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What about Israel and the Jews? Acts 28:16-20


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A Quick Review Of Other Millennial Assertions.

Daniel 9:24-27 is supposed to represent a “prophetic clock” that stops ticking at the death of Christ and does not start ticking again until seven years of tribulation, recorded in the book of Revelation, at the “first phase” of the Second Coming of Christ.

Where is the gap?  Where does the Bible show that the “clock” stops for 2000 years before it resumes ticking?

Why not let the 70 weeks of Daniel be literal like the 1000 years of Revelation (dispensationalists commonly say the weeks are actually 490 years)?

Revelation 20:1-6 is alleged to show a literal 1000 year reign of Christ, on the earth, on David’s throne. Where is the earth mentioned in Revelation 20:1-6)?  Is Satan’s chain literal, and if not, why in a book of symbols should the 1000 years be literal?  Where is Jerusalem and David’s throne in Revelation 20:1-6?

The book of Revelation has the Father and the Son located in heaven (4:1; 5:1, 6; 6:9-11).  he slain of Revelation 6:9-11 were to wait in God’s presence until the full number of martyrs came in—the very thing that happens in Revelation 20:4. This is a heavenly scene.

What Christians Need To Be Doing As They Face The Millennium.

Matthew 24:42-51 makes it clear that since we do not know when Jesus will return, we should live in faith at all times.  alking in the light is the way of security (I Jn. 1:7).  Seeking God’s kingdom and His righteousness are first priorities (Matt. 6:33).  God gives glory to the quiet, everyday kind of faith (I Thess. 4:11-12).  Those who have relied on sensational things rather than on simple trust and obedience will be disappointed (Matt. 7:21-23).

WHAT ABOUT ISRAEL AND THE JEWS? (Acts 28:16-20)

INTRODUCTION

  1. R.DeHaan said, “Following the Rapture of the church, God will gather Israel into Canaan, rebuild the temple, re-establish the Old Testament form of worship and sacrifices.”
    1. Christ then appears to set up the earthly kingdom with Jerusalem as its capital.
  2. Hal Lindsey – “Late Great Planet Earth” pp. 42-47
    1. Uses Matthew 24 to teach a rebuilt temple.
    2. Israel restored to her land.
    3. Sacrificial system and Sabbath re-instituted.
  3. According to Pre-Mill., the land promises God made to Israel have not been fulfilled, and were eternal in nature.
  4. Questions to be answered:
    1. What were the promises God made to Israel?
    2. Have these promises been fulfilled?
    3. Were those promises conditional or unconditional?
    4. Where is the “Israel of God” today?
  1. WHAT WERE THE PROMISES GOD MADE TO ISRAEL? (Gen. 12:1-7; 13:14-17).
    1. God promised Abram:
      1. A new land.
      2. Would be a great nation
      3. God would bless him and make his name great
      4. Through Abram, all families of the earth would be blessed.
      5. Physical and spiritual blessings.
    2. What land was promised?
      1. The land he traveled to upon the command of God (Gen. 12:6-7).
      2. The larger land of Canaan (Gen. 15:18; Ex. 23:30-31) to the river Euphrates.
      3. Promises made to Abraham and His seed (Gen. 17:8; Ex. 6:4-8).

 II. HAVE THESE PROMISES BEEN FULFILLED?

  1. Land of Promise has been fulfilled (Deut. 1:7-8; Joshua 21:43-45; 2 Samuel 8:3; 2 Chron 9:26; Neh. 9:7-8).
  2. When was this promise fulfilled?
    1. Following the bondage in Egypt as Moses let Israel to and Joshua lead them into the Canaan Land.
    2. Abraham himself received not one foot of Canaan – but his seed did.
    3. Pre-Mill. say that Abraham must be raised from the dead to enter millennial kingdom in order to possess the land.
    4. Stephen said “the time drew near” while Israel was in Egyptian bondage (Acts 7:17).

III. WERE LAND PROMISES CONDITIONAL OR UNCONDITIONAL?

  1. Pre-Mill. say unconditional (Gen. 17:7-8). “Everlasting covenant”
    1. Word translated “everlasting” means “age-lasting.” Same for Sabbath and other O.T. rituals which are not kept today.
    2. As long as Law of Moses lasted, these things lasted. When Law of Moses ended, these things ended.
  2. Notice the conditions of keeping the land (Deut. 8:19-20; 28:29-30, 63, 64; Josh. 23:14-16; 1 Kings 9:3-7).
  3. Israel lost their land.
    1. Northern Kingdom carried away by Assyria.
    2. Southern Kingdom carried away by Babylon (2 Chron. 36:17-19).
  4. Restoration promises (Deut. 30:1-3; Ezek. 37:11-22; Isa. 10:20-23 (remnant return) Jer. 30:3).
  5. Has Israel been restored? (2 Chron. 36:20-23; Jer. 25:11-13; Ezra 9:9).
    1. All prophecies concerning the return to the land, rebuilding of the temple, etc., were made prior to 516 B.C. Since the rebuilding of the temple of that time – following a return to Palestine – there have been no prophecies concerning a return to the land or a rebuilding of the temple.
  1. WHO ARE THE ISRAEL – JEWS OF GOD TODAY?
  1. Jesus spoke of a “new kingdom” to the Jews of his day (Matt. 21:41-45; 23:38; 24:1-35).
  2. Circumcision nor uncircumcision avail anything – but new creature (Gal. 5:6).
  3. Christians are now God’s Jews – God’s Israel (Rom. 2:28-29; Gal. 3:26-29; Rom. 4:13-16; 9:7-8).
  4. Conversion destroys nationality (Col. 3:10-11).
  5. Paul’s allegory of two women (Gal. 4:21-31).
    1. Two women are two covenants – OLD AND NEW.
    2. Two sons – two nations – fleshly and spiritual.
    3. Hagar and Ishmael had nothing in common with Sarah and Isaac. National Israel has nothing in common with spiritual Israel.
    4. Final verdict – “Cast out the bondwoman and her son.” National Israel cannot have an inheritance with Spiritual Israel.  CHRISTIANS ARE THE ONLY ISRAEL GOD HAS TODAY!
  6. Can Jews be saved today?
    1. Yes, all men come to God the same way, through Christ (Eph. 2:14-18).
    2. The same gospel is for all (Matt. 28:18-20).
    3. Great commission was for the Jews also (Acts 10:34-43).
    4. Paul’s prayer for Israel was “that they might be saved” (Rom. 10:1-4).
    5. No New Testament passages affirm or predict a return of Jews to Palestine and a second chance to accept Christ as Messiah. It is now or never!

CONCLUSION

  1. God promised Israel the Canaan land and they occupied that land hundreds of years ago.
  2. The nation God promised to make of Abram’s seed no longer exists as it did in Old Testament times.

(appreciation to Bill Craddock for much of this material)

 
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Posted by on March 15, 2015 in Church, Doctrine

 

What is the basis for our security?


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First, the sovereignty of God is the basis for our security. We dare not be confident in ourselves. We dare not doubt that we shall be more than conquerors. This would be to deny His Word and to distrust God. We, like Paul, should be absolutely convinced concerning these things, based upon the Word of God. Our security is rooted in God, in His sovereignty, and in His unfailing love.

securitySecond, our security and confidence in God is the basis for our service. It is not doubt, nor fear, nor guilt which should motivate our service, but a confidence in God mixed with deep and abiding gratitude. Because we are secure in Christ, we may serve. We need not focus on ourselves but on Him. Since He is the “author and finisher of our faith,” we must “fix our eyes on Him” (Hebrews 12:1-2)

Third, our security is never an excuse for sloppiness. Some would abuse the doctrine of God’s sovereignty and the believer’s security. They would sinfully suggest that since God is in control, it matters not what we do. This is just the opposite of the truth. God’s sovereignty is the basis for our diligence and obedience. If we trust in ourselves, this would be folly, because we will fail. But when we trust in God, we know that we ultimately cannot fail and that our efforts are not in vain.

Fourth, the Scriptures never raise any doubt that God will finish what He started at salvation. The question raised in Scripture is not, “Will the saints endure to the end?” The question is rather, “Are we sure that we are in Christ?” The security of the believer is never brought into question in the Scriptures. Whether or not we are a believer is a question which is raised, and rightly so. The Bible gives us the examples to follow (Acts 2:38;  8:4-29; 9:1-20; 22:1-16; 10:1-48; 16:12-15, 22-34; 18:8; 19:1-6).

Fifth, the basis for our salvation and our security is found in the work of Christ on the cross of Calvary. Did you notice that every fear, every dread, in this text is the result of sin? And did you notice as well that every cure goes back to the cross of Calvary?placeforyou2

Here is God’s means of redemption. Here is the measure of His love. Here is the assurance and confidence that God’s purposes and promises will never fail. No wonder we must continually go back to the cross.

We should never grow weary of going back to the cross. Here is where our salvation began. Here is where it was finished. That God sent Jesus to the cross is the measure of His love for us. That God would raise Jesus from the dead is the measure of His power. When such love and power meet, we, as sons of God, have every reason to be confident.

Finally, the security of the believer requires a response. Paul’s conclusion reminds us that biblical revelation requires a response. The security of the believer in the sovereign love of God should produce humility, gratitude, dependence, confidence, and praise.

Let us ponder these closing words of Romans 8, especially in contrast to the agonizing cry at the end of chapter 7. Let us savor our security, and let us stand fast, knowing that our labor in the Lord is not in vain.

 
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Posted by on March 10, 2015 in Encouragement

 

A Message for Parents and Grandparents


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How much do you love your children? How much do you love your grandchildren? To conscientious Christians, children and grandchildren represent one of life’s most important and unique treasures.

Few sacrifices are rejected if their well being is at stake. Regardless of circumstances, their well being is priority for parents or grandparents. At birth our concern is enormous, and that concern grows as they grow. In adolescent years, our concern passes description.

thFrom years one to twenty-one, we make every possible preparation for their development and future. Does my child have a learning disability? Where can I get help for my child? Does my child have a medical problem? Where can I get treatment for my cindexrca-bhild? Does my child need special training? Where can I find it for my child?

We provide them the best educational opportunity we can afford. We create special opportunities for them in every form of development from athletics to talent. We alter our adult schedule and run ourselves crazy for them. We do everything possible to build their self-images, develop their skills, teach them poise, and give them advantages mentally, psychologically, and physically.

I pray you consider for a long time these things I share with you.

We as Christians understand parents have a spiritual responsibility to provide our children spiritual instruction and guidance.

That responsibility existed from Christianity’s beginning.

Ephesians 6:1-4 “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise), so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.” (This refers to one of the Ten Commandments found in Exodus 20:12 with its focus on the responsibility on adult children.)

Parents focused indexrcc-bon God provide their children a reason to obey them.

