy 3:12 : “In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted.”

We occasionally sing a song which offers some powerful words for us:

“Come, ye disconsolate, where’er ye languish Come to the Mercyseat, fervently kneel. Here bring your wounded heart, here tell your anguish; Earth has no sorrow that Heav’n cannot heal.”

Paul reminds us in 1 Cor. 10:13 that God will limit their impact upon us. They cannot make our service to God in vain: (1 Cor 15:58) “Therefore, my dear brothers, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.”

(2 Tim 4:6-8) “For I am already being poured out like a drink offering, and the time has come for my departure. {7} I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. {8} Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day–and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.”

suffer-for-christ-e1344552240663“Are you going through a hard time? Maybe these words from a song called The Fire will help get us through them: “I’ve been through a fire that has deepened my desire, to know the living God more and more. It hasn’t been much fun, but the work that it has done in my life has been worth the hurt. You see sometimes we need the hard times to bring us to our knees, otherwise we do as we please and never heed him. For he always knows what’s best and it’s when we are distressed that we really come to know God as he is.”

There are things man cannot know…God knows all (chapters 38-41). We MUST avoid the warning of Job 40:8!

(Job 38:2) “”Who is this that darkens my counsel with words without knowledge?”

(Job 40:8) “”Would you discredit my justice? Would you condemn me to justify yourself?”

We know that sin and suffering are not linked; they are not proof of sin or guilt (reminded of Luke 13:1-5). Let those circumstances bring you to repentance. We will suffer (like many other Christians) when it is not deserved.

“The Sequoia trees of California tower as much as 300 feet above the ground. Strangely, these giants have unusually shallow root systems that reach out in all directions to capture the greatest amount of surface moisture. Seldom will you see a redwood standing alone, because high winds would quickly uproot it. That’s why they grow in clusters. Their intertwining roots provide support for one another against the storms.

“Suffering comes to all of us, and no one can suffer for us. Even so, just like those giant Sequoia trees, we can be supported in those difficult times by the prayers and understanding of loved ones and friends. It’s when we are too proud to admit our needs to others that we are in the greatest danger.”

We can benefit from the process.Hard times keep this world from becoming too attractive.

“Our citizenship is in heaven…we’re pilgrims passing through this life and we don’t need to let our roots get too deep.”

Suffering brings out our best and allows to development deep bonds.

Those we count as our closest and dearest friends are those who have gone through hard times in life with us.

Suffering makes us appreciative.

Words of ‘cheerful’ minister despite a hard time in his life: “I make the right use of my eyes. I look up to Heaven and realize that is where I am going. Next, I look down upon the earth and realize how small a place I shall occupy when I am dead and buried. Finally, I look around and see the many who are in some respects much worse than I am. This brings me to three conclusions: First, I learn where true happiness lies; Second, I realize where all our cares end; third, I realize how little reason I have to complain.”

God’s attributes can be displayed: (2 Cor 12:9-10) “But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me. {10} That is why, for Christ’s sake, I delight in weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

We can develop a valuable attribute: (Phil 4:11-12) “I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. {12} I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want.”

What did Jesus learn from his suffering? (Heb 5:8-9) “Although he was a son, he learned obedience from what he suffered {9} and, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him”

* Story of the man who helped a crysalis burst through the cocoon…didn’t have the strength needed to fly.

It will provide opportunities to make us sympathetic and to reach out to others: 2 Cor 1:3-6: that ‘comfort circle’ we’ve discussed before.

It will force us to depend upon God and to give thanks in all things. (Prov 3:5-6) “Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; {6} in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.”

(2 Cor 1:8-11) “We do not want you to be uninformed, brothers, about the hardships we suffered in the province of Asia. We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. {9} Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death. But this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God, who raises the dead. {10} He has delivered us from such a deadly peril, and he will deliver us. On him we have set our hope that he will continue to deliver us, {11} as you help us by your prayers. Then many will give thanks on our behalf for the gracious favor granted us in answer to the prayers of many.”

Teaches us to pray and that prayer works when nothing else will.

Use the events to glorify God (story of man born blind which Jesus used to glorify God…John 9:1-5).

“I asked God for strength that I might achieve, I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey.

I asked for health, that I might do greater things, I was given infirmity that I might do better things.

I asked for riches, that I might be happy, I was given poverty, that I might be wise.

I asked for power, that I might have the praise of men, I was given weakness, that I might feel the need of God.

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life, I was given life, that I might enjoy all things.

I got nothing that I asked for — but everything I had hoped for.

Almost despite myself, my unspoken prayers were answered. I am among all men, most richly blessed.” ¨ From Max Cleland, Strong at the Broken Places.

 
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Why I left the Roman Catholic church by John A. Cupp


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(John A. Cupp is a longtime family friend of Gary Davenport and this material is presented for your edification)
 INTRODUCTORY REMARKS

At this time I would like to thank each and every one of you assembled here this evening for coming out. I know there are a lot of places you could be that might be a lot more entertaining than here, but I am thankful to God that there are some who would come out tonight to listen to this lesson as we study from the word of God.

As we begin our lesson, I want to take the title itself and examine some of the implications that are contained therein. First, why I left the Roman Catholic Church or just the Catholic Church will be sufficient. The title implies that I did leave it, but before you leave anything you must be a member of that body, group or organization that you are about to leave. I have papers in my pocket tonight that can prove to anybody that I was baptized (and I use that term loosely at this point) I was baptized into the Catholic Church at the age of our days. Second, I want to tell you that I did leave the Catholic Church. In the first place, if I didn’t leave it, I wouldn’t be her tonight, and in the second place, I want you to know assuredly that I did leave it and I was not put out. Sometimes people think, as soon as you’re going to speak or preach about leaving the Catholic Church, that you are a reprobate and they kicked you out.

I can prove to you that nobody kicked me out, but I left of my own accord, and I thank God everyday of my life that I did leave.

Before we get into the main discussion of the lesson, I want to say with the exception of approximately fifteen people in this audience, the rest of you are total strangers to me. Of that number I do not know how many of you are Roman Catholics, with the exception of maybe one. Friends, I want to assure you of one thing tonight, whether you are a Christian, whether you are a member of some denomination, whether you are a Roman Catholic or not, I am going to treat you just like I would want you to treat me, because it hasn’t been too many years since I sat in the same seat—not in this city or state—but I sat in a meeting house similar to this and heard the Gospel for the first time. I guarantee you one thing right now, had the preacher said something about the Catholic Church which was untrue, I would have walked out and wouldn’t have listened to his sermon. Everything I’m going to say tonight, I’m going to read to you verbatim from these books I have on this stand that deal with the teaching, or the doctrine of the Catholic Church. I want you to do me a favor, If you are here tonight and are a Catholic and I misrepresent you, I want you to tell me about it, because I find that people sometimes unconsciously misrepresent denominations and the Catholic Church.

These books to which I will refer in my lesson, and from which I will quote, are official books of the Catholic Church. I have one book here “The History of the Church” by a man named Birkhasuser. This particular volume is designed for use as a textbook in Catholic seminaries. I have another book here called “Religion, Doctrine and Practice”. This man calls himself “Father” or “Reverend” Cassilly, and is one of the best writers of the Catholic Church, and a member of the Jesuit Society. I am going to refer to Mr. Cassilly in that manner. Another book here is called “Advanced Catechism of Catholic Faith and Practice” and another one “A Baltimore Catechism Number Three”. These three last books mentioned aren’t used in seminaries, but rather, they’re the textbooks that are used in the parochial schools, grammar and high schools.

I want you, if you have a Bible, to turn to Galatians the first chapter. I’m using the King James Version and reading to you verses six through ten. I want you to carefully listen and see if this applies to this meeting tonight. Paul, an inspired writer of God, says in Galatians the first chapter, verse six, writing to the Church at Galatia, “I marvel that ye are so soon removed from him that called you into the grace of Christ unto another Gospel.” Now Paul is about to rebuke them for something that is being done. He goes on in verse seven and explains what this is. Notice this, “Which is not another, but there be some that trouble you, and would pervert the Gospel of Christ, but though we, or an angel from Heaven,” (Now notice this wording) “Though we”, an inspired man of God – as Paul was, “or an angel from Heaven”, as he goes on to say, “preach any other gospel unto you than that which we have preached unto you, let him be accursed. As we said before, so say I now again if any man preach any other gospel unto you than that y have received, let him be accursed. For do I persuade men, or God? Or do I seek to please men? For if I yet pleased men, I shall not be the servant of Christ.” That is Galatians the first chapter, read out of the King James Version. A version that is studied perhaps more than any other version by people of the world who are non-Catholics. As I study this writing of the Apostle Paul, he warned over nineteen hundred years ago to look out for something. He said that there are some among you who would pervert the Gospel, and that’s a warning, and then he goes on and warns us to be careful and to look out for them. He also tells us, if anybody, ANYBODY even and angel from heaven, preach any other doctrine that he is to be accursed!

I have in my hand another Catholic book. This is a Revision of the Challoner-Rheims Version of the New Testament. You read your King James, and the Catholic that reads his New Testament will read this. I want you to listen carefully as I read to you the official Catholic interpretation of this scripture. To be perfectly honest with you, I like this translation better than the King James, as it does no injutice to the Greek in this test. When I read it, you will see what I am talking about. Here’s the Catholic interpretation: Paul speaking: “I marvel that ye are so quickly deserting him who called you to the grace of Christ, changing to another gospel; which is not another gospel, except in this respect, that there are some who trouble you, and wish to pervert the gospel of Christ. But even if we or an angel from Heaven should preach a gospel to you other than that which we have preached to you, let him be anathema!” Then he goes on to say, “As we have said before, so now I say again: If anyone preach a gospel to you other than that which ye have received, let him be anathema. For am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I seeking to please men? If I am still trying to please men, I should not be a servant of Christ.”

That is the Catholic translation of that verse of scripture, and I want you to notice what the Apostle Paul is warning every Catholic who reads that verse today. “If we, or an angel from Heaven should preach a gospel to you, other than that which we have preached to you, let him be Anathema.” Now somebody says, “What does Anathema mean?” Let’s have the Catholics explain it, because they’ve got a footnote on it. “Anathema: i.e. cursed, excluded from the Kingdom of God.” Paul wrote this and it will be the basis of my lesson.

Paul warned us, and I warn you tonight, that God gave us a gospel, God gave us a doctrine. He gave it to us over nineteen hundred years ago, and here one of his inspired writers warns us, pleads with us—that if anybody else, even an angel from Heaven (now how much higher could you get) if they preached any other gospel unto you than the New Testament gospel they are to be anathema, accursed, or cut out. Friends, I studied that verse of scripture a number of years ago, and as I studied it, I had to make a decision. The Apostle Paul either meant what he said, or he didn’t mean what he said, and I think as we continue in this lesson tonight we will see from the word of God, that everything an inspired man has ever put in the Bible, God put there because he wanted his people to follow it, because he wanted them to believe it, and because it was needful for the good of man.