  • If they honor God, they can obey their parents without problem.
  • Parents have not abused them, neglected them, refused to love them, or done things to generate and nurture a lasting anger in them.
  • Instead, the parents provide them an example of how to live a disciplined life devoted to God and His instructions.

Colossians 3:21 Fathers, do not exasperate your children, so that they will not lose heart.

  • Parents’ relationship with their children should not create and nurture a continuing frustration producing a state of discontentment.
  • The severity and fault finding that destroys the spirit should not characterize the parents’ relationship with their children.
  • Parents, do not be deceived into believing that our parental faith in and commitment to Jesus Christ guarantees our children automatically will become Christian adults.

The Old Testament has a number of examples of godly persons whose children did not follow God.

Perhaps the greatest period of Israelite godliness came in Joshua’s leadership.

indexrcd-bJudges 2:7 “The people served the Lord all the days of Joshua, and all the days of the elders who survived Joshua, who had seen all the great work of the Lord which He had done for Israel.”

What a testimony to godly influence!


Then Judges 2:10 notes, “All that generation also were gathered to their fathers; and there arose another generation after them who did not know the Lord, nor yet the work which He had done for Israel.”

I do not think you could convince me that Joshua did not teach godliness to his children. Yet, his descendants did not follow God. I conclude they were deliberately ignorant and willfully forgetful.

Samuel was a powerful spiritual influence in Israel in an extremely ungodly period.

Listen to 1 Samuel 8:3 “His sons, however, did not walk in his ways, but turned aside after dishonest gain and took bribes and perverted justice.”

Grandparents-Print-Tan-DamaskKing David made some serious mistakes, but he was a man whose love for God included the knowledge of repentance.

We are still blessed by some of his powerful thoughts. In the New Testament he is still known as the man after God’s own heart. Yet, many of his children were truly ungodly.

Hezekiah led one of Judah’s few spiritual reforms.

Listen to 2 Kings 18:3, 5 “He did right in the sight of the Lord, according to all that his father David had done.  …He trusted in the Lord, the God of Israel; so that after him there was none like him among all the kings of Judah, nor among those who were before him.”

Now listen to what is said about his son, Manasseh in 2 Kings 21:2, 9: “He did evil in the sight of the Lord, according to the abominations of the nations whom the Lord dispossessed before the sons of Israel. …But they did not listen, and Manasseh seduced them to do evil more than the nations whom the Lord destroyed before the sons of Israel.”

The New Testament covers too brief a historical period to include such detail. The most important factor in determining what your child becomes as a spiritual adult is the person he or she marries. Your child will make that choice largely to your exclusion. You will not choose the person your child “falls in love” with. You will not choose how the experience of “falling in love” will affect your child. If you try to exercise an inflexible control over the people your child dates, you likely will severely injure your relationship with your child.

While you certainly must provide guidance, there are restrictions on the guidance you can provide.

Attempts to provide inflexible control can alienate, create an unhealthy dependence, or drive your child to the person of your disapproval.


If you try to structure, control, direct, or alter your child’s marriage, you create more serious problems than you correct. Rarely is continuous parental involvement in a child’s marriage constructive. Attempting to “run or fix” a child’s marriage often produces undesirable results:

  • Anger
  • Alienation
  • Resentment
  • Impeding or destroying their maturing process.
  • Destruction of healthy independence.
  • Creation of a sick dependence on the parent.
  • Interference in a child’s marriage can produce many bad things and few good things.

We should understand that. Look at the impact of your parents’ unwanted advice and interference in your marriage. Recall the problems, stress, anger, and complications produced when your parents felt like they needed to structure an aspect of your marriage. Do not deceive yourself into believing your actions will be viewed as constructive and thereby appreciated. The possibility of your child experiencing a serious marriage crisis is frightening.

The fact that you provide them the best home, best training, best environment, and best spiritual foundation you can provide does not eliminate the possibility of your child experiencing a serious marriage crisis.

Your initial reaction may be, “That cannot be true!”

For the sake of reflection, recall married people you know from 5 years younger than you to 5 years older than you. How many people did you go to school, college, or church with who are now divorced, separated, or in deeply troubled marriages? And those are just the situations your know about! Every major social influence in this society (today) works against “once for life” marriage, not in support of it. Consider a living nightmare.

  • You witness your own child in an abusive, unloving, selfish, inconsiderate marriage.
  • You watch as it happens causing your child suffering, pain, and agony.
  • You see what this is doing to your child as a person.
  • You witness your grandchildren in such a marriage.
  • As you watch, there is little you can do.
  • You cannot fix it.
  • You cannot “make it go away.”
  • You do not dare try to take control for fear of making things worse.
  • You cannot make the relationship healthy.

If such happens in your family, let me suggest what to pray for.

  1. Pray he or she is in a congregation that believes in loving those that hurt and reaches out to those who are troubled.
  2. Pray he or she is part of a people who help the distressed.
  3. Pray he or she is not part of a congregation who turns it back on “Christians who have problems like that.”
  4. Pray they are under a compassionate eldership who believes in shepherding.
  5. Pray they are under elders who know how to listen and be understanding.
  6. Pray they know how to be constructively supportive.
  7. Pray they believe in keeping confidences.
  8. Pray they are in a congregation devoted to administrating Jesus’ spiritual healing.
  9. Pray that scripturally uninformed members do not control the congregation.
  10. Pray their congregation is not filled with Christians who feel it is their duty to say:
    • “If you genuinely believed in Christ, you would not have a problem like that.”
    • “Real Christians do not have marriage problems.”
    • “You are not a spiritual person.”
    • “If you trusted God like I do, this never would have happened.”

Constantly help us be a congregation that brings the troubled to Jesus’ forgiving healing, to Jesus’ compassion, to Jesus’ hope, to Jesus’ help. Help us want to be just Christians who are not afraid to let Jesus teach us how to compassionately care. Help us be a people that troubled Christians can turn to without fear because we are ruled by the Great Physician. Help us be the kind of people who care in the same way the first congregations cared.

Why do this? We want to be just Christians. We want to be a congregation of people who fit the image of Jesus’ expectations. We want to be an oasis of spiritual healing for ourselves, our children, and our grandchildren when worlds collapse and life falls apart. In a world filled with hopeless struggle, we want to be a refreshing place of healing. May we each say, “That attitude begins with me.”

 
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Posted by on March 10, 2015 in Family

 

Coming to Know God


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In the early days of the automobile a man’s Model-T Ford stalled in the middle of the road.  He couldn’t get it started no matter how hard he cranked nor how much he tried to advance the spark or adjust things under the hood.  Just then a chauffeured limousine pulled up behind him, and a wiry, energetic man stepped out from the back seat and offered his assistance.  After tinkering for a few moments the stranger said, “Now try it!”  Immediately the engine leaped to life.  The well-dressed individual then identified himself as Henry Ford.  “I designed and built these cars,” he said, “so I know what to do when something goes wrong.”

God, as our creator, knows how to “fix” us when our lives are broken by sin.

god-make-me-an-instrumentGod is not discoverable or demonstrable by purely scientific means, unfortunately for the scientific minded.  But that really proves nothing.  It simply means that the wrong instruments are being used for the job.

A Sunday School teacher saw one of her little boys drawing furiously with a set of crayons. “What are you doing, Johnny?” she asked. “I’m drawing a picture of God,” said Johnny. “But Johnny,” said the teacher, “nobody knows what God looks like.” Replied Johnny: “Well, they will by the time I’m through with THIS!”

In looking for a challenge or some direction in life, the most challenging task we can approach is the zeal to come to know God. Think how that process might begin with some questions/answers:

Name: God.
Also known as: The Almighty, Jehovah, the Father, Lord.
Occupation: Sustainer and ruler of the universe.
Address: Everywhere.
Sex: Does not apply.
Place of birth: Does not apply.
Social Security: None.
Mother’s maiden name: None.
Dependents: Everyone.
Honors received: Too numerous to list.

God doesn’t fit a mold, does he? He is, to put it mildly, unique. One of a kind. Indescribable, some would say! God is beyond cataloging, and no computer resume, no investigating committee, not even a CIA computer could give an exhaustive profile of who He is and all that He’s done.

God cannot be grasped by the mind. If he could be grasped, he would not be God. Yet we cannot give up! We can’t throw up our hands and dismiss Him as a mystery…we need Him!

Imagine a sheer, steep crag with a projecting edge at the top. Now imagine what a person would probably feel if he put his foot on the edge of this precipice and, looking down into the chasm below, saw no solid footing nor anything to hold on to.

This is what I think the soul experiences when it goes beyond its footing in material things, in its quest for that which has no dimension and which exists from all eternity. For here there is nothing it can take hold of, neither place nor time, neither measure nor anything else; our minds cannot approach it.

And thus the soul, slipping at every point from what cannot be grasped, becomes dizzy and perplexed and returns once again to what is connatural to it, content now to know merely this about God, that it is completely different from the nature of the things that the soul knows. [1]

It’s amazing in this world the way people respond to God, as they understand Him…it’s very different: some grovel before totems; others bring offerings of chickens and goats; others kneel five times daily to chant prayers; others go into trances. Some believe in God so intensely they preach in foreign lands; others deny His existence by their silence.

We need to come to see God in people around us. We need to know Him in a personal way.

I’m thinking of a little boy named Timmy. Timmy was very afraid of the lightning and the thunder. His mom and dad went into his room during a thunderstorm and said, “Now, Timmy, don’t be afraid. God is right here in the room with you.”

He said, “Okay, Mommy and Daddy, I won’t be afraid.”

But then as the mommy and daddy went into their room and started to get ready for bed, the lightning clapped, and the thunder rolled, and Timmy screamed bloody murder. Timmy’s daddy and mommy went back into the room and said, “Honey, we thought we told you, you don’t need to be afraid. God is right here in the room with you.”

Timmy said, “Mommy and Daddy, I know God is right here in the room with me, but I need someone with skin on.” [2]

What is God like? Answers don’t come easy, because of the immensity of the subject. God is huge, filling the universe. Also people might know the right words, but they seem to become hollow shells because they can’t comprehend them.

We say that God is holy, righteous, loving, gracious, Father-Son-Spirit, but we don’t know what all this means. How do we know the words are empty? We can tell by the way many Christians behave!

Our behavior exposes our failure to understand the words coming out of our mouths. We can talk about God, but we do not know Him! God is not like us — He’s one of a kind! God is different from men. Anyone trying to know God and learn to relate to Him must begin with this fundamental truth.

God is not optional! Unlike everything else, God is absolutely necessary, like water for fish. We can’t just “take God or leave Him” — He is inescapable, even more so than death and taxes. We must not be too “familiar” with God, or regard Him as optional…we must learn to let God be God.

A. W. Tozer wrote concerning the desperate need for the church to revise its concept of God due to a very distorted conception of Him: It is my opinion that the Christian conception of God current in these middle years of the twentieth century is so decadent as to be utterly beneath the dignity of the Most High God and actually to constitute for professed believers something amounting to a moral calamity.[3]

Tozer goes on to say, The heaviest obligation lying upon the Christian Church today is to purify and elevate her concept of God until it is once more worthy of Him—and of her.[4]

A. W. Pink is of the same opinion: The god of this century no more resembles the Sovereign of Holy Writ than does the dim flickering of a candle the glory of the midday sun. The god who is talked about in the average pulpit, spoken of in the ordinary Sunday school, mentioned in much of the religious literature of the day, and preached in most of the so-called Bible conferences, is a figment of human imagination, an invention of maudlin sentimentality. The heathen outside the pale of Christendom form gods of wood and stone, while millions of heathen inside Christendom manufacture a god out of their carnal minds.[5]

One day it occurred to me that God is the most fascinating person alive and that getting to know Him could well be the most helpful thing that ever happened to me. The more I probed His nature the more convinced I became that knowing Him is the solution to most of my problems. I became convinced that knowing God better was the answer to many of their problems as well. I decided that I want to get to know God intimately, and that I want to help others get to know Him as well, if I possibly can.

God is knowable, and He does want to be known. As a matter of fact, He tells us that our eternal state depends upon knowing Him. Jesus said, “And this is eternal life, that they may know Thee, the only true God, and Jesus Christ whom Thou hast sent” (John 17:3). Knowing God and His Son Jesus is the heart of the whole matter of eternal life. The word know in this verse does not refer to a casual acquaintance either. It is the kind of knowledge that comes through living contact and personal relationship. If knowing God is that important, maybe we ought to talk about how we can get to know Him.

A mother was approached by her young son, who asked, “Mommy, did God make Himself?”  Realizing that such questions by children are very important and must be answered, she dropped what she was doing and sat down with her youngster for a little talk.  Pointing to her wedding band, she said, “This is a ‘love ring,’ which your daddy gave me when we were married.  Look at it closely and tell me where it begins and where it ends.”

The youngster examined it carefully and then said, “There’s no starting place and stopping place to a ring.”  The mother replied, “That’s the way it is with God.  He had no beginning and has no end, yet He encircles our lives with His presence. He is too wonderful, too great, for our minds to understand. Nobody ever made God — He always was!”  Somehow the boy realized that for God to be God, He could not have been created. He had to be without beginning and without end.

Martin Luther once was so depressed over a prolonged period that one day his wife came downstairs wearing all black.  Martin Luther said, “Who died?”  She said, “God has.”  He said, “God hasn’t died.” And she said, “Well, live like it and act like it.”

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[1] Gregory of Nyssa (d. about 395), “Eastern Orthodoxy,” Christian History, no. 54.

[2] Thomas Tewell, “The Tenacity of a Bulldog,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 141.

[3] A. W. Tozer, The Knowledge of the Holy (New York: Harper and Row, Publish­ers, 1961), p. 10.

[4] Ibid., p. 12.

[5] Arthur W. Pink, Gleanings in the Godhead, pp. 28-29.

 
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Posted by on March 2, 2015 in God

 

Willing to Worship…A man can no more diminish God’s glory by refusing to worship him than a lunatic can put out the sun by scribbling the word darkness on the walls of his cell


Erwin Lutzer said, “If we haven’t learned to be worshipers, it doesn’t really matter how well we do anything else. “

Realizing the awesome presence of God is quite a discovery. It changes our life. Our worship. Our Eternity.

The plea is a simple one:

   Bring yourself and your spirit of worship. Bring reverence for God and His house. Bring your offering (the tithe plus).

   Bring a spirit of love and fellowship. Bring a hearty handshake and a smile. Bring a kind word and helpful thoughts.

   Bring your willingness to help sing, and sing out of your heart. Bring a friend or relative. Be sure to bring your visiting friend.

   Bring your best each Sunday to worship. Get the church-going habit.

In their book Lessons from History, Will and Ariel Durant observed, “There is no significant example in history, before our time, of a society successfully maintaining moral life without the aid of religion.”

I hope Charles Spurgeon was incorrect, when he observed that “ I believe a very large majority of churchgoers are merely unthinking, slumbering worshipers of an unknown God.”

We have crowded God out of the center by replacing Him with ourselves.  And it is much worse to have a false idea of God than no idea at all.

A wife remarked to her husband after the church service: “Did you see the hat Mrs. Jones was wearing?” “No,” said her husband, “I didn’t.” “Did you see the new dress Mrs. Smith had on?” she asked. “I’m afraid I didn’t,” said her husband. To this his wife replied: “Well a lot of good it does YOU to go to church!”

God used to rage at the Israelites for frequenting holy groves. I only wish I could find one. Somehow, in the secularizing sweep in our world, we have lost the light out of the treetops. We’ve lost the sense of holiness that somehow permeates the sacred groves, and there isn’t anything sacred to most of us anymore.

We have gone all the way from pantheism to pan-atheism–from a view of life that found God in everything to a view of life that finds God in nothing. [We have gone] from a view of life where everything was holy to a view where we hardly ever see anything holy anymore. [1]

The majority of us do not enthrone God, we enthrone common sense. We make our decisions and then ask the real God to bless our god’s decision. [2]

The one essential condition of human existence is that man should always be able to bow down before something infinitely great. If men are deprived of the infinitely great, they will not go on living and will die of despair. The Infinite and the Eternal are as essential for man as the little planet on which he dwells.[3]

Men must worship something, if they do not worship an unseen Being who loves and cares for them, they will worship the works of their own hands; they will secretly bow down to the things that they see, and hear, and taste, and smell; these will be their lords and master.[4]

A silent love is acceptable only from the lower animals. God has given us speech that we should call upon his name. Worship is to religion what fragrance is to the flower.[5]

G. Campbell Morgan told a story about a father and his young daughter who were especially close.  They enjoyed spending time together.  If he went for a walk or made a social call, she wanted to go along.  But then he began to notice a change. When he asked her to accompany him on errands, she made excuses.  As the weeks passed, he became concerned about it.

When his birthday came, she presented him with a pair of slippers she had made.  Then he realized that she had been working on them while he was out of the house.  “Darling, I like these slippers very much,” he said gently, “but next time buy the slippers and let me have you all the days.  I would rather have you than anything you can make for me.”

Beyond any work we may do for God, time spent in His presence must take priority.  He desires our fellowship first of all.  If our worship is neglected, our work will be deficient.

It’s a necessary lesson to discover that worship does not satisfy our hunger for God; it only whets our appetite.

If we yearned after God even as much as a cow yearns for her calf, we would be the worshiping and effective believers God wants us to be.  If we longed for God as a bride looks forward to the return of her husband, we would be a far greater force for God than we are now. [6]

God wants us to worship Him. He doesn’t need us, for He couldn’t be a self-sufficient God and need anything or anybody, but He wants us. When Adam sinned it was not he who cried, “God, where art Thou?” It was God who cried, “Adam, where art thou?”[7]

 It is a terrible thing to be grateful and have no one to thank, to be awed and have no one to worship. [8]

 

Ten Values of Church Attendance:

1. It keeps your heart in constant tune with God.

2. It keeps your mind on the great necessity for having God’s word spread throughout all nations.

3. It improves your character by learning the great examples that Christ gave to us.

4. It improves your disposition by learning to be meek and humble like Christ.

5. It helps in your everyday life by learning to love one another, even as Christ loved you.

6. It teaches you to give and know the wonderful joy you receive by giving.

7. It teaches you to pray, for prayer is the answer to many of your problems.

8. It gives your soul great joy and comfort to worship and know that God is near.

9. It shows the world that you are working for Christ and His Kingdom.

10. It is what Christ intended for you to do. “For where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them.”[9]

 

The church is not:

* An ark for the saving of a select few.

* A ferryboat to take effortless passengers to the shores of heaven.

* A life insurance company, with no obligation on policy holders except the payment of a small annual premium.

* A social set, welcoming certain people and excluding others from its fellowship.

* A Sunday pleasure club for the providing of pleasant occupation on the day of rest.

 

The church is:

* A lifeboat for the rescue of sin-wrecked and perishing souls.

* A family, in which love and service are expected from each member to each member.

* An organized community, with constant activities and continual growth and development.

* A company of believers who have found the one way of life and obey the one Lord of life.

* A union of those who love for the benefit of those who suffer.

* A center of social worship, in which the spiritual life of each is helped by the spiritual life of his fellow.

* The representative — the “body” — of Jesus Christ on the earth, reflecting his spirit and controlled by his will.

 

 

I like the following list, which speaks not only to sporting events but also worship: The reasons why I’m giving up sports (football in the fall, baseball in the summer, basketball in the winter). I’ve had it all. I quit attending sports once and for all, and here are my excuses:

   1. Every time I went, they asked for money.

   2. The people I sat next to didn’t seem friendly.

   3. The seats were too hard and not comfortable at all.

   4. I went to many games but the coach never came to call on me.

   5. The referees made decisions that I couldn’t agree with.

   6. The game went into overtime and I was late getting home.

   7. The band played numbers I’d never heard before and it wasn’t my style of music.

   8. It seems the games are always scheduled when I want to do other things.

   9. I suspect that I was sitting next to some hypocrites. They came to see their friends and they talked during the whole game.

   10. I was taken to too many games by my parents when I was growing up.

   11. I hate to wait in the traffic jam in the parking lot after the game.

 

Adrian Rogers maintains that Americans attend church at least three times in their life. When they are hatched, matched, and dispatched. The first time they throw water. The second time they throw rice. The third time they throw dirt.

Reasons for attending church fall into two categories — good and bad. In the bad column are these: Attending is socially acceptable. God is angry if I don’t. Going merits His favor. I feel better. Such  motivations dishonor God, and some are the devil’s lies.

In the good column are these reasons: God’s Word commands it. I need Christian fellowship. Others need my encouragement. I can hear the Word. I can meet God.

A story might help to explain. One day the telephone rang in the minister’s office of the Washington church attended by the President. An eager voice said, “Tell me, do you expect the President to be there Sunday?” “That I cannot promise,” the minister said patiently. “But we do expect God, and we fancy it will be incentive enough for a reasonably large attendance.

Ted Malone, whose radio show came on early in the morning, told of the Idaho shepherd who wrote: “Will you, on your broadcast, strike the note ‘A’? I’m a sheepherder way out here on a ranch, far away from a piano. The only comfort I have is my old violin. It’s all out of tune. Would you strike ‘A’ so that I might get in tune?”

Malone honored the request. Later he received a “thank you” note from the distant shepherd saying, “Now I’m in tune.”