PERSONAL HISTORY

It might be interesting at this point to give you some background in my life. As I said before, I became a member of the Catholic Church at a very young age. As a matter of fact, I became a member of the Catholic Church on April the 12th after I was born on April 8th. Somebody doesn’t see a thing wrong with that, and says, “Well, what are you making a statement about that for? After all, that happens to all Catholics. Because the Catholic Church teaches that a child should be baptized as soon as possible. To put off the sacrament for 3 or 4 weeks, and even longer, without very grave reasons, may be a grievous sin.: * (*Klauder, Rev., Catholic Practice, p. 25.)

This is their official teaching. My mother knew this teaching and she wasn’t taking any chances. They even say a week or two after birth, and she beat them to that. She got me there after four days, and had me “baptized” into the Catholic Church. Previously, I said I used the word baptism loosely. I wasn’t baptized into anything! I was: poured” into the Catholic Church. That’s all they did to me. They poured a little water over my head, called me John Andrew, and I officially became a member of the Roman Catholic Church, and my name is recorded on the books at Saint Columbus Church, in Youngstown, Ohio. Somebody might say, “Well, why didn’t you consider that baptism:” Friends, if you study the New Testament you would know that’s not baptism. You know there are certain things that I have to do before baptism. I want to ask you, what child of four days old ever had anything to repent of except keeping his parents up half the night: I had to repent of something* (* Acts 2:38) the Bible just says so. They baptized me, or poured me, and I had done nothing for which I should repent. That sounds funny, but it’s very serious, because from the very beginning they were not following the teaching of the scriptures.

You are probably wondering just what my early life in the Catholic Church was. Well, I went to Catholic schools all my school-life—with a couple years exception. Nearly every day of my life in the Catholic school we went to Mass (usually at eight in the morning), and were special devotions, we would go to Communion. I didn’t live next door to the Catholic Church; in Youngstown I lived about three miles from the Church! Hence, when I went to Mass, I didn’t just cross the street, but traveled the distance on foot! (And in the Catholic Church one doesn’t eat before Communion.) Let it be remembered that in Ohio the snow gets pretty deep, and for boys and girls in the first and second grades it can make travelling pretty difficult!! Nevertheless, we would go to church and Communion, then we ate a sandwich for breakfast and a couple of sandwiches for dinner, and we didn’t think a thing in the world of it. As a matter of fact, we were glad to do it.

That brings me to a point that I want to bring to you. I believe that the New Testament has the truth, and if we follow the New Testament we have the truth. The Catholic Church is not following the New Testament, but you know they go to church and do a lot of good works that put us to shame. I’ve heard people say, “Now why should I take my children to Bible study on Sunday morning? You mean I’ve got to get up an hour earlier, and dress all of them and get them there?” If you were in the Catholic church, you would have them to church every morning during some months, and would be happy to do it. Yet we will stand up and shout to heaven “we’ve go the truth” and we’re too lazy to do anything about it. If you want to talk about people that have zeal and will put us to shame in many cases, it’s the Catholic. Just because they have zeal and can put us to shame, still if they don’t follow God,* (Matthew 7:21-25) Matthew the seventh chapter has an answer to that particular situation.

When I was in the Catholic (or parochial) schools I became an altar boy. I believe this is the desire and wish of every young Catholic boy, and every mother and father want their son to become an altar boy. Why is that so important to a Catholic? Let me tell you. The Catholic church teaches that, especially during the transubstantiation of the mass, that the host and the wine that the priest holds up actually becomes the body and blood of Jesus Christ. Here’s the priest as he offers it and holds it up on the altar during the transubstantiation. It is the privilege of the altar boy to hold the vestment of the priest as he kneels and stands. They will tell you, and will impress it upon your mind—just think!—you are holding the garments of the one who is holding Christ in his hands. Friends, I’ll tell you, with arguments like that, you want to learn your Latin and become and altar boy. You want to get to serve mass because if you love God, you want to be by him. I loved God, and I wanted to be by him.

It was during this time as an altar boy, that I had the privilege (and then I considered it a deep privilege) to serve such men as Cardinal Mooney. Cardinal Mooney was from my hometown of Youngstown. He advanced to one of the highest offices in the Catholic Church,–and I had the privilege of service Mass for him. Another cardinal that I had the privilege of serving mass for was a man by the name of Mindszenty. He came over from Hungary one year and went about the United States making speeches to different Catholic religious organizations. It was when he was in Youngstown for a Labor Day speech, I served in the ceremony with Cardinal Mindszenty. Somebody says, “What does this have to do with the story?” Simply this: I had to opportunity then of coming in very close contact with the priests, bishops and even cardinals. As a matter of fact, I have a letter (now I’m not saying this to brag, I’m just giving you some background). I have a letter in my files that will prove to you that I was one of the main altar boys who served Bishop McFadden when Youngstown was made a diocese of the Catholic church. I had then the opportunity to come in contact with the priests and the bishops when they were serving God, according to the teachings of their church. It made me happy, and I couldn’t help thinking how wonderful it would be if I, John Cupp, could become a priest and help to serve all these people.

LIFE IN THE SEMINARY

It was while I was thinking along this line that I met a priest a Father Carroll, as he called himself, who was a member of the Maryknoll Missions. Maryknoll Missions are a group of Catholic priests, nuns and brothers, who go into foreign lands, and preach the gospel to the poor heathens. Well, I listened to his story, and I talked with him. After talking to him and another priest by the name of Harrington, I decided to go to the Seminary and study to be a Catholic priest. After preliminary investigations, physical examinations and such, I was sent to Buffalo, New York, to Saint Joseph’s Seminary. There I began the study of the Catholic Church that was offered to the young men who were going to spend their next eight years in the Seminary studying to be Catholic priests.

It was then I began to ask questions. Previous to this I had been too contented to ask any questions. I wasn’t worried about anything. After all, if we (The Catholic Church) were doing it, it must be right and what else was there to do. Every Thursday afternoon we had what they called orientation periods. It was at that time the Monsignor in charge of the Seminary would take us up to the third floor of the school in the auditorium and there he would lecture to us about some of the things that we could expect after we were finally ordained priests. The first meeting we had, he made a statement that stuck with me. He said to us at that meeting—(there were about sixty-two of us in the class)—”at the end of this course, if we get two priests out of the sixty-two, we’re running a good average”. Do you know what I said, when he said that? I said to myself, “Father, if there are two priests that come out of this group, Cupp’s going to be one of them”. Somebody says at this time, “Well if you went to the Seminary and left, you weren’t sincere in the first place”. I want to go again to this Catholic Testament, and read to you the statement that won me admission to the Seminary in Buffalo, New York. I want you to listen to it and see the way I was thinking then. This is what I wrote to gain admission. “I want to become a Maryknoll Missionary because I have heard and read of their works. I feel on the advice of my priest, that this is the way I can spend my life, in knowing, loving and serving God. Only in this way, do I help others to save their souls. I know it is a life of many hardships, but I hope to depend on the grace of God to give me the ability to carry on.” I wrote that a long time ago. I didn’t come across it until about two years ago. So then when somebody says, “You weren’t sincere in the first place”, I beg to differ with you. That’s why I read that statement.

The priest began to lecture and tell us about some of the things we could expect after we were ordained. He told us about a young man who had been ordained in May. He said this particular man was sent to a parish. As he went to work with this parish, it was his duty on Sunday afternoon to go out and baptize the infants. Every Sunday afternoon at home they baptized the infants. He went out and came back in a little while and was crying. The old Monseignor was kneeling in the sacristy saying his office, that is the prayers that they have to say every day. He looked at the young man and said, “What’s the matter?” The young man answered, “Father, that baby I baptized—its father was a priest.” He used to say to us, “Many times this collar will choke you.” He had the white collar on that you have all seen. I didn’t know then what he was talking about—I didn’t understand him. When he began to warn us about some of these things I began to understand.

I want to say something at this point, I said that he said (and he did) that the father of that baby was a Catholic priest. Just about now somebody is thinking, “You know, that bears out a story I heard from so and so from such and such a place about Catholic so and so and such and such. Friends, I want to say this to you. You have heard a lot of stories about the Catholic Church. I’ve heard some that would curl your hair. But I want to let you in on a secret. The Catholics have heard stories about you that would curl your hair too. Catholics talk about Protestants and Protestants turn around and talk about Catholics and when you shuck it all down and examine what they are both saying, there is usually about one-tenth of one percent of truth to what either side is saying. This reminds me of a game we played at parties when I was a child. We sat in a circle, somebody would start a story, and would pass it around the room from person to person. You know what had happened when it got back to the person who had started it? Nine cases out of ten, it was so jumbled up he didn’t recognize it as the story he started with. That is what happens when we start to talk about the Catholics and the Catholics begin to talk about us. Friends listen, there are some cases and I know of one case personally in my own family, (when I say my own family I know what I’m speaking of) where priests and nuns have gotten out of line, but I want you to know this; that is not the common practice. There are some people in the Roman Catholic Church tonight as sincere as any Christian has ever been. But still, because they are sincere and reject the work of God, we can’t make excuses for them.

I began to ask a lot of questions after some of these lectures. One thing that bothered me in particular was confession. I wanted to know why I had to go to confession. (When we were in the seminary we had to go once a week and I began to ask questions about this practice.) About the best answer I ever got from the Monsignor was this, “Now, when you boys have been here long enough, these things will all come—they will all be revealed to you and you’ll understand. Well, I listened to that for so long that I simply got disgusted. I even stopped studying my Latin. I didn’t car what happened, and decided to go home.

RETURN HOME

What were the reactions of my parents when I returned home? Well, when I first got back to Youngstown, I started to think about what that priest said in the first lecture he gave us. Out of this class if we get two—or actually out of fifty he said, if we get two that’s a good average. I started to think to myself. Before I left the Seminary I could think of about seventeen boys that had left before me. I started to ask myself the question, “John, what happens to these boys?” Let me tell you what happens. Some of them come out and continue to live in the Catholic Church. Others come out and they join some denomination; soon, if they study, they find themselves as bad off as they were before. Still others, get to the condition I believe I was in—about to become an atheist.

You wonder why that was. When I came home, unknown to others, I began to go to other churches. I went to the Methodist Church in Youngstown, Ohio (I want you to know where these are). I went to the Baptist Church, The Presbyterian Church and the Episcopalian Church—and the Catholic Church. You know it was the funniest thing, everyone of them begged me to come, they were all going to save me. They were all going to get me to heaven, but they were all going to do it a different way! Now I couldn’t understand that. Why there was a just God in Heaven who would let a man in this pulpit and that pulpit and another and another were telling me that everybody else was going to hell, now there must have been something wrong. I wondered just what was missing. What was lacking that would lead a person into a mess like that.