One of the purposes and responsibilities of personal and public worship is to enable the aspirant to keep tuned to the Great Shepherd.

One of the joys of the Christian life is to help others recapture the missing note!

Have you known of someone who could have written this following letter:  “Dear Minister:  You often stress attendance at worship as being very important for a Christian, but I think a person has a right to miss now and then. I think every person ought to be excused for the following reasons and the number of times indicated:

      Christmas (Sunday before or after)

      New Year (Party lasted too long)

      Easter (Get away for holidays)

      July 4 (National holiday)

      Labor Day (Need to get away)

      Memorial Day (Visit hometown)

      School Closing (Kids need break)

      School Opens (One last fling)

      Family Reunions (Mine & wife’s)

      Sleep late (Saturday night activities)

      Deaths in Family

      Anniversary (Second honeymoon)

      Sickness (One per family member)

      Business Trips (A must)

      Vacation (Three weeks)

      Bad Weather (Ice, snow, rain, clouds)

      Ball games

      Unexpected Company (Can’t walk out)

      Time changes (Spring ahead; fall back)

      Special on TV (Super Bowl, etc.)

“That leaves only two Sundays per year. So, you can count on us to be in church on the fourth Sunday in February and the third Sunday in August unless providentially hindered. Sincerely, A Faithful Member.”

No Excuse Sunday

To make it possible for everyone to attend church next Sunday, we are going to have a special “No Excuse Sunday.” Cots will be placed in the foyer for those who say, “Sunday is my only day to sleep in.” Murine will be available for those with tired eyes… from watching television too late on Saturday night. We will have steel helmets for those who say, “The roof would cave in if I ever came to church.” Blankets will be provided for those who think the church is too cold, and fans for those who think the church is too hot. We will have hearing aids for those who say, “The Minister speaks too softly,” and cotton for those who say he preaches too loudly.

Score cards will be available for those who wish to list the hypocrites present. Some relatives will be in attendance for those who like to go visiting on Sunday. There will be 100 T.V. dinners for those who cannot go to church and cook dinner also. One section will be devoted to trees and grass for those who like to seek God in nature. Finally, the sanctuary will be decorated with both Christmas poinsettias and Easter lilies for those who have never seen the church without them.

Just suppose the Lord would begin tomorrow to make people as sick as they claim to be on Sunday. Just suppose the Lord would take away the child whom the parents use as an excuse for staying away from church. Some things sound humorous, but they are serious! What is your excuse? See you next Sunday!?

One hour with God infinitely exceeds all the pleasures and delights of this lower world.   A. W. Tozer said, “We are called to an everlasting preoccupation with God.”

Orthodox Jews avoided Samaria because there was a long-standing, deep-seated hatred between them and the Samaritans.

The Samaritans were a mixed race, part Jew and part Gentile, that grew out of the Assyrian captivity of the ten northern tribes in 727 b.c. Rejected by the Jews because they could not prove their genealogy, the Samaritans established their own temple and religious services on Mt. Gerizim.

This only fanned the fires of prejudice. So intense was their dislike of the Samaritans that some of the Pharisees prayed that no Samaritan would be raised in the resurrection! When His enemies wanted to call Jesus an insulting name, they called Him a Samaritan (John 8:48).

He made it clear that all religions are not equally acceptable before God, that some worshipers act in ignorance and unbelief.

It was a devastating statement to say that worship would no longer be limited to the Jewish temple. This ties in with John 2:19-21 and also Stephen’s statement in Acts 7:48-50. John’s Gospel clearly reveals that there is a new sacrifice (John 1:29), a new temple (John 2:19-21; 4:20-24), a new birth (John 3:1-7), and a new water (John 4:11). Jews reading this Gospel should realize that God has established in Jesus Christ a whole new economy. The Old Covenant Law has been fulfilled and set aside.

Arthur Pink had a specific perspective of those who offer false worship: ‘They bring their bodies to the house of prayer but not their souls. They worship with their mouths but not in spirit and in truth.

“They are sticklers for early morning communion with God but they take no thought about keeping their hearts with all diligence.

“They boast of their orthodoxy but disregard the precepts of Christ.

“Multitudes of professing Christians abstain from external acts of violence, yet hesitate not to rob their neighbors of a good name by spreading evil reports against them.

“They contribute regularly to the church but shrink not from misrepresenting their goods and cheating their customers persuading themselves that business is business.

“They have more regard for the laws of man than those of God for his fear is not before their eyes.”

In a false worship we may detect three faults. First, a false worship is a selective worship.  It chooses what it wishes to know about God and omits the rest. 

One of the most dangerous things in the world is a one-sided religion.  It is very easy for a man to accept and hold such parts of God’s truth as suit him and to disregard the remainder. 

We would do well to remember that, although no man will ever grasp the whole orb of truth, it is total truth that we should aim at, not the snatching at fragments which happen to suit ourselves and our own position.

Second a false worship is an ignorant worship.  Worship ought to be the approach to God of the whole man.  A man has a mind and he has a duty to exercise it. 

Religion may begin with an emotional response; but the time comes when that emotional response has to be thought out.  E. F. Scott said that religion is far more than merely the strenuous exercise of the intellect, but that nonetheless a very great part of religious failure is due to nothing other than intellectual sloth. 

To fail to think things out is in itself a sin.  In the last analysis, religion is never safe until a man can tell, not only what he believes, but why he believes it.  Religion is hope, but it is hope with reason behind it (1 Peter 3:15).

Finally, a false worship is a superstitious worship.  It is a worship given, not out of a sense of need nor out of any real desire, but basically because a man feels that it might be dangerous not to give it. 

Many a person will refuse to walk beneath a ladder; many a person will have a pleased feeling when a black cat crosses his path; many a person will pick up a pin with the idea that good luck will follow; many a person will have an uncomfortable feeling when he is one of thirteen sitting at a table. 

He does not believe in these superstitions, but he has the feeling that there might be something in them and he had better play safe. 

There are many people whose religion is founded on a kind of vague fear of what might happen if they leave God out of the reckoning.  But real religion is founded not on fear but on the love of God and gratitude for what God has done.  Too much religion is a kind of superstitious ritual to avert the possible wrath of the unpredictable gods. [10]

A man’s spirit is the highest part of him.  That is the part which lasts when the physical part has vanished.  That is the part which dreams the dreams and sees the visions which, because of the weakness and faultiness of the body, may never be carried out.  It is the spirit of a man which is the source of his highest dreams and thoughts and ideals and desires. 

The true worship is when man, through his spirit, attains to friendship and intimacy with God.  Genuine worship does not consist in coming to a certain place nor in going through a certain ritual or liturgy nor even in bringing certain gifts.  True worship is when the spirit, the immortal and invisible part of man, speaks to and meets with God, himself immortal and invisible.[11]

I believe that if we are to be and to do for others what God means us to be and to do, we must not let adoration and worship slip into second place, “For it is the central service asked by God of human souls; and its neglect is responsible for much lack of spiritual depth and power.”

Perhaps we may find here the reason why we so often run dry. We do not give time enough to what makes for depth, and so we are shallow; a wind, quite a little wind, can ruffle our surface; a little hot sun, and all the moisture in us evaporates. It should not be so. [12]

Let me recite some lines from some ancient prayers from the black church. We have some people in every tradition who pray pretty much the same prayer every Sunday if they’re asked to pray. Many of these lines are well known all over the black church.

One of the lines is, “Lord, I thank you that the blood is running warm in my veins this morning and that my bed was not my cooling board.” Cooling board is a reference to the slab of concrete or marble on which a dead body lies in the mortuary. They just let your body cool down.

You get these old saints who say, “Lord, I thank you that this morning when I rose, my bed was not my cooling board. One more day to praise you and thank you. You’ve been good.”

Or another line is, “Lord, I want to thank you that you’ve allowed my golden moments to roll on.” I love that line: “You could have stopped my life at any point, but you allowed my golden moments to roll on.” God says, “I’ve been good to you. You ought to worship and praise me.” [13]  

We’ll close with these words:

If my lips could sing as many songs as there are waves in the sea:

if my tongue could sing as many hymns as there are ocean billows:

if my mouth filled the whole firmament with praise:

if my face shone like the sun and moon together:

if my hands were to hover in the sky like powerful eagles

and my feet ran across mountains as swiftly as the deer;

all that would not be enough to pay you fitting tribute,

O Lord my God. [14]

 

[1] Annie Dillard, Preaching Today.

[2] Oswald Chambers in The Oswald Chambers Devotional Reader.  Christianity Today, Vol. 36, no. 9.

[3] Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Leadership, Vol. 19, no. 1.

[4] Frederick Denison Maurice, Virtue, Vol. 21, no. 1.

[5] Henry Van Dyke in The Upward Path. Christianity Today, Vol. 42, no. 7.

[6] A. W. Tozer in Men Who Met God.  Christianity Today, Vol. 30, no. 15

[7] Ibid, Tozer.

[8] Phillip Yancey, Open Windows, Marriage Partnership, Vol. 5, no. 4.

[9] Manhattan Messenger, Pulpit Helps, May 1996, p. 25.

 [10] The Gospel of John Vol. 1 and 2, The Daily Study Bible Series Revised Edition by William Barclay

[11] Ibid

[12] Amy Carmichael in Edges of His Ways.  Christianity Today, Vol. 39, no. 13.

[13] Richard Allen Farmer, “The ‘What’s’ and the ‘Why’ of Worship,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 150.

[14] Hymn probably composed in the Talmudic period, 3rd-5th century A.D., in Praying with the Jewish Tradition (comp. Elias Kopciowski). Christianity Today, Vol. 41, no. 9.

 

 
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Posted by on February 28, 2015 in Church

 

A Psychiatrist’s Letter to Young People About 50 Shades of Grey


A Psychiatrist’s Letter to Young People About 50 Shades of Grey

By MIRIAM GROSSMAN, M.D.

There’s nothing gray about Fifty Shades of Grey.  It’s all black.

50I help people who are broken inside.  I ask questions, and listen carefully to the answers.

One thing I’ve learned is that young people are utterly confused about love — finding it and keeping it.  They make poor choices, and end up in lots of pain.

I don’t want you to suffer like the people I see in my office, so I’m warning you about a new movie called Fifty Shades of Grey. Even if you don’t see the film, its toxic message is seeping into our culture, and could plant dangerous ideas in your head.

Fifty Shades of Grey is being released for Valentine’s Day, so you’ll think it’s a romance, but don’t fall for it.  The movie is actually about a sick, dangerous relationship filled with physical and emotional abuse.  It seems glamorous, because the actors are gorgeous, have expensive cars and planes, and Beyonce is singing.  You might conclude that Christian and Ana are cool, and that their relationship is acceptable.

Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated! The people behind the movie just want your money; they have no concern whatsoever about you and your dreams.