Friends, if you have ever been in that position you know what I’m talking about. Well, I wasn’t too happy with anything about that time, but I would go to mass on Sunday morning for one reason—t keep my mother from reprimanding me for not going. It was during this period when I was so undecided and couldn’t make up my mind, when I had been studying these other religions and they were all so farfetched that it was impossible to believe anything, that I met a young lady who was a member of the Lord’s church. Soon after we met she asked me to go to church with her, but I refused. I was sick and tired of religion. I wondered what her denomination had to offer that everybody else didn’t have, and continued to refuse to go until she hit my weak spot. One Sunday afternoon she invited me home for lunch and I went with her, as I’ve never passed up a free meal yet. We were sitting there eating and the doorbell rang. She answered the door and ushered in a young man and lady who I imagined were friends she knew from a club or something. The man was about twenty-one and his wife was about the same age. They sat down and after dinner we got to talking shop. He said Mr. Cupp, what do you do? “Mr. Barnhouse, what do you do “well,” he said, “I’m preaching where Shirley goes to church.” I was astonished, here was a young man about twenty-one years old preaching to old people! Well, I went to church that night, and I’ll tell you why. I was just plain curious. After the sermon, the young lady asked me what I thought of it. I told her it was very interesting, but one thing struck me in particular, the way everything he said he took from the Bible. He didn’t use anything else. I couldn’t understand why he placed so much faith in one book, but as I began to study this book, I could see that this is what God had given us in the first place to make us united. As long as a person follows that teaching, he would be saved, if he would but do what Jesus Christ said, and leave man and his personal opinions out. I began to go to church regularly. I went for about four Sunday nights and about two Sundays, morning and evening. The next Sunday I walked up the aisle, March 5, 1950, and was baptized by Brother Jess Nutter, because at last I had found something that wasn’t arguing with itself, that would tell me the way to get to heaven. I knew if God was right, if this was his book, then what he said, I’d better do. For as sure as I could tell, I was headed straight for Hell.

You know, we Christians sometimes forget how lucky we are. Let’s just take this illustration, for example: When an average preacher, not a member of the Church of Christ, a denominational preacher or a Catholic goes to discuss religion with you, he has to take every book that every one of his intelligent men have written on the subject. Nine times out of ten he will debate with you, and he will find one man saying in 1890 what another man contradicted in 1945, so he just doesn’t know which way to turn. When you start talking about God, all you need to have is the word of God. God gave you in the Bible everything you have to know.

He gave you the plan of salvation. He tells you how to live and what to do after you have obeyed the gospel. Friends, that is what I had been looking for for a long time. God wasn’t cruel—He hadn’t forgotten man. He has given them something that they could take, and follow, and study, and eventually go home and be with Him in Heaven.

About this time, in February of that year my mother happened to find a church bulletin in my pocket. She was watching me very closely and found that I was going to another church. Then I had to make up my mind. Should I wait to be baptized as God said I had to be? Should I wait until I was financially able to get away from home? Or should I go ahead and do it right now? There’s another decision you should try to make sometime. I decided to be baptized right away. So that March 5th I was baptized. From the day in February they found that paper in my pocket—February, March, April, May and June—five months I lived with my mother and father, two brothers and a sister, and they spoke not one word to me. The best I could get out of them was, “Get Up”, in the morning when it was time to get up, and that is about all. Oh, they would fight with me—one brother in particular. He wanted to argue anytime he could and he usually ended up arguing with his fists. He claimed to be a good Christian, and I enjoyed watching him act like that.

Well, if you lived home for five months, with people that you loved, (and I love my mother tonight as much as I love anybody) if you lived home under conditions like that, I ask you, what would you do? I’ll tell you what you would do in the average case. You would think about it so much that you would probably end up going back to the Catholic Church, just to be friends with everybody. If it were not for the help of the church people, I don’t know what I would have done. I think I might be back in the Catholic Church tonight. I wouldn’t have worried about God and doctrine or things like that, because I could go back there where my loved ones were. It was the help of the church people that kept me going. It was their encouragement and their patience and their time when I would sit down and ask questions, (and I was full of questions). They would say, “John, if you will open your Bible and study it, I think you will see what you want.” You know, I began to realize that the Bible was the most wonderful thing in the world. That it was just full of good material. There isn’t a day goes by at the present time that I don’t become more and more engrossed in God’s word. It is so full of the things that we need, and God gave it to us so long ago.

When my parents finally did find out that I had obeyed the gospel, they put me out—disowned and disinherited me. When I tried to talk religion with them, the back door was opened, and even today I can’t talk religion with them. Last April I had to go home because of sickness, not in my own family, but the family of a group of church people that had taken me in, and literally speaking adopted me. When in Youngstown I went to my mother’s house. She met my wife for the first time, but there was one thing that I couldn’t do. I couldn’t open the Bible and show her that precious word that God had given us. **Romans 1:16 That word that Paul said was the power of God unto Salvation.

I hope I haven’t bored you with background. At this time we are going to go in and see just what the reasons were which caused me to leave the Catholic church. What were some of those question I had to answer for myself? At this time, I could go into the history of the Catholic Church, but I didn’t leave on account of the history. I left because of some of the things that the average Catholic is associated with—the things that they know, the things that they love, and the things they do.

CONFESSION

I told you about confession earlier in the lesson. That was the first thing that bothered me. I couldn’t get the teaching on confession straight in my mind. Why should I go once a week, especially in the seminary where you weren’t allowed to read the newspaper, or go to the show without an older brother, you had to study most of the time, and you just couldn’t get into any mischief, and yet you had to go to confession once a week. I didn’t have anything to tell, but we had to go. I kept asking questions about that. I wanted them to tell me somehow, why we had to do it. As far as I knew, confession had been here since the church had been established. But I began to have my eyes opened, I guess you would call it. I actually surprised myself by studying about how long confession had been around. Confession in the Catholic Church today is what they call auricular confession. That simply means confession from your mouth to the ear of the priest. I thought that had been here since the time of the apostles, but if you will check with Catholic history auricular confession didn’t come into existence until the year 1215, when it was defined by Pope Innocent III, at the IV Council of Lateran.

When did the Church come into existence? You might put on a piece of paper large number to represent 33 A.D. or the Day of Pentecost, when Jesus Christ’s church was established. Here is a doctrine that is coming in, in the year 1215 A.D. brought in by the man called Pope Innocent who defined it. It had been around for a few years before, but now they get up the courage to define it. I had to go and kneel before a priest confess my sins and tell him I was sorry when in some cases he was doing things a lot worse. When I began to study the Bible I wanted to know just why I had to go and kneel down and tell the priest my sins. Now somebody says “How do we know that it is the duty of the priest to forgive your sins?” To answer the skeptic I will refer you to this book by Mr. Cassilly, Religion, Doctrine, and Practice. On page 266, question number 7, we find this question: “Mention the principal powers of the priest. The principal powers of the priest are to offer the Holy Sacrifice, (meaning the mass) and to forgive sins”. Now there is only one thing wrong with that. I checked it out in my New Testament, in the Challoner Rheims Version and in the King James translation. I couldn’t find that teaching in there any place. Somebody referred me to First Timothy, chapter two and verse five. You know what I found? Jesus Christ is my mediator, (He’s the one that I go to God through when I’ve sinned) I ask God to forgive me. You can take any translation you have, Latin Vulgate, King James, American Standard, or any other translation and there is not one of them that will tell you to go to the Catholic priest to confess your faults. James the fifth chapter says, “Confess your faults one to another”. There is not a Catholic priest mentioned in any—one of those translations. Now you can see why I wondered about confession. Friends it is hard to make the decision I had to make, to hold on to something that you have loved all your life, or to turn around and take something that seems new, but has actually been here longer than the Doctrine of Confession. Now I ask this question, “Why should I go to the Catholic priests when Jesus Christ is my mediator between God and man?” That is the wedge that started to open the gap.

INSTRUMENTAL MUSIC

Another thing that bothered me was instrumental music. That may sound strange to you. The first night I walked into the Church of Christ we were ready for church and everybody sat down. A man stood up with a song book, and just started singing. They didn’t have an organ or a piano. I couldn’t figure it out. When we started home that night, I asked the young lady, “Can’t you afford a piano?”, as it was a small congregation. Well, she put me straight in no uncertain terms. She said that if God had commanded us to have an organ or a piano, we would have the best that money could buy.

Well, why don’t you have and instrument of music? When I was in the early grades of Catholic school, we used to sing during mass. We had choirs and sang on Sunday mornings at nine o’clock mass. By the time I got up into the high school age, that had almost completely passed away in Youngstown. I don’t know if you do it here, but they had practically stopped the singing by school children and adults at mass. The only choirs they had were the seminarian choirs, men in the seminary who would sing, or the choirs from the high schools, and occasionally a choir from the grade school. I began to study instrumental music. I wondered did they (the Catholic Church) have that from the time of Christ. Here I got another shock. I found that instrumental music did not come until the year of 666 A.D. and it was brought in by a pope at that time by the name of Vitalian.* Y You ask what the reaction was? I’ll tell you.** (*Oechtering, Rev. Mgr. J.H., Short Catechism of Church History, p. 105) (** Catholic Encyclopedia, v61. II, pp. 300-301) The people were so angry and so mad that they had to take the organ out of the church, in some instances, for over two hundred years. I can show this to you from Catholic books, it isn’t something I’m making up. Today Pope Vitalian is a saint. He brought it in not worrying about what is said in Revelation 22:18-19.

When a person argues that Scripture is their basis for the instrument—the only scripture or book they have is Catholic Church tradition. I went to my Bible. I had somebody point out some very interesting verses of scripture. They showed me Ephesians 5:19 AND Colossians 3:16. I studied these verses in different translations and all I could read was that I was to sing and make melody in my heart. There wasn’t an example or verse that told me to use a banjo, an accordion, a piano or anything else. It just told me to sing, and make melody in my heart unto God. There’s another thing. What are you going to do? You have to follow one or the other—you have to follow the teaching of Jesus Christ—you have to follow this instrumental music teaching that has been here quite a while too, but not as long as the Bible. I was preaching this sermon one time and made that same statement. An old lady called me down, she said, “Wait a minute young man. You’ve missed the boat.” When I asked her what she meant she asked me if I had ever been to any of the other churches—that they all had their organ or their piano, and because they all used it, it must be all right. Friend, I say this to you kindly, if you are a member of some organization that uses an instrument of music in worship, you can’t find authority for it in the New Testament. You know where you will find it? You will find it in 666 when Mr. Vitalian brought it into the Catholic Church. That is your only authority.

The denominational world is really following the Catholics. Sixty years ago how many non-Catholic churches would have thought of celebrating Lent? I don’t imagine there were any. But you know, it was a most amazing thing. During what they call the Lenten season I made a trip to the Central part of the state, and in every town through which I would drive they would have a big sign LENTEN SERVICE. Where did they find that in the Bible? They found it in the same Bible they found instrumental music—Catholic tradition. They couldn’t prove it from the word of God. When they observe Lent they take it from the Catholics. They didn’t have that fifty or sixty years ago, but they’ve got it today. When you discuss this with a Protestant and ask him for scriptural authority, he doesn’t have to waste time looking in the Bible. All he has to do is go back and show you where the Catholic Church brought it in. It is a sad case, but it is just a case of trying to keep up with the Joneses. You know that old saying, “You just stay where you are, and you’ll meet them coming back.”

The teaching on Purgatory

The next thing that I will discuss, because it caused me a lot of concern, is the teaching of the Catholic Church on purgatory. As far as I was concerned, purgatory was like everything else. It had been there from the year the church was established, and we could just go to the Bible and show you all about it if you wanted to know when we had to use it. Catholics today will tell you that their source of authority is twofold. It is from scripture and from tradition. They won’t argue with you about it. As a matter of fact, we are going to use a few questions in a minute from their books that they use to show that they get their authority from tradition.

Where is purgatory, how do you get there, and how do you get out? I found the doctrine of purgatory wasn’t defined until the year 1438 and then it was defined by the Council of Florence.* It was there they began to set up some of the teachings about indulgences and such like. When I was in the seminary there was a boy there by the name of Jimmy Pastoure from Canton, Ohio. Jimmy, his mother and brother were Catholics. I found out one day helping him wash dishes that his Dad was not a Catholic. That shocked me. When I asked him why his Dad was not a Catholic he told me that his Father just did not believe in purgatory, and I worked as hard as I’ve ever worked on any project to get books and pamphlets that would convince him. I hope I didn’t convince him, because when I started to study it for myself, I could not find it in the word of God. We might turn again to Mr. Cassilly’s book and let him answer just what purgatory is. (* Birkhaeuser, Rev. J.A., History of the Church, p. 421)

I can’t define it from the Bible so don’t ask me. Question number 17 on page 459, “What is purgatory?” “Purgatory is a state in which the souls of the just after death are purified from the stains of sin still remaining before they can enter heaven.” Now that’s their book. That is what they teach. Mr. Cassilly goes on to say “The doctrine of purgatory is entirely according to reason.” You know this amazes me, you go to them and they will dig up a lot of scriptures and try to apply it to the teaching, but when he says it is entirely according to reason he simply doesn’t need scripture. He goes on to say, “The Council of Trent says the scripture (now if the scriptures say it, I want to accept it, because I know if I reject scripture I’m going to be lost) and the early tradition of the Church teaches that purgatory exists.” I would like to know what verse of scripture that is. I’ve talked with a lot of Catholics and I’ve searched for it but I haven’t been able to find it, so if you know where it is, I want you to tell me. Somebody says, “Well where is purgatory?” A Catholic can’t tell you. Some of their greatest scholars have been arguing about that. Some will tell you that it’s the sun, other say that it is the center of the earth, while others say it’s out in the galaxys someplace. They just can’t tell you. Hebrews 9:27 tells me something very interesting. “And as it is appointed unto man once to die, but after this is the judgment.” I say this to you tonight, there is not a verse of scripture in the New Testament that teaches me that if I die with sin on my soul that you can do anything to help me, or that I can come back and have a second chance. It just isn’t in the Bible.

Just who goes to purgatory? Catholics teach there are two kinds of sin: mortal sin and venial sin. Big sin and little sin. The Bible doesn’t say this but they do. If a man dies with mortal sin on his soul, he goes to Christ, is judged and goes to hell. If the man dies with venial sin on his soul, he is judged, but goes to purgatory to serve out his time. The Bible doesn’t say that, but the Catholic Church does* (* Ibid., page 421)

If the Bible teaches it I want you to show it to me. Somebody asks, “What is there to move people to make them believe anything like that?” I think question nineteen in Mr. Cassilly’s book answers that. “What are the pains of purgatory?” “The principal pain of purgatory is deprivation of the Beatific Vision;” (break that down into language the average person understands, and it means you can’t see Christ) “and the general tradition of the church is that the souls also suffer acutely in other ways. Many say that the souls are punished by fire.” Now just think, a loved one dies and the Catholic priest said he probably went to purgatory. This is how they get this doctrine across. What about after the day of judgment? “After judgement day there will be heaven and hell, but no purgatory”, Question twenty, part B.

Let’s take a man who dies and follow their teaching on purgatory. He dies and goes to God. If he has a mortal sin on his soul, Christ says “Now you can’t come into Heaven!” and the man goes to Hell. If a man dies with Venial sin on his soul, he is judged by Christ and sentenced to purgatory for a certain period of time. Again they tell you that you get so many days indulgences for certain acts, but they can’t tell you to save their life how many days indulgences an individual would need in purgatory. You ask, “When a person goes to purgatory, how can he get out.” He can get out in one of two ways. The first way he can get out is to serve his time, or the second way is that he can get out by your helping him get out. From this book Advanced Catechism, I read question 415. “Can the faithful on earth help the soul in purgatory?” “The faithful on earth can help the souls in purgatory by their prayers, fasts, alms deeds, indulgences and by having masses said for them”. These thoughts bring in another teaching of the Catholic Church. The Communion of Saints. If I were a Catholic, and somebody I loved died, I would simply go to the priest and say that I want a mass said for the one who died and the indulgences would be applied to their indulgences when that act was performed that would be applied to their account, just like paying a loan, when they take so much off, the total debt, after that person paid the time, then he would be allowed to go to heaven and be with God. That’s the way the Communion of Saints works.

Indulgences are not—and I want to say this and make it clear—never were, and never will be a license to sin. You might properly call indulgences, “The Key to Heaven.” There is not a Catholic theologian today who would agree with you if you were to say indulgences are a license to sin. If we misrepresent the Catholics on one thing, it is on indulgences. You have heard the story that they are having a special down at the Catholic Church this week-—indulgences three for a dollar. You go buy some and then sin all you want. This is just a lot of foolish gossip and anybody who repeats it should be ashamed of himself. Talk like this is what gets false stories started. Trouble begins when people start passing stories like that which have no foundation. There is not a Catholic priest alive today who would not admit to you that there have been misuses of indulgences, but friends please don’t show somebody how little you know, and I say that kindly, don’t show them how ignorant you are by taking a misuse that they will admit and say this is what you do and teach all the time. It isn’t what they teach all the time, they teach just what I’ve told you. Some people have heard so many other things about them, that they just don’t know what the truth is.

Let me give you an example of one of the misuses of indulgences. The Low Mass in the United States today costs one dollar. It doesn’t cost—a good Catholic asks what is the offering. In times past you could go to Canada and have the Low Mass for the same amount of indulgences said for twenty-five cents, but if you lived in France where there were a lot poor priest, you could have the mass with the same amount of indulgences said for five cents. Now here is what is on record of happening.* When the dollar was paid (*Chiniquy, Charles, Fifty Years in the Church of Rome p.201) in the United States, twenty-five cents was sent to Cannonade to have the Mass said, the Priest in Canada sent Five cents to France and kept twenty cents and finally the Mass was said for the poor soul who died. Somebody was making ninety-five cents on a dollar. They’ll admit that that is wrong, but it is not the general practice, let me say that, that has been done in times past, but because they’ve done that in times past, don’t dig up the dirt, just take the doctrine of purgatory and indulgences which they are proud of and examine it along side the word of God.

BAPTISM

When I began to study about baptism, I thought that pouring was perfectly all right. I had been a sponsor in a number of Catholic baptisms, and it was then I would stand up and be a Godparent for the infant that was to be baptized. I said in the beginning I was “poured” into the Catholic Church. Now that’s just about true. I began to study the word of God, especially after I saw an individual baptized, and I couldn’t understand how they baptized her. It just didn’t make sense to me for they took the girl and put her completely down in the water, just like in this pool here, got her all wet, then they brought her up. I couldn’t understand why they would do anything like that. I thought baptism had always been pouring from the beginning. Upon closer investigation I found that pouring and sprinkling were not introduced into the Catholic Church until approximately 1311 A.D. Now remember that the Church began 33 A.D. You compare 1311 with it and you’ll find that this was introduced into the church a long time after Jesus Christ told us how to be baptized. I want to again read to you a question or statement from Mr. Cassilly’s book and see what they have to say about baptism. “What is baptism? Baptism is the sacrament of regeneration, which cleanses us from original sin, makes us Christians, Children of God, and heirs of Heaven”* This is how they get (*Cassilly, S.J., Religion, Doctrine & Practice p. 183) baptism across to the average Catholic. They say, “Mother, when your child is born it has original sin on its soul, all the way from Adam, and if it were to die with it, it wouldn’t go home to be with God in Heaven, but would go to Limbo.”** The Bible

(**Rumble & Carty, Fathers, Radio Replies, Vol. I, p. 167) doesn’t sat that.*** (***Matthew 18) I wish all our souls tonight were as pure as any child that is in this audience. “In what three ways may the water be applied in baptism.”* “The water may (*Cassilly, S.J., Religion, Doctrine & Practice, p. 136) be applied by immersion, sprinkling or pouring. A. The Church has at different times and places applied the water in these three ways. Sprinkling is no longer practiced, although it might be used in a possible case where neither or the other methods could be followed. Immersion means dipping a person wholly or partly under water.” They don’t even define the term correctly. “This method is still sanctioned by cannon law for churches which have an approved ritual book that calls for it.” Some wonder what cannon law is. It is to the Catholic what the Bible is to Christians. That is the official word, and the official word even recognizes immersion today. The ordinary way is to pour water on the head. I had to study about that because I found another very interesting thing.