Abuse is not glamorous or cool.   It is never OK, under any circumstances.

This is what you need to know about Fifty Shades of Grey: as a child, Christian Grey was terribly neglected.  He is confused about love because he never experienced the real thing.  In his mind, love is tangled up with bad feelings like pain and embarrassment.   Christian enjoys hurting women in bizarre ways.  Anastasia is an immature girl who falls for Christian’s looks and wealth, and foolishly goes along with his desires.

In the real world, this story would end badly, with Christian in jail, and Ana in a shelter — or morgue.  Or Christian would continue beating Ana, and she’d stay and suffer.  Either way, their lives would most definitely not be a fairy tale.  Trust me on this one.

As a doctor, I’m urging you: DON’T see Fifty Shades of Grey. Get informed, learn the facts, and explain to your friends why they shouldn’t see it either.

Here are a few of the dangerous ideas promoted by Fifty Shades of Grey:

1.  Girls want guys like Christian who order them around and get rough. No! A psychologically healthy woman avoids pain.  She wants to feel safe, respected and cared for by a man she can trust.  She dreams about wedding gowns, not handcuffs.

2.  Guys want a girl like Anastasia who is meek and insecure.  Wrong.  A psychologically healthy man wants a woman who can stand up for herself.   If he is out of line, he wants her to set him straight.

3.  Anastasia exercises free choice when she consents to being hurt, so no one can judge her decision. Flawed logic.  Sure, Anastasia had free choice — and she chose poorly.  A self-destructive decision is a bad decision.

4.  Anastasia makes choices about Christian in a thoughtful and detached manner. Doubtful.  Christian constantly supplies Anastasia with alcohol, impairing her judgment.   Also, Anastasia becomes sexually active with Christian — her first experience ever — soon after meeting him.  Neuroscience suggests their intimacy could jump start her feelings of attachment and trust, before she’s certain he deserved them.   Sex is a powerful experience — particularly the first time.  Finally, Christian manipulates Anastasia into signing an agreement prohibiting her from telling anyone that he is a long time abuser. Alcohol, sex, manipulation — hardly the ingredients of a thoughtful, detached decision.



5.    Christian’s emotional problems are cured by Anastasia’s love. 

Only in a movie.  In the real world, Christian wouldn’t change to any significant degree.  If Anastasia was fulfilled by helping emotionally disturbed people, she should have become a psychiatrist or social worker.



6.  It’s good to experiment with sexuality. The bottom line: the ideas of Fifty Shades of Grey are dangerous, and can lead to confusion and poor decisions about love.

Maybe for adults in a healthy, long term, committed, monogamous relationship, AKA “marriage”.  Otherwise, you’re at high risk for STDs, pregnancy, and sexual assault.  It’s wise to be very careful who you allow to get close to you, physically and emotionally, because just one encounter can throw you off track and change your life forever.

The bottom line: the ideas of Fifty Shades of Grey are dangerous, and can lead to confusion and poor decisions about love. There are vast differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships, but the movie blurs those differences, so you begin to wonder: “What’s healthy in a relationship?  What’s sick?  There are so many shades of grey — I’m not sure.”

Listen, it’s your safety and future we’re talking about here.  There’s no room for doubt: An intimate relationship that includes violence, consensual or not, is completely unacceptable. This is black and white.  There are no shades of grey here.  Not even one.

 
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Posted by on February 16, 2015 in Article

 

Minimizing Disappointment


I make the point annually to watch Jimmy Stewart’s popular holiday portrayal of George Bailey in It’s A Wonderful Life (required viewing in my estimation for all who work daily to make a difference in people’s lives).

In a scene in the early minutes of the presentation, angels are talking in heaven of this person, George, in their endeavor to know more about him and enter into his world to offer assistance.

disappointment2Clarence, the 2nd class level guardian angel who eventually is assigned to task, asks, “What’s the matter with George. Is he sick? Is he in trouble?” “Much worse,” is the reply, “he’s discouraged.”

George gets his wish (“I wish I’d never been born”) and eventually is led through a process of seeing the world as it would have been had he never been born. The conclusion for his circumstances is identical to others – we do make a difference and our positive actions and kind words accumulate much greater than we could ever imagine.

People indeed observe and model what they see and hear from us. It’s humbling but certain that we have an influence in the eternity of another’s soul.

We each occupy a small fraction of space in this world. We do and must make a difference in the lives of others.

Ponce de Leon went on a fruitless quest for the fountain of youth. What if he had found it? While we might enjoy a longer life, that would not solve our most serious problem. There is a fountain of spiritual youth. It is available to everyone in the word of God.

Many people have sustained themselves in times of crisis with the little slogan, “This too shall pass.” That definitely puts things in perspective. When we look at all our troubles down here, we recognize it is temporary.

Everyone I know wants both a peaceful and fulfilling life. Nevertheless, most feel that in some way life is not cooperating with their desire. Life keeps setting up barriers. The only way to get peace and fulfillment is to make the right decisions about how we are going to conduct our life. We can’t control what happens to us, but we can determine the principles by which we live.

The fact is, our life is the sum total of our decisions. Some decisions are momentous and some are trivial. Some are easy and some hard. Every day of our life is filled with decisions.

All of us are faced with choices. Written over the fundamental ones are the words whosoever chooses me must give and hazard all he has. Jesus told us that. He said “Whoever finds his life will lose it, and whoever loses his life for my sake will find it.”

We can be fulfilled. Remember, the quality of our life is determined by the quality of our decisions. Fulfillment is ours for the taking. The choice is up to us.

Do decisions ever come hard to you? Are you like the man who had to fill out a job application? One question said, “Do you have trouble making decisions?” The man replied, “Well, yes and no.”

Or perhaps we’re like the wife, who struggled with knowing what to say when asked a relatively simple question. Overheard:  “Has your husband lived up to all the things he said before you were married?”

“No.  He’s only lived up to one of them.” “Which one is that?” “He said he wasn’t good enough for me.” [2]

———————–

[1] A good but slightly ineffectual man tries to off himself after an error that really wasn’t his fault. In Christmas carol fashion, his crusty-but-lovable guardian angel shows up to give him a tour of the world without his presence, and it isn’t a pretty place. Moral courage, small-town American life, civic cooperation, and family love are glorified; corporate greed and self-involvement are vilified; at the climax, a blanket of snow like spun sugar makes everything pure and clean like redemption itself.

[2] Ron Dentinger, Dodgeville, Wisconsin Chronicle; Reader’s Digest, February, 1995,  p. 59.        

 
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Posted by on February 15, 2015 in Encouragement

 

The Measure of One’s Life…and Arriving Home!


“Let us so live that when we die even the undertaker will be sorry.” (Mark Twain)

snow in ohio

A beginning…“Disappointment is the nurse of wisdom” 

(from the opening chapter The Measure of One’s Life by Gary Davenport)

There was five inches of snow on the ground outside the house, glistening beneath the street’s only light, settling in for another cold mid-winter night’s sleep in the Northeast corner of Ohio.

The week’s weather had been on a roller coaster, seeking to discern between the high 10’s and the mid-30’s, which certainly put the beautiful layer of ‘God’s gift’ in these parts at risk for another day.

The movie on the small television in the bedroom suddenly garnered even more attention than before, as lawyer Jan Schlichtmann (played by John Travolta) sat haggardly before a questioning judge. His life had seemingly come to a roadblock, and his demeanor displayed a frustration that spoke volumes considering the otherwise ‘high marks’ for the good intentions he had displayed throughout his career.

Viewed by some as an ‘ambulance chaser,’ he would acknowledge often through the movie, A Civil Action,[1] that money did matter. In fact, it mattered a lot if one wanted to drive expensive cars and dress impeccably in the finest of ‘threads’ and enjoy life’s finer things.

But this character struggled with good times and even better intentions. He eventually would grow ‘sentimental’ toward his clients, which was not to be considered by a “smart lawyer who wants to win the important cases.”

His problem was simple: he came to care about the client. And it cost money for small law firms to defend poor clients against deep-pocketed corporations who wanted only to “wear you down” until a settlement became a necessary evil.

He was penniless. Broke. And empty. Life should have been better. It had often lived up to the dream, but only for a moment in what seemed like a timeless daze of hard work and high ambitions.

The judge asked a series of questions, each determined to discover why his life was in such desperate condition. Where is all the money you made as a lawyer? The possessions one accumulates in his lifetime? “Do you expect your creditors to believe that you have nothing but $14 in your checking account and a portable radio,” she quizzed.

Then the words came forth: “Where is the money, the property, the belongings, the things by which one measures one’s life?”

The measure of one’s life! The measure of one’s life? What an intriguing statement. What a question? The suggestion is that one’s life is judged based upon accumulation of things. Stuff.

And the implication is that if one does not have this all-empowering stuff, that life is of little account.

A merchant, some few years ago, failed in business.  He went home in great agitation.  “What is the matter?”  asked his wife.

“I am ruined; I am beggared; I have lost my all,” he exclaimed, pressing his hand upon his forehead.

“All” said the wife. “No, I am left.”

“All, papa,” said his eldest boy, “here am I.”

“And I, too,” said his little girl, running up, and putting her arms around his neck.

“I’m not lost, papa,” repeated Eddie.

“And you have your health left,” said his wife.

“And your hands to work with,” said his eldest; “and I can help you.”

“And your two feet, papa, to carry you about, and your two eyes to see with, papa,” said little Eddie.

“And you have God’s promises,” said the grandmother.

“And a good God,” said his wife.

Where would we be without our good God, One who has shown Himself daily for His love and devotion to us? And isn’t it comforting to know that God  “…causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.” (Matthew 5:45)

Those words are certainly expressed to each of us through God’s divine word: (Jeremiah 31:3)  “The LORD appeared to us in the past, saying: “I have loved you with an everlasting love; I have drawn you with loving-kindness.”[2]

If we’re prone to wonder if God really cares for us at all, the apostle John gives us a reassuring reply:  “”For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

He reveals even more in his later epistle, seeking to give confidence to those who were surrounded by the wisdom-filled Gnostics of the day: “How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him.” (1 John 3:1).

We often find ourselves questioning those things which once were most certain in our life. We move from doubt to despair and eventually discouragement or disappointment.

The company of the discouraged is a very noble company. Not too long ago, the Hayden Planetarium in New York City issued an invitation to all those who were interested in applying to be a part of the crew on the first journey to another planet. Eighteen thousand people applied. They gave the applications to a panel of psychologists, who examined them thoroughly and came to the conclusion that in the vast majority of incidents, those who applied did so because they were discouraged with their lives here and hoped they could find a new life somewhere else.  [3]

“Disappointment to a noble soul is what cold water is to burning metal; it strengthens, tempers, intensifies, but never destroys it. [4]

Even good marriages can be shaken to their foundations by circumstances that allow disappointment to breed. But the couples I’ve observed who have come through to the other side have done so first by God’s grace and second by holding firmly to each other. They have affirmed that the “we” they possess together is stronger than the “it” of the circumstances and disappointment. [5]

We don’t often see the larger picture since we are so close to the daily details.