The Catholic Church that I was a member of at that time was baptizing infants at a very rapid rate, during the Second World War as most of you remember. They were actually pouring water on their heads, and when I went to the Bible all I could find it saying was that baptism was a burial, so somebody’s wrong. Either the apostles were wrong when they defined it, or the Catholic Church was wrong when they ignored it! There’s that old question that will keep popping up in your mind when you study the Bible and compare your doctrine with the Word of God. God said this and my preacher said that, now which are you going to follow. Don’t follow your preacher, follow God. That’s the only safe thing to do. The Bible says that we are to buried in Baptism, Romans 6:4. I was shocked when I read Colossians 2:12, I’ve got to be buried! I could see why the preacher buried that girl completely under the water, because that’s simply the way the New Testament told him to do it. Someone made the statement to me today, “Why you couldn’t say that baptism was burial, because if it was, how could you take an infant and put it down under the water?” Friends, baptism wasn’t meant for infants. Some people are going to say; now you watch what you’re saying. The plan of salvation is very simple, and I’m going to briefly outline it now. I know that I must hear the word of God, Romans 10:17, “So then Faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God.” When I hear the word of God and am ready to repent of my sins I confess Jesus Christ as did the Eunuch in Acts the 8th chapter, then I’m ready to be buried by baptism for the remission of my sins. Now you tell me what child that is one week, or one year old can hear the word of God and understand it, and is willing to repent of its sins, who’ll confess with the mouth Christ as did the Eunuch, and say now I want to be buried by baptism as Jesus Christ commanded. See, it wasn’t meant for children. Any person who says that a child is born with original sin on its soul is saying something that neither you nor I can find in the word of God. It’s just not there. Are you going to follow God, or are you going to follow man?* (*Ezekiel 18:29)

PAPAL INFALLIBILITY

The next thing that bothered me in the Seminary and still bothers me today, is Papal Infallibility. That’s a big term, it doesn’t really mean much, it simply means that the Pope is infallible. You would think that if the Pope was sanctioned by the Bible you could trace it all the way back to New Testament times, but you can’t trace the Pope back, and find any authorization for Popes to start with. Anyway, they teach that the Pope of Rome is infallible. What does this mean to the average person who doesn’t know much about the Catholic Church? I have studied Papal infallibility and I thought it meant that the Pope had always been infallible from the beginning. Well, they’ll argue it both ways. Some will say he was, some will say he was not. You show them a case where two popes contradict each other and they say “Oh they weren’t infallible,” but when you show them the whole situation they’ll say “Yes, we’ve had infallibility since the time of Peter.” Infallibility was defined by the Vatican Council in 1870. Here is the way men at the Council voted on it. 541 said we will accept infallibility; 88 voted against it; 62 said they would accept it if modified; and 70 wouldn’t vote at all. Yet they say they’re unified on everything, but they weren’t united on this particular teaching. I want somebody to show me where infallibility of the Pope is taught in the New Testament.

Let me give you an example of what infallibility is, so we will better understand it. On August 15, 1950 the Pope declared that Mary ascended bodily into Heaven. That then became an official doctrine of the Roman Catholic Church. On August 14, 1950 a parish priest in the United States, say a Jesuit, says from his pulpit that Mary did not ascend into Heaven bodily. On August 15 the Pope declares that she did, and he declares it by his infallibility. On August 16 you know what has to happen. August 16 that same Jesuit priest has to say that she did go up bodily, if he doesn’t he will be excommunicated from the Catholic Church.

Now let me say this. The Catholic Church does not teach that the Pope cannot sin. It teaches that he can sin. In fact, whether you know it or not, the Pope of Rome goes to confession everyday of his life. What he confesses I don’t know. In Mr. Connell’s New Baltimore Catechism #3, Question 403, page 97, “When does the Church teach infallibility? The Church teaches infallibility when it defines, through the Pope alone, as the teacher of all Christians, or through the Pope and bishops a doctrine of faith or morals to be held by all the faithful.” We go on to Question $406, “Must we accept the teaching of the Pope, which are not infallible. We must accept the teachings of the Pope which are not infallible, because they are wise and just, and since he gives them with authority, then we must accept out of obedience, though not out of faith.” Now see what this doctrine teaches. It teaches that what the Pope says you have to do as a Catholic, you must do it. We might go on further if time permitted and read some of the other questions. Here is one. From Mr. Cassilly’s book page 421: I said the Pope can sin—Catholics teach that he can.

Question 32: “When is the Pope infallible? The Pope can do wrong or commit sin as any other person, hence he is not impeccable. Moreover, in his private capacity he could hold false opinions even on matters of faith.” Now look at this. The Pope can have a private opinion on a matter of faith, he can preach it—here it goes—”it was possible also for him to deviate from truth in giving a sermon or in writing a book.” (Notice this now.) “But when acting in his official capacity as teacher of the Church, he is preserved by the assistance of the Holy Ghost from falling into error.” If you have a Bible, turn to Colossians 1:18. Now Paul, the writer, an inspired man of God, must have been ignorant on this point, because he didn’t know this. Paul said that “He (Christ) is the head of the body”, and that body is the Church. He never said that anybody in Rome was. Paul said that Christ is the head of the body, the Church. Colossians 1:18. Ephesians 1:22-23 is another example of a teaching that was here before Catholicism!

Just what power does the Pope have over Catholics today? You know, it worries me sometimes, especially on this point. People say, “Young man, you don’t know what you are talking about, what power could he have over people in America when he is in Rome?” I wish you could have been in the seminary with me. You would have learned a little about the power of the Pope. Every Cardinal, Bishop, Priest, Nun and Brother in the world today is under the jurisdiction and has to take orders from the Pope of Rome. Let me give an example to show just how complete his power is. Had I stayed in the seminary and had been ordained a Catholic priest, the Pope could have sent word to New York and said Cupp goes to China—Cupp would have gone to China, or he could have said send Cupp to Africa and let him teach down there, and Cupp would have gone to Africa. On the other hand, he could have said, We’ll keep Cupp in the United States and Cupp would have stayed in the United States. He has that same power over every Priest, every Nun and Bishop in the Catholic Church.

Another illustration will show you what I mean. A cloister nun is a woman who devotes her life never to leave the walls of the convent after she enters.* Never to come (*Catholic Encyclopedia, Vol. 4, p. 61) out and have contact with the outside world. Not too long ago, a cloister nun in New York had to have an operation. But before she could have that operation, she had to have permission from the Pope in Rome to leave the convent. That may startle you, but that is the power that he has over every religious member of the Catholic Church. Somebody says, “Now wait a minute Brother Cupp. You are talking about Priests, Nuns and Bishops, What about the average Catholic citizen?” Let me read you something to answer your question. Pope Leo the 13th, in his letter entitled, “Chief Duties of Christian Citizens”, says this (and it applies to a Catholic tonight): “Catholics owe complete submission and obedience of will to the Church and to the Roman Pontiff as to God himself.” You can ask any priest about this letter and you will find that statement in there.

As we bring this lesson to a close tonight, we are going to have an open forum, and answer questions after we sing a song of invitation. “Brother Cupp, just what are the future plans of Rome?” I can’t answer that completely. But I remember as perhaps some of you do, that I was living in Tampa, Florida in the fall of 1951, and a newspaper article came out at that time. It said the Pope of Rome (you can check this) wanted to build an army and an air force and a navy. You know, Jesus answered that argument pretty well in John 18:36. He said, “My kingdom is not of this world.”

What about the Catholic Church in America? The Constitution, thank God, provides for separation of church and state. I’ll tell you tonight that this is not the aim of the Catholic Church. The Catholic Church will be happy (and they will admit it) when Church and state are one. There are some very good books out on that. A man by the name of Paul Blanchard did some excellent research on the Catholic Church and put out two books that are great—just full of facts. These give an excellent insight into the political aspect of the Catholic Church.

As for the church and state being one, I have here in my hand a United Press dispatch release—it was in the Miami Herald. The date is August 7, 1953. The headline is: “Catholicism is declared Spain’s Only Religion”. It goes on to say, “Spain and the Vatican signed a concordat today which declared that Roman Catholicism is the ‘only religion’ in Spain and guaranteed the teaching of the Catholic religion in all schools.” The third paragraph goes on to say, “The thirty-six article pact, text of which has not been released, extends to the government of Generalissimo Francisco Franco to the Spanish branch of the church and to the Spanish language certain special new privileges”.

That may seem harmless enough in itself. I wonder what could result from this. I now want to refer you to an Associated Press dispatch, dated March 15, 1954, Barcelona, Spain. “Catholic Urges Crusade Against Protestantism”. Then we go on to read and see what happened when the Catholics got in over there. “Roman Catholic Arch-Bishop Gregorio Modrego of Barcelona called today for a ‘True Crusade’ against Protestantism in his diocese. In a pastoral letter made public today, the prelate said such a campaign was necessary because of increased Protestant propaganda and proselyting. He asked all parochial leaders to watch Protestants closely, and report to the authorities immediately all Protestant actions they considered not be in conformity with the Spanish Bill of Rights. This provides non-Catholics must worship in private. No external signs of their religion are permitted”. That is what happened. That is just one example of what the Catholic Church was able to do. I’m not saying that the Catholic Church will take over the United

States in the next ten, twenty or thirty years, but I believe with all my heart and soul (and I know from the official teaching of the Catholic Church which is no secret)* that the aim (*Marshall, C.C., The Roman Catholic church in the Modern State, p. 107) of the Catholic Church is to make church and state one in the United States. When I was in the seminary (now this is on me) I argued that point as loud and long as anybody—that we ought to use tax money to support parochial schools. I didn’t have any scripture for my arguments then, but I wasn’t worried about scriptures.

As I’ve been talking to you tonight, I haven’t tried to offend anybody. I would have preached the same sermon had my mother been in the audience. Every time I’ve preached this lesson, I’ve preached it with that in mind. I want to change her from that error and take her from the yoke with which she is burdened. As I study the teaching of the Catholic Church and look at some of their doctrinal books, I can’t help but thank God for the simple teachings of the New Testament.

Are you a member of some organization that is not mentioned in the New Testament? A denomination that Jesus Christ does not recognize” I beg you to think about these things, look at the proof that has been presented. These books are the official teaching of the Catholic Church, even though they conflict with the simple teachings of the New Testament. Let me ask you. Who are you going to serve? If you take your doctrine the belief that you hold to, and stack it up along side the word of God, then try to find it in the Bible and you don’t find it there—I just hope and pray that you will be man or woman enough to say to yourself, “Now, I’ve got to serve God—to put away the traditions and teachings that I’ve been holding to in times past”.

If you do not know, let me tell you what the plan of salvation is. It is not hard or complicated. I have outlined it briefly, but let me say again: Romans 10:17 tells me the wonderful news that faith comes by hearing, and hearing by the word of God. So I hear the word of God and believe it. What do I do then? I’m not saved yet. The Bible doesn’t say that-then I repent of my sins. The Lord said, “Except ye repent…ye shall likewise perish”.* I have heard God’s word, I believe it and I repent of my sins, then I (*Luke 13:3) what the Eunuch did in Acts the 8th chapter. I confess Jesus Christ with my mouth—that he is the Son of God, he came down, he made this plan possible. Then I do what the early people did in order to be saved. Some people say if you get this far that you’re saved, but I cannot find that in my New Testament, just as I can’t find many teachings of the Catholic Church. Acts 2:37, Peter was preaching to the people, and they wanted to know what they had to do to be saved. Peter told them to “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ”, in verse 38. I wonder if you are here tonight, willing to do that—obey that simple plan of salvation which will put you in the Kingdom of God. All you are going to need to know to be saved and help others to be saved is God’s Word. If you are here, subject to the Gospel Call, won’t you come, as together we stand and sing.

 
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Do we love the Lord more?


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Do We Love the Lord More?

“So when they had dined, Jesus saith to Simon Peter, Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? He saith unto him, Yea, Lord; thou knowest that I love thee. He saith unto him, Feed my lambs” (John 21:15).

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If we do, we will not let them keep us from obeying the gospel. We will be willing to leave the religion they have accepted if it is proven wrong. We will not let them keep us from attending the services of the Lord’s church. Remember, Jesus said, “He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me” (Matthew 10:37).

Do We Love the Lord More Than Money?

If we do, we will not make the heaping of riches the chief object of our living. We will give liberally of our means to the Lord (2 Corinthians 8:1–5). Remember, the Lord said, “For the love of money is the root of all evil” (1 Timothy 6:10).

Do We Love the Lord More Than Pleasure?

If we do, we will not engage in that which is forbidden, that which will hurt our influence for Christ. Remember, the Lord, in speaking of perilous times, said men shall be “lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God” (2 Timothy 3:1–4).

Do We Love the Lord More Than Praise of Men?

If we do, we will be willing to stand for the Lord and the right, though we must stand alone (2 Timothy 4:16–17). The chief rulers “did not confess him, lest they should be put out of the synagogue: For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God” (John 12:42–43).

The Lord should be the supreme object of our affection (Matthew 22:37). May we learn to sing, and mean it, “More love to thee, O Christ, more love to Thee.”

 
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Posted by on September 24, 2015 in Encouragement

 

“God’s Person in an Upside-Down World” — The Be-attitudes Series #1 “The Poor in Spirit”


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Turn in your Bibles to Matthew 5 where we’ll camp for the rest of our time together. We’re going to see what Jesus says about happiness. I’ll tell you right now that he says your happiness doesn’t depend on your circumstances, it depends on your attitudes.

In Matthew 5 we have the opening lines of Jesus’ famous Sermon on the Mount, and that sermon begins with eight positive statements about happiness that we’ve come to call the Beatitudes.poor-in-spirit-3

The Sermon on the Mount is one of the most misunderstood messages that Jesus ever gave. One group says it is God’s plan of salvation, that if we ever hope to go to heaven we must obey these rules. Another group calls it a “charter for world peace” and begs the nations of the earth to accept it.

I have always felt that Matthew 5:20 was the key to this important sermon: “For I say unto you, that except your righteousness shall exceed the righteousness of the scribes and Pharisees, ye shall in no case enter into the kingdom of heaven.” The main theme is true righteousness.

The religious leaders had an artificial, external righteousness based on Law. But the righteousness Jesus described is a true and vital righteousness that begins internally, in the heart. The Pharisees were concerned about the minute details of conduct, but they neglected the major matter of character. Conduct flows out of character.

Now it’s interesting to me that of all the subjects that Jesus could have picked to start the greatest, most famous sermon of all time, he chose to speak on, “How to Be Happy.”

Isn’t that fascinating? Do you know why? Because he knew that is what everybody wants and what so few people find. So for the next eight weeks we’re going to look at those eight beatitudes in our series, “How to Really Be Happy.”

Being a master Teacher, our Lord did not begin this important sermon with a negative criticism of the scribes and Pharisees. He began with a positive emphasis on righteous character and the blessings that it brings to the life of the believer. The Pharisees taught that righteousness was an external thing, a matter of obeying rules and regulations. Righteousness could be measured by praying, giving, fasting, etc. In the Beatitudes and the pictures of the believer, Jesus described Christian character that flowed from within.

Here’s what it says:

  1. “Happy are the poor in Spirit.”
  2. “Happy are those who mourn.”
  3. “Happy are the meek.”
  4. “Happy are those who hunger and thirst after righteousness.”
  5. “Happy are the merciful.”
  6. “Happy are the pure in heart.”
  7. “Happy are the peacemakers.”
  8. “Happy are those who are persecuted because of righteousness.”

Now tell the truth. As I went down that list, that sounded like a whole series of contradictions, didn’t it? I mean tell the truth. “HAPPY are the poor in spirit?” “HAPPY are those who mourn?” “HAPPY are those who are persecuted?”

WHAT? It doesn’t sound like happiness to me. Let’s spend eight weeks on it and see if you don’t have a different outlook. But, I’ll tell you, even from that one casual reading we just made of the eight beatitudes, one thing ought to be abundantly clear to you. Jesus didn’t make the mistake Solomon made. He says clearly, you can be happy in spite of your circumstances.

  •          If you’re going to have to have all your problems solved before you’re going to be happy, will you ever be happy? NO.
  •          If you’re going to have to have everything perfect in your life before you’re going to be happy, will you ever be happy? NO.
  •          So Jesus says I want to teach you that happiness doesn’t depend on having the right circumstances, it depends on having the right attitudes.
  •          In other words, “My happiness is not determined by what’s happening to me, but what’s happening in me.” Do you get that? “My happiness is not determined by what’s happening to me, but by what’s happening in me.”
  •          Jesus says it’s not how much we have that makes us happy, it’s what we are that makes us happy.
  •          It doesn’t depend upon the circumstances outside, it depends upon the attitude inside.
  •          What Jesus is getting at then is that happiness is a choice. You choose it as you choose the right attitudes.

Mark Twain over 100 years ago had a great statement. He said, “Do you know what happens to most people over life?…About the same things.”

Now think about that. Isn’t that good? That’s true. If you live long enough, do you know what happens to most people over life? About the same things.

We all cry, we all laugh, we all smile, we all frown, we all hurt, we all have pleasure. You know if you live long enough about the same things happen. And Mark Twain concluded, he says then most people are about as happy as they choose to be. And he’s right, but that line wasn’t unique to him. He borrowed it from Jesus 1,900 years earlier.

  •          This series is not to sugar-coat anything.
  •          Hear me, life is tough. I mean it can be a bear.
  •          Preachers even go through “Bear” periods during life. It can be hard.
  •          There are a lot of things that don’t go your way.
  •          You hurt and you cry, does that mean you cannot be happy? Absolutely not.
  •          Your happiness depends upon the right attitudes.

“Blessed are the poor in spirit.” What is poverty of spirit? It is the opposite of that haughty, self-assertive, and self-sufficient disposition that the world so much admires and praises. It is the very reverse of that independent and defiant attitude that refuses to bow to God, that determines to brave things out, and that says with Pharaoh, “Who is the Lord, that I should obey His voice?” (Ex. 5:2).

To be poor in spirit is to realize that I have nothing, am nothing, and can do nothing, and have need of all things. Poverty of spirit is evident in a person when he is brought into the dust before God to acknowledge his utter helplessness. It is the first experiential evidence of a Divine work of grace within the soul, and corresponds to the initial awakening of the prodigal in the far country when he “began to be in want” (Luke 15:14).

To be poor in spirit means to be humble, to have a correct estimate of oneself (Rom. 12:3). It does not mean to be “poor spirited” and have no backbone at all! “Poor in spirit” is the opposite of the world’s attitudes of self-praise and self-assertion. It is not a false humility that says, “I am not worth anything, I can’t do anything!” It is honesty with ourselves: we know ourselves, accept ourselves, and try to be ourselves to the glory of God.

The first step to happiness, very simple, be humble. Verse 3 in Matthew 5 says, “Happy are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.”

  • Being poor in spirit doesn’t mean to have low self-esteem.
  • It doesn’t mean to walk around having some kind of inferiority complex.
  • You know walking around saying, “Oh, I’m no good. I’m just lousy. I’m just junk. I’m just trash.”
  • Jesus didn’t die for junk. God didn’t make trash in his own image.
  • You are infinitely valuable to God because you’re made in his image, and Jesus died on that cross redeeming you with his precious blood.
  • You weren’t paid for by silly stuff like silver and gold.

It simply means to depend on God. It means to be humble. It means admitting daily, I don’t have it altogether, because you don’t.

I know you come here in a suit and tie and a nice dress, but you don’t have it altogether. It means admitting that I haven’t arrived, that I’ve got more to learn, that God didn’t build the universe to revolve around me.

I think maybe the best way to get a picture of what being poor in Spirit is, is to tell you what the opposite is. It is the opposite of being arrogant. It’s the opposite of being prideful and egotistical. Jesus says if you’re full of pride, if you’re full of ego and arrogance, you’re never going to be really happy.

But the more you depend upon the God and the more that you’re humble, the more you open the door to happiness. I will tell you right now that humility and happiness are twins. They’re like bread and butter. They go together, you can’t have one without the other. If you want genuine happiness, you start by humbling yourself before God.

Three ways that humility will bring you happiness:

On the Mount in the section about worry that begins in Matthew 6:25, where he basically says, why do you fret about over what you’re going to eat, what you’re going to wear, and how long you’re going to live, and how many hairs you have? He says, why do you worry about all that when you’ve got a God who’s bigger than everything you can worry about?

Do you know how humility makes you happier? Here’s how.

  • When I’m humble, I don’t have to have all the answers.
  • When I’m humble, I realize I can resign as general manager of the universe.
  • When I’m humble, I don’t have to know the answer to every question.
  • When I’m humble, I don’t have to fake.
  • When I’m humble, I don’t have to pretend I’m perfect because I’m not, I’m just human.
  • When I’m humble, I can live in the tension between the ideal and the real.

Do you know what I’m talking about there? You know what I’m talking about because you have to do it.

I’ve got an ideal for all parts of my life, don’t you?

  • I mean I’ve got an ideal picture of how I’d like to do my job and all the things about me.
  • I’ve got an ideal picture about all of my habits that I wish I had.
  • I’ve got an ideal picture for my marriage, I mean you know just perfect, never a cross word.
  • I’ve got an ideal picture about my family and my children.
  • I’ve got ideal pictures about all those things, and then I’ve got the real.
  • And guess what? The real is never the ideal.
  • And the problem most people have is they think they’ll only be happy when the ideal comes along.
  • And it never, ever gets here.

Humility accepts the fact that things aren’t ideal, and yet I can still be happy because I’m depending upon an ideal God. He’s going to make everything all right. It’s not perfect until we get to heaven, but he’s going to make it all right. Humility reduces my stress because I don’t have to take myself that seriously.

Do you know what I think one of the biggest problems in the world is? This is my opinion, but I think one of the biggest problems in the world is that we take ourselves too seriously, and we don’t take God seriously enough. I think that’s the crux of the human problem.

We’re out there trying to do it all, impress people with who we are, and because we know who we really are underneath, there’s all this stress. But when I walk humbly, dependent upon God, the stress goes down and happiness goes up. That will make you happy.

Here’s the second way humility will make you happy, it will improve your relationships.

It will improve your relationships. Let me ask you a question. How many of you love to be around big-headed, egotistical people? How many of you love to do that? How many of you wake up on a Monday morning and say, “Man, I hope I can take an irritating, conceited jerk out to lunch today.” How many of you do that?

You know the fact is, prideful people are a pain to be around. Somebody says that pride is the only human disease that makes everybody else sick, that’s true, isn’t it? I mean egotists, they are irritating, and they wreck relationships. Do you know why they wreck relationships? Because self-centered people are never happy. And because they aren’t happy when they come into a relationship, they tend to drag everybody in that relationship down.