The lone survivor of a shipwreck, marooned on a lonely island, managed to build a hut in which he placed all he had saved from the wreck.  He prayed for rescue and anxiously scanned the horizon every day to signal any passing ship.

One day on returning from a hunt for food he was horror-stricken to find his hut in flames.  All his possessions had gone up in smoke!

The next day a ship arrived.  “We saw your smoke signal yesterday,” the captain explained.

A Christian who was in very difficult circumstances fell on his knees in despair to cry to God, “When am I going to get out of all these trials?” But by a slip of the tongue he actually prayed, “What am I going to get out of all these trials?”  The change of that one word “when” to “what” was just what the Lord wanted and the hard-pressed Christian realized it. There is something more important than escaping from trials — it is learning what our Heavenly Father wants us to gain from them.   [6]

Corrie ten Boom used to say, “When the train goes through a tunnel and the world gets dark, do you jump out? Of course not. You sit still and trust the engineer to get you through.”

The apostle Paul said it best: “Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope. And hope does not disappoint us, because God has poured out his love into our hearts by the Holy Spirit, whom he has given us.”( Romans 5:3-5).

He laid it clearly on the line in its ultimate contrast later, in  Romans 8:18:  “I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us.”

He even realized that the difficult times were intended to reveal his own weaknesses, and force him to rely more upon the eternal God: “To keep me from becoming conceited because of these surpassingly great revelations, there was given me a thorn in my flesh, a messenger of Satan, to torment me. Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ’s power may rest on me.” (2 Corinthians 12:7-9).

The apostle Peter also needs our attention: “Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you.  But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed. If you are insulted because of the name of Christ, you are blessed, for the Spirit of glory and of God rests on you.” (1 Peter 4:12-14).

And the end result isn’t so bad, either, is it?   “And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.” (1 Peter 5:10) If it takes a broken heart to draw us closer to God, then our prayer should be, “Break my heart.” Anything that draws us closer to God has great value.

Do you have wind chimes at your house? The next time you face a storm, listen carefully. Along with the howling wind, you might hear a beautiful sound from the chimes. They are making music in the midst of a storm. That is a parable of our lives. In the face of the greatest storms of our lives, we can make beautiful music.

If you want to see what’s in a sponge—just squeeze it. The contents will reveal themselves under pressure. The same thing will happen to you. When the pressure gets tough, you will see what’s inside your heart and soul.

 

[1]Jan Schlichtmann, a tenacious young lawyer, is confronted with the litigation of a lifetime in this unbelievable real-life story. Several families in the small town of Woburn, Massachusetts, have suffered the tragic losses of their children to the rare cancer known as leukemia. After having their claim rejected by most law firms in town, these citizens approach Schlichtmann with the possibility that the deaths of their children may have had to do with Woburn’s drinking water supply being contaminated by a couple of local businesses. The rub lies in the fact that these businesses are offshoots of two of the most powerful national corporations in the country! Schlichtmann must push his skill and craftiness as a lawyer to the limit in order to oust his opponents, who are working with a limitless bankroll.

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backyard deer(from the last chapter)

Snow is still on the ground in Northeastern Ohio. Some 67 inches has fallen since first being confronted with lawyer Jan Schlichtmann (played by John Travolta) sitting at that table in the courtroom.

We’ve come to realize (haven’t we?) that life isn’t about power, or fame, or education, or wealth.  Life has higher ambitions for us to achieve. Our days are marked out differently that most.


And though we might become penniless, or go through troubles too difficult to even discuss without much emotion, “the things by which one measures one’s life” has become clearly understood. Right?!

For those of us involved daily in other’s lives through ministry, a “beginning and end” doesn’t always follow each other in an orderly way. It’s rare that we even see the “end of the matter” because people move away and we lose touch. We don’t know if our counsel was the wisdom promised.

We just know that we have done our best to counsel and encourage. Prayers were offered in the beginning. And they continue even now.

That’s why we often enjoy mowing the yard. Or shoveling the snow. Or watching that sporting end that has “an opening bell” and a concluding horn.

We see the end. It allows us to evaluate the process. We judge the results. There is the chance of closure.

I am drawn to the words of Solomon and Jesus on such matters. They give us the grand conclusion. The sum of the matter. It’s crystal clear.

Matthew 6:33  “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”

Ecclesiastes 12:13-14: “” Now all has been heard; here is the conclusion of the matter: Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, including every hidden thing, whether it is good or evil.”

I am also warned not to follow the route of Eliphaz and Zophar and Bildad, those  well-intentioned but weak-kneed friends of Job. They came to comfort and proved a burden. They spoke many words, had enough ‘doctrine’ to appear correct, but ended up of little help.

God gives us His biggest concern:  “After the LORD had said these things to Job, he said to Eliphaz the Temanite, “I am angry with you and your two friends, because you have not spoken of me what is right, as my servant Job has. {8} So now take seven bulls and seven rams and go to my servant Job and sacrifice a burnt offering for yourselves. My servant Job will pray for you, and I will accept his prayer and not deal with you according to your folly. You have not spoken of me what is right, as my servant Job has.””[1]

You have not spoken of me what is right. Wow!

It seems we can sin against God by saying things about Him that are not right! It certainly encourages us to listen more often and be willing to learn what we need. It humbles us. It puts us in a proper posture.

Then we are right where God wants us.

I was driving to a funeral a few years back listening to a sermon tape from an Arkansas minister who ‘speaks the solid, undeniable truth in a loving way.’ While the words met his usual high standard, the song sung just prior to the sermon got my attention.

It was new to me. The words were powerful. By the end, tears were literally streaming down my cheeks:

God Himself is with us, let us now adore him, And with awe appear before Him. God is in His temple, All within keep silence, And before Him bow with reverence, Him alone, God we own; To our Lord and Savior Praises sing forever.

God Himself is with us; Whom angelic legions, Serve with awe in heavenly regions. “Holy, holy, Holy,” Sing the hosts of heaven, Praise to God be ever given. Bow Thine ear, to us here; Hear, O Christ, the praises, That Thy church now raises.

O thou fount of blessing, Purify my Spirit, Trusting only in Thy merit, Like the holy angels, Who beheld Thy glory, May I ceaselessly adore Thee. And in all, Great and small, Seek to do most nearly What Thou lovest dearly.[2]

If we are seeking to do most nearly what He lovest dearly, our lives will have proper focus, direction, and directives. Our purpose in life will be clearly marked.

We need to “…find out what pleases the Lord.” (Eph. 5:10).

The final test is not what we think of ourselves, or what others may think. The final test is: What will God say? J. C. Ryle says, “The Lord Jesus winds up the Sermon on the Mount by a passage of heart-piercing application. He turns from false prophets to false professors, from unsound teachers to unsound hearers” [3]

“”Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only he who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and in your name drive out demons and perform many miracles?’  Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ ((Matthew 7:21-23).

Jesus is quite ready to concede that many of the false prophets will do and say wonderful and impressive things.

The Lord is not speaking to irreligious people, to atheists or agnostics. Nor is he speaking to pagans, heretics, or apostates. He is speaking specifically to people who are devotedly religious—but who are deluded in thinking they are on the road to heaven when they are really on the broad road to eternal damnation.

Obedience to His will is the test of true faith in Christ. The test is not words, not saying “Lord, Lord,” and not obeying His commands. How easy it is to learn a religious vocabulary, and even memorize Bible verses and religious songs, and yet not obey God’s will. Words are not a substitute for obedience, and neither are religious works. We are to hear God’s words and do them (see James 1:22-25). We must not stop with only hearing (or studying) His words. Our hearing must result in doing.

There is no point in saying that we love a person, and then doing things which break that person’s heart. When we were young maybe we used sometimes to say to our mothers, “Mother, I love you.” And maybe mother sometimes smiled a little wistfully and said, “I wish you would show it a little more in the way you behave.”

So often we confess God with our lips and deny him with our lives. It is not difficult to recite a creed, but it is difficult to live the Christian life. Faith without practice is a contradiction in terms, and love without obedience is an impossibility.

The words of an engraving from the cathedral of Lübeck, Germany, beautifully reflect our Lord’s teaching here:

“Thus speaketh Christ our Lord to us, You call Me master and obey Me not,

You call Me light and see Me not, you call Me the way and walk Me not,

You call Me life and live Me not, you call Me wise and follow Me not,

You call Me fair and love Me not, you call Me rich and ask Me not,

You call Me eternal and seek Me not, if I condemn thee, blame Me not.”

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[2] All scriptures are from The Holy Bible, New International Version, Original work copyright 1973, 1978, 1984 by International Bible Society.

[3] Bruce Thielemann, “Dealing with Discouragement,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 48.

[4] Eliza Tabor, Instant Quotation Dictionary, p. 97.

[5] Elizabeth Cody Newenhuyse, Marriage Partnership, Vol. 7, no. 3.

[6] Pulpit Helps, November 1994, p. 8.

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[1] Job 42:7-8

[2] God Himself Is With Us by Gerhard Tersteegen, 1729.

[3] Expository Thoughts on the Gospel: St. Matthew [London: James Clarke, 1965], pp. 69-70.

 
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God has promised to ‘go with us’


There are specific places revealed in scripture that show us that God specifically promised to go with us…we need to realize and remember then and begin to acknowledge His pres­ence in those situations, learning to share them with Him. He will be pleased, and at the same time things will go better for us.

He Is With Us in Temptation.

A man had a sign on his door which said, “Lead me not into temptation, I can find it for myself.” We can all make that statement. Temptation will make itself known on a daily basis. May God go with you, OgilvieWe will never triumph over temptation pretending it doesn’t exist. We cannot afford the luxury of thinking it can’t happen to us. Thanks be to God who can give us the victory over temptation.

The Apostle Paul taught us that our bodies are the temples of the Holy Spirit. God the Holy Spirit lives within us and goes everywhere we go. That should provide an added incentive for us to flee from sin. As Paul put it, “Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own?” (1 Corinthians 6:18‑19).

The believer’s body is a mini‑temple, a sacred dwelling place for the omni­present God, and we must treat it as such. Sexual relations outside of marriage defile the temple of God. They dirty up God’s dwelling place. To be conscious of God’s presence is to guard the purity of His home.