On the other hand, how many of you like to be around humble people? Don’t you just love that. Because they’re always lifting you up. Don’t you love to be around somebody who when you tell a little story, they don’t have to top it? “You mean your fish was how big, well let me tell you about this one.”

When you are humble, you get along better with others, not because you think less of yourself, but because you’re thinking more about others. And folks, this is a key to good, happy social living.

When you become more interested in others, you become more interesting to others. When you become more interested in others, you become more interesting to others. So you have better relationships when you’re humble. You’re not afraid to say, “Hey, I’m sorry. I messed up, I didn’t mean to. Forgive me, I’ll do better.”

If you walk humbly before the Lord, you’re almost immune to insults. It doesn’t mean that you don’t accept criticism, it’s just that you don’t take it so personally that you get all upset. Humility will improve your relationships. It will make you happy.

And then third as we close, and this is the best of all. How am I happy through humility? Humility unleashes God’s power.

This is the best one. It’s humility that unleashes God’s power. The Bible says the secret of spiritual power is to walk humbly before God. Let me read to you about three verses. Isaiah 66:2, God says through Isaiah, “This is the one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at my word.”

James 4:6, James says, “God opposes the proud, but he gives grace to the humble.”

Same chapter, verse 10, James says, “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he will lift you up.”

I want to tell you this morning that if you are not humble before God, you’re cutting the cord through which he’s going to channel all of his power. When I read Luke 18 about that proud Pharisee who stood in the temple and prayed, “Lord, I thank you that I’m not like other men. I give all these tithes and I pray and I do this. And there’s this old sinner, this old publican down there,” and you can see between the lines. Umph, umph, like him?

That poor old sinner, that old publican was down on his knees and he wouldn’t lift his head, and he smote his breast, and all he said was, “Lord, be merciful to me a sinner.” And Jesus said, “I want to make sure you know which man walked out of there justified.”

And if you don’t get the point of that simple parable, it is simply this: If you’re not humble, your prayers are not answered. They’re not even heard. Is anybody going through a barren period with your prayer life? Check your humility before God. You won’t be forgiven if you’re not humble.

The man didn’t leave justified because he was full of arrogance. But that old publican who committed every sin in the book, he followed beatitude number one, and he was poor in spirit, and he said, “Lord, please be merciful to me, I’m a sinner.” And God said, “He walked out of there with his sins washed away.”

The secret of strength is admitting weakness. Paul said in II Corinthians 12:9, “Therefore I boast all the more gladly in my weakness so that Christ’s power may rest on me.”

Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.”

The King’s Denunciation — Matthew 23

This was our Lord’s last public message. It is a scathing denunciation of false religion that paraded under the guise of truth. Some of the common people no doubt were shocked at His words, for they considered the Pharisees to be righteous.

Perhaps we should remind ourselves that not all of the Pharisees were hypocrites. There were about 6,000 Pharisees in that day, with many more who were “followers” but not full members of the group. Most of the Pharisees were middle-class businessmen and no doubt they were sincere in their quest for truth and holiness. The name “Pharisees” came from a word that means “to separate.” The Pharisees were separated from the Gentiles, the “unclean” Jews who did not practice the Law (“publicans and sinners,” Luke 15:1-2), and from any who opposed the tradition that governed their lives.

Among the Pharisees were a few members who sought for true spiritual religion. Nicodemus (John 3; 7:50-53), Joseph of Arimathea (John 19:38ff), and the unnamed man mentioned in Mark 12:32-34, come to mind. Even Gamaliel showed a great deal of tolerance toward the newly formed church (Acts 5:34ff). But for the most part, the Pharisees used their religion to promote themselves and their material gain. No wonder Jesus denounced them.

They had a false concept of righteousness (vv. 2-3).

To begin with, they had assumed an authority not their own. “The scribes and the Pharisees have seated themselves in Moses’ seat” is the literal translation. There is no record in the Scriptures that God assigned any authority to this group. Their only authority was the Word of God. Therefore, the people were to obey whatever the Pharisees taught from the Word. But the people were not to obey the traditions and the man-made rules of the Pharisees.

 

To the Pharisee, righteousness meant outward conformity to the Law of God. They ignored the inward condition of the heart. Religion consisted in obeying numerous rules that governed every detail of life, including what you did with the spices in your cupboard (Matt. 23:23-24). The Pharisees were careful to say the right words and follow the right ceremonies, but they did not inwardly obey the Law. God desired truth in the inward parts (Ps. 51:6). To preach one thing and practice another is only hypocrisy

We must not read this series of denunciations with the idea that Jesus lost His temper and was bitterly angry. Certainly He was angry at their sins, and what those sins were doing to the people. But His attitude was one of painful sorrow that the Pharisees were blinded to God’s truth and to their own sins. Perhaps the best way to deal with these eight “woes” is to contrast them with the eight beatitudes found in Matthew 5:1-12. In the Sermon on the Mount the Lord described true righteousness; here He described a false righteousness.

Entering the kingdom Vs. shutting up the kingdom

Matthew 23:13 (NIV)
13  “Woe to you, teachers of the law and Pharisees, you hypocrites! You shut the kingdom of heaven in men’s faces. You yourselves do not enter, nor will you let those enter who are trying to.

Matthew 5:3 (NIV)
3  “Blessed are the poor in spirit, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

The poor in spirit enter the kingdom, but the proud in spirit keep themselves out and even keep others out. The Greek verb indicates people trying to get in who cannot. It is bad enough to keep yourself out of the kingdom, but worse when you stand in the way of others. By teaching man-made traditions instead of God’s truth, they “took away the key of knowledge” and closed the door to salvation (Luke 11:52).

 
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Enemies of evangelism


 

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Ron Humphrey, in his book entitled, Hearts on Fire, noted a most sobering statistic: “The average member of the church of Christ has heard 4,000 sermons, sung 20,000 songs, participated in 8,000 public prayers and converted zero sinners.”  One cannot help but ask: What are we thinking? What are we doing? Where are we headed? More importantly, what can be done to correct such a pattern?

   Maintenance Mentality — With this in mind, consider, what Ron Humphrey calls the “maintenance mentality” (p.5). One doesn’t have to look too far to see it. Once in a men’s business meeting, in a context in the which church discipline was being discussed, after having lessons and a special speaker to answer questions on the subject, it was time to put the Lord’s will into action. One brother, who unfortunately wielded much influence, said, “I have been told if we do this there are some who will leave. It takes people to give the money and it takes money to pay the bills.” Another man, whose only input in the past was the status of the “gas bill,” also expressed his concern.

  th After some discussion, some in favor and some in opposition, I asked, “Are we going to allow the weak and/or disobedient brethren to determine which commands we are going to keep and which commands we are going to ignore?” “Oh, no, no, no….” was the response. In spite of such an emphatic denial, rest assured that was exactly what was happening!

   What was the problem? It was the “maintenance mentality”! Numbers and bills were more important than souls and commands. It is a frightening thing to think that God’s people can become so numb that they actually seem to perceive the mission of the church as keeping the lights on, the carpet clean and the gas bill paid. It’s as if God is pleased so long as you keep the building structurally sound and have an occasional fellowship dinner.

   Forgive me, but I don’t think God is all that impressed with clean carpet and continental breakfasts! What impresses him is seeing the church respecting the word and keeping all of the commands – one of which is evangelism. May God keep us from the maintenance mentality!

   Friendship Evangelism — “Friendship Evangelism” is the practice of becoming friends with someone in order to introduce them to the truth. One may ask, “How can that possibly be perceived as an enemy of evangelism?” Who among us has not, in efforts to convert someone, befriended a sinner? This writer most certainly has and will continue to so do. What then is the problem? The trouble with “Friendship Evangelism” resides not in its basic concept, but rather in abuses in its implementation. There are, at least from this writer’s perspective, two major abuses of “Friendship Evangelism.”

   First, “Friendship Evangelism” is not aggressive, let alone as aggressive as God demands we be! When Jesus commissioned the disciples, He did not say: “Go make friends”; he said: “Go make disciples” (Matt. 28:19-20). The primary responsibility of the Lord’s people is not to befriend sinners. The responsibility is to teach truth! May we never equate our having become friends with someone who needs the gospel to our having worked to evangelize their soul!

   Second, “Friendship Evangelism” is used as an excuse for inactivity. When asked, “Have you talked to them about their soul yet,” it is common to hear as an answer: “Well, we’re not good enough friends yet.” Where does it say one must be “good enough friends” with someone to teach them the gospel? What unfortunately happens is the fear of “loosing them” causes the Lord’s command to preach the gospel to be either postponed or completely circumvented. A friendship, even with a potential convert, should never be placed above the determination one has to keep the Lord’s commands (Luke 14:26).

   Lethargic Dual — A preacher was going to speak on the two greatest enemies of the Lord’s church. He ran the topic by a brother and asked: “Joe, I think the two greatest enemies are ignorance and apathy. What do you think?” To which Joe answered, “I don’t know and I don’t care.” Joe, while oblivious to it, was a personification of the problem plaguing the church.

First, consider that of ignorance. Do people really understand that God means what He says? The God of the Bible will not lie. In fact, He cannot lie (Titus 1:2; Heb. 6:18)! Such is contrary to His very nature. Consequently, God means what He says. That means that accountable people who do die without having obeyed the Gospel will be lost (Matt. 7:21). Contrary to what some teach, there are no exceptions, no ulterior plans and no second chances! One has rightly stated, “The only surprise about the Judgment is that there won’t be any surprises!” Paul said: “Knowing therefore the fear of the Lord, we persuade men” (II Cor. 5:11). Surely there are not many, if any among us, who are unaware of the church’s responsibility to save the lost. It would seem that anyone who has a remote clue about God’s Good Book, would know that to claim ignorance of evangelistic responsibility in the Judgment would be futile. May God help us to be aware of our responsibility!

   Second, consider the topic of apathy. Three words aptly capture the gist of “apathy”: indifference and no interest. The apathetic Christian is the one who can hear a lesson on evangelism and feel little or no compulsion to do something. He is virtually “numb” to God’s command to evangelize the lost. He might talk about it, or make announcements concerning it, yet he personally never does it. Evangelism to the apathetic is always “someone else’s business.” Whenever a Christian is numb to a command of God, he is “lukewarm” at best. Remember the church of Laodicea: “I know thy works, that thou art neither cold nor hot: I would thou wert cold or hot. So because thou art lukewarm, and neither hot nor cold, I will spew thee out of my mouth.” (Rev. 3:14-16). Is there a more graphic description of the Lord’s disgust for his people?

May we be ever aware of our responsibility to save the lost and may we have the willingness to do something about it. Again, it was Jesus Christ who said: “Go ye therefore, and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them into the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit: teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I commanded you: and lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world” (Matt. 28:18-19).

 
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Posted by on September 17, 2015 in Encouragement

 

Handling Adversity — The Hand


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One of the most arresting photographs I’ve ever seen came about when Julie and Alex Armas agreed to permit a photographer for USA Today into an operating room at Vanderbilt University Medical Center in Nashville.

unborn-samuel-armas1The date was August 19, 1999, and Mr. and Mrs. Armas had agreed to allow surgery on their 21-week-old son. And you should understand that the 21 weeks were from the time of their son’s conception, not his birth.

The surgery was to be performed in utero. Infant Armas had been found to have spina bifida, which had left part of his spinal cord exposed after the backbone had failed to develop properly. The surgery was designed to close the gap and protect the baby’s fragile spinal cord.

The operation was performed through a tiny slit made in the wall of Mrs. Armas’ womb. The thing that proved so amazing about the photography sequence that emerged from that operating room is that Samuel Alexander Armas — still not viable outside his mother’s womb — surprised everyone with a reflex movement that not only extended his arm from the cramped quarters hosting his imperfect body but grasped the finger of Dr. Joseph Bruner.

I suppose we could say that Samuel was “hanging on for dear life” to the surgeon’s hand.

That photo forces me to think of our situation with the Creator God of Heaven and Earth. From our fragile environment and with all the defects of our faith, you and I reach out for God and try to hang on for dear life by means of a grasp called faith.

Samuel  was born at 6:25 p.m. on December 2, 1999, and is doing well. It’s too early to know for sure that he will walk, but he is moving his legs very well and is being monitored regularly.

He’ll have the normal challenges every kid faces growing up, and some of those challenges will relate to the spina bifida for which he underwent dramatic in-utero surgery. But the Armases — who had suffered through two miscarriages before little Samuel’s conception, surgery, and birth — are thrilled with their son. “The details of his limitations become insignificant,” said his father, “and that’s the understatement of the year.”

“We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed. . . . Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day. For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.” 2 Cor. 4:7-10, 14-16

Although you and I think of Paul in terms of his apostleship and centuries of honor for his role in the early church, the words of our text today were spoken in a defensive tone. Paul’s mission at Corinth had been under fire from some harsh critics. The criticism was severe enough that he had been tempted to “lose heart” (2 Cor. 4:1). He was determined, however, to fulfill his ministry and not to dishonor the trust God had given him. By means of a faith-grasp on God’s hand, he had resolved that nothing would make him relinquish that hold.

The key theme of this section is repeated in 1 Corinthians 4:1 and 16: “We faint not!” Literally, Paul said, “We do not lose heart!” There were certainly plenty of reasons for discouragement in Paul’s situation, yet the great apostle did not quit. What was it that kept him from fainting in the conflicts of life? He knew what he possessed in Jesus Christ! Instead of complaining about what he did not have, Paul rejoiced in what he did have; and you and I can do the same thing.

One thing is undeniable about Jesus: He was brutally honest about his call to discipleship. He drew people with the warning that their eventual triumph and joy in following him would come through hardship, danger, and perhaps even death. “Blessed are those who are persecuted because of righteousness, for theirs is the kingdom of heaven,” he told them. “Blessed are you when people insult you, persecute you and falsely say all kinds of evil against you because of me” (Matt. 5:10-11).

Maybe Jesus understood one of the things about human nature that we occasionally discover for ourselves: Few people are motivated to do their best in a cushy, unchallenging job. There are people every year who quit jobs with good salaries because of the lack of challenge. Few things in life are more insulting to some of us than to be offered an easy job, a job just anybody could perform. Work without challenge offers no sense of joy in accomplishment.

But forget ordinary work and careers for a minute. Does anyone seriously think he/she could join God Almighty in doing something and not be stretched to his/her limits? How can we participate with God in anything and not be challenged? How could we participate in his holiness within a cosmos in rebellion against him and not be put at risk?

Paul’s personal experience in following Christ had certainly lived up to its advance billing. He had indeed been “persecuted because of righteousness,” endured repeated vile “insult,” and had people “falsely say all kinds of evil” about him because of his commitment to Jesus of Nazareth.

Later in this same epistle, Paul — with an obvious sense of embarrassment for having to cite such things in order to answer the slander of his opponents — gave a list of things he had been forced to endure over the course of his ministry:

Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea, I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false brothers. I have labored and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked. Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches. Who is weak, and I do not feel weak? Who is led into sin, and I do not inwardly burn? (2 Cor. 11:25-29).

“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience,” said Martin Luther King Jr., “but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.”

If that sentiment is correct, Paul comes off well. He was a mature Christian. He understood that his faith would not exempt him from adversity. Or, to quote Augustine: “God had one son on Earth without sin, but he has never had one without suffering.”

But you and I live at a different time and with a different mind set. The sentiment most of us carry is that adversity in our experience somehow contradicts the doctrine of the love of God. But it is shallow thinking and flawed faith that would measure the degree of God’s love by the comfort of our earthly situation.

 
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Posted by on September 7, 2015 in Encouragement

 

Children can become empty and lonely on the inside…


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Picture1Children can become empty and lonely on the inside when nobody has ever really cared for them or tried to understand them. They never had a warm and loving relationship with their parents. Many of them don’t really know their parents, and furthermore they don’t care to. Their parents don’t know them either. They were too busy making money and having fun to listen to what their kids were saying. And so, we’re told, the younger generation is facing an identity crisis. They’re crying for attention, groping for some sort of significant relationship with somebody who cares.

The saddest thing is that this is happening in professing Christian homes as well as in unbelieving homes. What is the answer? The answer begins with believing what God says right here in this Psalm and acting on the basis of it. “Lo, children are a heritage of the Lord.” The word heritage signifies an inheri­tance given, not according to hereditary right, but according to the willing desire of the giver. Every new child born into a Christian home is a gracious gift from God, a lovely legacy from the Lord entrusted to our care to be loved, cherished, provided for and properly molded for his glory. “The fruit of the womb is his reward.”

Again, the word reword does not mean something earned or deserved, but something freely given through the generous decision of the giver. The inability to have children is no stigma, therefore. It doesn’t mean God is angry with us or isn’t smiling on us. It simply means that he knows best what we need. And he also knows there are the masses of unloved chil­dren whom childless couples can pour their lives into with great spiritual profit for all concerned. He always gives what is best. But when he allows us to have children, they are a gracious gift from him. There is no question about that when we stand over the crib and stare down at our beautiful bundle of joy, peacefully sleeping or contentedly cooing. We may begin to wonder a little about it during those first 2:00 a.m. feedings. And the doubts may really balloon if that little bundle of joy becomes a threatening intruder who upsets our schedule, re­stricts our freedom to do as we please, monopolizes our time, or seems to alienate the affections of our mate. That’s when we need to flee to the Word, and to the Lord of the Word, to have our spirits encouraged and our perspective adjusted. Children are a heritage from the Lord.

Maybe you are well on your way down the precarious path of parenthood. When you look at your child, what do you see? A nerve shattering machine, or a heritage from the Lord? A house wrecker, or a heritage from the Lord? A work maker, or a heritage from the Lord? A source of embarrassment before your friends, or a heritage from the Lord? A competitor for your spouse’s attention, or a heritage from the Lord?

Will you ask God to help you get your perspective straight? “Lord, help me see my children as a blessed gift from your gracious hand.” You may need to pray it many times a day for awhile, but that could become the beginning of some exciting new changes in your home, the gateway to genuine joy in your relationship with your children.

Children are much more sensitive to our attitude toward them than we imagine. And they often respond with the same sort of attitudes they receive. They act as they sense we are acting toward them, and that’s where most of our discipline problems begin. Oh, we love them, but they make so many demands on us that inconvenience us and bother us. So our old natures rebel and we let them know in subtle little ways that they are a bother. And they become more of a bother. They won’t get much love and affection that way, but at least they’ll get attention, and that’s better than nothing. But they will grow up with hostilities, complexes, and resentments that defy de­scription.

One day sooner than we think they’ll be gone, and we won’t remember the muddy shoes, the messy rooms, the embarras­sing moments they caused us or the encroachments they made on our time. We’ll only remember the happy times we spent together. And we’ll wish there had been many more. There could have been if we had looked on them as a blessing from the Lord rather than a burden or a bother.

Children are not only a precious inheritance, however. They are also likened to arrows. There is a difference of opinion as to what this scriptural metaphor is intended to teach. Arrows are a source of protection, and maybe the Psalmist was referring to the care and protection which children can give their parents in later years. But arrows, unlike swords, could go where the warrior himself could not reach. Such is the case with our children. From many a godly home arrows have reached to the ends of the earth, carrying the gospel message to sin darkened hearts. They were like arrows in their father’s hand.

But arrows have to be made. They don’t just happen. God gives us a child like a raw piece of wood, and asks us to shape him. So we whittle, sand, and polish, fashioning that stick into an arrow, straight and strong. Children are not just an inheritance, you see; they are a sacred trust. God loans them to us for awhile to prepare them for his use. They really belong to him, and the sooner we acknowledge that, the more willing we shall become to get on with the shaping process. One dramatic way of acknowledging it is to dedicate them to God. If they belong to him anyway, then let us decisively acknowledge that by consecrating them to his use for his glory just as Hannah and Elkanah did with their son, Samuel (1 Sam. 1:9‑28). Let us promise God that with his help we will mold their young lives into the kind of people he wants them to be.

A husband and wife ought to give their child to God even before he is born. And they should pray together after the birth of the child, willingly dedicating themselves to train him as God directs. Some churches conduct public child dedication services. In others, the pastor participates in a quiet act of dedi­cation in the home. The important thing is that the parents themselves covenant with God to handle their children as a sacred trust, arrows to be shaped for God’s glory.Picture2

Raising children is obviously a serious responsibility. And isn’t it strange–for almost any other job we are required to take some specialized training first. But for the most important business in life, the shaping of young lives for God’s glory, we can get away with none at all if we want to. For that reason some people have drawn the erroneous conclusion that being a good parent comes naturally. On the contrary, it takes a great deal of study and continuous attention to the assignment. But God’s guidebook is available, and we are going to search it for the help we need. Since this is one job we can’t quit, we might as well press on together and learn what God has to say about being a better parent.

Before we do, though, will you note the last verse in this great Psalm? “Happy is the man who hath his quiver full of them: they shall not be ashamed, but they shall speak with the enemies in the gate.”

How many children constitute a full quiver? That may vary with each couple depending on how many children God wants you to have. My quiver is full at three, but yours is between you and the Lord. It isn’t clear in the verse exactly who will not be ashamed, the parents or the children. But in a Picture4Christ controlled home where God is the builder and parents are laboring for him, neither the parents nor the children will be ashamed of each other.

But Satan, the enemy of God’s people, will be subdued and God will thus be glorified. Isn’t that what you desire for your family?

Dedicate yourself and your children to God. Ask him to help you view them as a precious inheritance, arrows to be shaped, lives to be molded.

Ask him to keep your eyes on the potential rather than the problems and to give you the wisdom you need for the great task ahead.

 

 
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Posted by on September 3, 2015 in Family