But respect for God’s home is not the only deterring power of this doctrine. If we love our Lord and want to please Him, the knowledge that He is with us is going to have an influence on where we take Him and what we do in His presence. We usually try not to offend someone we truly love. While we may be tempted to do something of which they disapprove when we are separated from their watchful eye, we seldom entertain the thought of doing it when they are standing right there looking at us. The next time you are tempted to disobey God’s Word and disregard His will, visualize Him standing there watching the whole scene. He is there, you know, so we might as well think about it. Sometimes we act like ostriches with our heads in the sand. We think that because we cannot see God, He cannot see us. But He does.

The eyes of the LORD are in every place, Watching the evil and the good (Proverbs 15:3).

He Is With Us in Need.

The writer to the Hebrews had something to say about God’s presence. Some of the folks to whom he was writing had lost their jobs because of their faith in Jesus Christ, and they were facing desperate needs. They were probably worrying about how their needs would be met and, worse still, they were envying people who had every­thing they needed. They would benefit from this pertinent exhortation: “Let your character be free from the love of money, being content with what you have; for He Himself has said, ‘I will never desert you, nor will I ever forsake you’” (Hebrews 13:5).

We may not have everything in life we want, but we do have the Lord. He is right there with us all the time. He sees all our needs and He will meet every one of them in His own time and in His own way. Some may be saying, like those Hebrew Christians of old, “But I have this bill due tomorrow that I can’t pay.”

That situation could be God’s way of en­couraging you to reevaluate your lifestyle. He wants us to be diligent, to work hard, to seek His wisdom about every penny we spend, and to stay out of debt. Unpaid bills sometimes reveal that we have been overly enthusiastic about gratifying our desires rather than merely meeting our needs. The next time you are tempted to spend money on something you do not need, remember that the omnipresent Lord of the uni­verse is right there with you. Ask His advice before you move ahead. Then trust Him faithfully to supply every need. That is what He promised to do (Philippians 4:19).

He Is With Us in Loneliness.

I want you to meet a lonely woman. Hagar was a slave, uprooted from her home in Egypt and taken to be the handmaid of Abraham’s wife, Sarah. She had gotten pregnant by Abraham at Sarah’s suggestion, and the resultant situation had brought such tension and turmoil to their household that she finally ran away to the wilder­ness—unloved, unwanted, pregnant, and absolutely alone in a strange land, the victim of someone else’s sin.

That was when the Lord appeared to her with tender words of encouragement and advice, and she called His name El Roi, the God who sees (Genesis 16:13). She had come to the comforting realization that God was right there with her, that He saw her in her loneliness, and that He cared. Ezekiel called Him Jehovah‑Shammah, the Lord who is there (Ezekiel 48:35).

He is the same God today. He sees us in our loneliness and offers us words of encouragement and advice. He is the God who is there, and He still cares. Most of us prefer a warm body near us when we are lonely, a hand we can touch, and a voice we can hear. God may provide that for us in His perfect time. But meanwhile, He is with us, and the very fact that we are physically alone can make His presence more precious than it would be if there were people around us. To believe that He is with us can help to dispel the aching loneliness.

Hope (looking with courage to the future) prevents us from clinging to what we have and frees us to move away from the safe place and enter unknown and fearful territory. [1]

He Is With Us Through Difficult Service.

Many godly people in Scripture faced tasks which they believed were beyond them, but the confidence to carry on came through the assurance of God’s presence. For example, when Moses was called by God to return to Egypt and deliver the people from bondage, he shuddered at the enormity of the task. When he tried to beg off, God said, “Certainly I will be with you” (Exodus 3:12). That was just the encouragement he needed to go on.

After the nation’s sin with the golden calf, God told Moses to lead the people on to their promised land. But he was afraid to go until the promise was reaffirmed. Finally it was: “My presence shall go with you, and I will give you rest” (Exodus 33:14).

The promise of God’s presence was the inspi­ration he needed to do the job he was called to do.

When Joshua took over the leadership of the nation after Moses’ death, he struggled with the same lack of confidence. But God was right there to encourage him: “No man will be able to stand before you all the days of your life. Just as I have been with Moses, I will be with you; I will not fail you or forsake you” (Joshua 1:5). “Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous! Do not tremble or be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go” (verse 9). If God would be with him, he could conquer the land against insuperable odds.

When our Lord’s disciples heard His commission to make disciples of all nations, they must have trembled at the vast­ness of what they were being asked to do until the Lord added, “And lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age” (Matthew 28:20). That would make all the difference in the world.

He Is With Us in Danger.

 The Apostle Paul faced many dangerous situations in the course of his apostolic ministry, one of which was in Corinth. The Jews there were disturbed at the great numbers of people turning to Christ and the situation seemed to be as potentially explosive as a barrel of TNT beside a campfire.

Paul seriously considered leaving. “And the Lord said to Paul in the night by a vision, ‘Do not be afraid any longer, but go on speaking and do not be silent; for I am with you, and no man will attack you in order to harm you, for I have many people in this city’” (Acts 18:9‑10). The key to Paul’s courage was in those words, “I am with you.”

God said much the same thing to the tiny nation Israel when she was surrounded by giant world powers which threat­ened to destroy her. Do not fear, for I am with you; Do not anxiously look about you, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, surely I will help you, Surely I will uphold you with My righteous right hand (Isaiah 41:10).

That is also His promise to us. There is nothing to fear for the child of God. He is present in all the places people sometimes fear. He is on that airplane, in that elevator, in that cramped room, on those high places, in that wild animal infested jungle, in that new and strange situation with people we do not know, in that operating room during delicate surgery, in the recovery room where the pain and discomfort are fierce.

Why should we fear anything when God is there? The Psalm­ist put it so beautifully: God is our refuge and strength, A very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change, And though the mountains slip into the heart of the sea (Psalm 46:1‑2).

He Is With Us in Death.

Death is the ultimate source of fear and anxiety for many people. But again, God is right there with us.

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death,

I fear no evil; for Thou art with me; 

Thy rod and Thy staff, they comfort me (Psalm 23:4).

When we face the death of a loved one, this thought brings greater consolation than all the well intentioned words of our human friends put together: God is with us. And when we face our own departure from this earthly scene there is no reason for alarm. God will accompany us right into Heaven’s glory.

Sometime ago someone handed me this interesting account: I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord and across the sky flashed scenes from my life. For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand, one belonging to me, the other to the Lord. When the last scene of my life flashed before me, I looked back at the footprints in the sand. I noticed that many times along the path of my life there was only one set of footprints. I also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times in my life.

I questioned the Lord about it. “Lord, You said that once I decided to follow You, You would walk with me all the way. But I have noticed that during the most troublesome times in my life, there is only one set of footprints. I don’t understand why in times when I needed You most, You would leave.” The Lord replied, “My precious child, I would never leave you during your times of trial and suffering. When you see only one set of footprints, it was then I carried you.”

What more can we ask? Wherever we go, whatever we face, our omnipresent Lord is with us. Ignore Him no longer. Let Him be part of every situation and circumstance. The awareness of His presence will add an exciting new dimen­sion to the quality of your life and to the confidence you enjoy in living.

Let me repeat an earlier point for emphasis and application here: Knowing this fact about God’s omnipresence is sufficient to give me the courage, confidence, and comfort I need to be courageous each day I have upon this earth, “…because God has said, “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.”

Tim Hansel reminds us that “the Bible is a first-hand story of goose-bump courage in very ordinary people who were invaded by the living God.”

Faith and Courage

If there are two words that should be said in the same breath and said regularly to ventilate our hope, that should be flamed together, branded as a signature of our faith, they are the words “faith” and “courage.”  It takes courage to believe, and in order to have that courage, we must believe.

From time to time, lobsters have to leave their shells in order to grow. They need the shell to protect them from being torn apart, yet when they grow, the old shell must be abandoned. If they did not abandon it, the old shell would soon become their prison–and finally their casket.

The tricky part for the lobster is the brief period of time between when the old shell is discarded and the new one is formed. During that terribly vulnerable period, the transition must be scary to the lobster. Currents gleefully cartwheel them from coral to kelp. Hungry schools of fish are ready to make them a part of the food chain. For awhile at least, that old shell must look pretty good.

We are not so different from lobsters. To change and grow, we must sometimes shed our shells–a structure, a framework–we’ve depended on. Discipleship means being so committed to Christ that when he bids us to follow, we will change, risk, grow, and leave our “shells” behind. [2]

In A Pretty Good Person, Lewis Smedes writes:  A federal judge had ordered New Orleans to open its public schools to African-American children, and the white parents decided that if they had to let black children in, they would keep their children out. They let it be known that any black children who came to school would be in for trouble. So the black children stayed home too.

“Except Ruby Bridges. Her parents sent her to school all by herself, six years old.

“Every morning she walked alone through a heckling crowd to an empty school. White people lined up on both sides of the way and shook their fists at her. They threatened to do terrible things to her if she kept coming to their school. But every morning at ten minutes to eight Ruby walked, head up, eyes ahead, straight through the mob; two U.S. marshals walked ahead of her and two walked behind her. Then she spent the day alone with her teachers inside that big silent school building.

“Harvard professor Robert Coles was curious about what went into the making of courageous children like Ruby Bridges. He talked to Ruby’s mother and, in his book The Moral Life of Children, tells what she said: “There’s a lot of people who talk about doing good, and a lot of people who argue about what’s good and what’s not good,” but there are other folks who “just put their lives on the line for what’s right.” [3]

Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though checkered by failure, than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy much nor suffer much, because they live in the gray twilight that knows not victory or defeat. [4]

The only fight which is lost is that which we give up. [5]

In June l955, Winston Churchill, who was then near the end of his life, was asked to give a commencement address at a British University.  At this time he was physically infirm; he had to be helped to the podium.  Then he held on to the podium for what seemed an interminable amount of time.  He stood with his head down but then finally raised that great leonine head of his, and the voice that years before had called Britain back from the brink of destruction sounded publicly for the last time in history.

“Never give up.  Never give up.  Never give up.”  With that, Churchill turned and went back to his seat.  I’m told there was silence, and then, as if one person, the whole audience rose to applaud him, because he was a man whose life and words were together. Again and again throughout Churchill’s political career, he had known setbacks.  Three times, his career apparently was over, he was sent off to oblivion, and yet somehow he had a sense that there was still something left after the worst. [6]

Fear doesn’t want you to make the journey to the mountain. If he can rattle you enough, fear will persuade you to take your eyes off the peaks and settle for a dull existence in the flatlands. [7]

Henry Ward Beecher is credit as saying that “God planted fear in the soul as truly as he planted hope or courage. It is a kind of bell or gong which rings the mind into quick life on the approach of danger. It is the soul’s signal for rallying.“

Once you’ve faced the very thing you fear the most, it is no longer quite so fearful. [8]

Words can never adequately convey the incredible impact of our attitude toward life. The longer I live the more convinced I become that life is 10 percent what happens to us and 90 percent how we respond to it.

Being positive is part of being a hero–maybe the hardest part, because if you are a hero you’re smart enough to know all the reasons why you should be discouraged.

The best decision-makers are those who are willing to suffer the most over their decisions but still retain their ability to be decisive.

Maybe we need the confidence of Alexander McClaren, who courageously replied, “Only he who can say, “The Lord is the strength of my life,” can say, “Of whom shall I be afraid?”

During World War I, a British commander was preparing to lead his soldiers back to battle. They’d been on furlough, and it was a cold, rainy, muddy day. Their shoulders sagged because they knew what lay ahead of them: mud, blood, possible death. Nobody talked, nobody sang. It was a heavy time.

As they marched along, the commander looked into a bombed-out church. Back in the church he saw the figure of Christ on the cross. At that moment, something happened to the commander. He remembered the One who suffered, died, and rose again. There was victory, and there was triumph.

As the troops marched along, he shouted out, “Eyes right, march!” Every eye turned to the right, and as the soldiers marched by, they saw Christ on the cross. Something happened to that company of men. Suddenly they saw triumph after suffering, and they took courage. With shoulders straightened, they began to smile as they went. You see, anything worthwhile in life will be a risk that demands courage. [9]

We certainly want to avoid the charge being leveled toward us that we were neutral at a crucial point of our life. Dante said in the 13th century that “the hottest places in hell are reserved for those who, in a period of moral crisis, maintain their neutrality. “

Today our culture is far less likely to raise up heroes than it is to exalt victims, individuals who are overcome by the sting of oppression, injustice, adversity, neglect or misfortune. … Success, as well as failure, is the result of one’s own talent, decisions and actions. Accepting personal responsibility for victory, as well as for defeat, is as liberating and empowering as it is unpopular today.

Ed was a motion picture producer who had finished his most recent film. During the next year as every independent film producer does, he had been working hard to try to sell his picture to one of the majors.  Being unsuccessful in his attempts to sell the majors, he had then approached many of the minor motion picture distribution companies.  He had finally aroused some interest in a smaller motion picture distribution company and had arranged for a showing of his picture to their top executives.

At the conclusion of the showing, the president of the motion picture distribution company turned to Ed and said, “There is nothing particularly wrong with your picture.  The story is all right, the quality is fine, the acting is acceptable, but if it is going to be a money maker there are three changes that need to be made.  There are three different locations in your film where we need to add sex scenes so that the picture will have some kind of box office appeal.  With the addition of these three scenes, we can assure you of a million dollars in profit for your share of what this picture will gross when released by us.”

Ed needed to make a sale badly because of the current conditions in his own company, but he responded by saying, “Thank you for looking at my film.  I appreciate your taking time to consider this as one of your projects for distribution, but I am sorry that we will not be able to make the changes that you have suggested.”  Ed knew to whom to say “No.”

He had the courage to act on his convictions.

However, taking a stand against the crowd is not easy. This is a struggle that exposes our strength or weakness. In past years South Africa was a climate of racism and black men often suffer humiliation from white inhabitants.  A Bantu was sent to the theater to get tickets for his  white employer.  There was a single line and upon inquiry he was told to get in the white man’s line although in South Africa this is forbidden. Suddenly a black haired youth elbowed him out of line.  This haughty action was followed by similar actions of a teenage girl.  Then a real bull of a man with closely cropped hair seized the native and hurled him into the street.  The theater manager told him to get back in line, but again he was thrown out. Then a voice sounded clear above the rumble of the complaints.  A man of about fifty, with whitened temples and in the open neck attire of a farmer, shouted with a voice ringing with threat and authority,  “Let this fellow in. What’s the matter with you?”  The crowd cowered and the lowly native was placed in front.

The South African farmer risked his reputation and the crowds disapproval, but he stood firm.  This is goodness.  And, it costs. Contrast this with the Indiana teenagers arrested for shoplifting.  They admitted they did not need the merchandise, but stole it because everybody was doing it.  Investigation revealed they did not feel they had done wrong since the crowd had placed a sanction on it.

I have always appreciated the ‘dry bones’ message of Ezekiel 36-37, when God revealed His plans for the deliverance of Israel and the restoration of His name among the nations. His motives were clear: “It is not for your sake, O house of Israel, that I am going to do these things, but for the sake of my holy name, which you have profaned among the nations where you have gone….’For I will take you out of the nations; I will gather you from all the countries and bring you back into your own land….I will sprinkle clean water on you, and you will be clean; I will cleanse you from all your impurities and from all your idols. I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.”

“You will live in the land I gave your forefathers; you will be my people, and I will be your God.  I will save you from all your uncleanness. I will call for the grain and make it plentiful and will not bring famine upon you. I will increase the fruit of the trees and the crops of the field, so that you will no longer suffer disgrace among the nations because of famine. Then you will remember your evil ways and wicked deeds, and you will loathe yourselves for your sins and detestable practices.”

(Ezekiel 37:1-14)  “The hand of the LORD was upon me, and he brought me out by the Spirit of the LORD and set me in the middle of a valley; it was full of bones. {2} He led me back and forth among them, and I saw a great many bones on the floor of the valley, bones that were very dry. {3} He asked me, “Son of man, can these bones live?” I said, “O Sovereign LORD, you alone know.” {4} Then he said to me, “Prophesy to these bones and say to them, ‘Dry bones, hear the word of the LORD! {5} This is what the Sovereign LORD says to these bones: I will make breath enter you, and you will come to life. {6} I will attach tendons to you and make flesh come upon you and cover you with skin; I will put breath in you, and you will come to life. Then you will know that I am the LORD.'” {7} So I prophesied as I was commanded. And as I was prophesying, there was a noise, a rattling sound, and the bones came together, bone to bone. {8} I looked, and tendons and flesh appeared on them and skin covered them, but there was no breath in them. {9} Then he said to me, “Prophesy to the breath; prophesy, son of man, and say to it, ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: Come from the four winds, O breath, and breathe into these slain, that they may live.'” {10} So I prophesied as he commanded me, and breath entered them; they came to life and stood up on their feet–a vast army. {11} Then he said to me: “Son of man, these bones are the whole house of Israel. They say, ‘Our bones are dried up and our hope is gone; we are cut off.’ {12} Therefore prophesy and say to them: ‘This is what the Sovereign LORD says: O my people, I am going to open your graves and bring you up from them; I will bring you back to the land of Israel. {13} Then you, my people, will know that I am the LORD, when I open your graves and bring you up from them. {14} I will put my Spirit in you and you will live, and I will settle you in your own land. Then you will know that I the LORD have spoken, and I have done it, declares the LORD.'””

God revealed His power and might, and the reality that literally nothing is outside of His control; He can do what He wills when He wants! He needs us to realize this and be willing participants! He who loves God with all his heart dreads neither death, torment, judgment, nor hell, for perfect love opens a sure passage to God.

In the midst of a storm, a little bird was clinging to the limb of a tree, seemingly calm and unafraid. As the wind tore at the limbs of the tree, the bird continued to look the storm in the face, as if to say, “Shake me off; I still have wings.”

Hope prevents us from clinging to what we have and frees us to move away from the safe place and enter unknown and fearful territory. The only fight which is lost is that which we give up. We must be careful for nothing, prayerful for everything, thankful for anything.

We must have plenty of courage. God is stronger than the devil. We are on the winning side. Success is never final; failure is never fatal; it is courage that counts. The great need for anyone in authority is courage. Courage is almost a contradiction in terms:  it means a strong desire to live taking the form of readiness to die.

Courage is not limited to the battlefield or the Indianapolis 500 or bravely catching a thief in your house. The real tests of courage are much deeper and much quieter. They are the inner tests, like remaining faithful when nobody’s looking, like enduring pain when the room is empty, like standing alone when you’re misunderstood

A sailor was given liberty to go ashore when his ship docked at a large southwestern American city.  He visited a park famous for its trees and tropical flowers. As he walked across an open grassy sunlit area, he noticed bees flying all around him.  Suddenly, all the bees began to settle upon him. They were all over his clothes, his hands, and his face. Panic gripped him, and though he wanted to run in fear, he forced himself to stand stock still. There were hundreds, maybe thousands, of bees all over him.  He hardly dared to breathe. “Look at that sailor,” he heard a woman’s voice say. After what seemed an eternity to the sailor, slowly the bees departed one by one until they were all gone.  His uniform was soaked with perspiration, but he had not been stung once. Sometimes it is better to stand stock still in the midst of danger than to run in panic and fear and possibly to bring about the very end one wishes to avoid. Scripture says,  “”Whoever flees from the terror will fall into a pit, whoever climbs out of the pit will be caught in a snare; for I will bring upon Moab the year of her punishment,” declares the LORD.” (Jeremiah 48:44)

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[1] Henri J. Nouwen in The Wounded Healer.  Christianity Today, Vol. 40, no. 13.

[2] Brent Mitchell in Fresh Illustrations for Preaching & Teaching (Baker) from the editors of Leadership.

[3] Bob Campbell in Fresh Illustrations for Preaching & Teaching (Baker), from the editors of Leadership.

[4] Theodore Roosevelt, Marriage Partnership, Vol. 7, no. 3.

[5] Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Christian History, no. 32.

[6] John Claypool, Birmingham, Alabama, Leadership, Vol. 12, no. 2.

[7] Max Lucado, Christian Reader, Vol. 32, no. 3.

[8] Ruth Senter, Christian Reader, Vol. 32, no. 2.

[9] Gordon Johnson, “Finding Significance in Obscurity,” Preaching Today, Tape No. 82.

 
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Powerful in prayer…the activity which we call prayer is, without a doubt, the very heart of religion


That which distinguishes a deeply religious person from all other people is the fact that he has a definite place in his life for prayer. Prayer is a definite part of his life. And is should be the case, because there is not in the world a kind of life more sweet and delightful than that of a continual conversation with God.

We are not told that Jesus ever taught His disciples how to preach, but He taught them how to pray. He wanted them to have power with God; then He knew they would have power with man.

GDreading TJ readingPrayer is a form of communication between God and man and man and God. It is of the essence of communication between persons that they should talk with each other from the same basic agenda. Wherever this is not done, communication tends to break down. If, however, an atmosphere of trust can be maintained, then one learns how to wait and be still. It is instructive to examine the prayer life of the Master from this point of view.[1]

Prayer is much like a check to be countersigned by two parties. I sign the check and send it up to heaven. If Jesus Christ also signs it, it does not matter how large it is — it’ll be honored.

Abraham Lincoln faced some of our nation’s most difficult situation with prayer, stating that “I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere else to go.”

The trouble with many who pray is that he/she says “Amen” and runs away before God has a chance to reply.

God wants us to communicate with Him because He has a great plan for our lives. For us to fulfill that plan, we have to hear what He’s saying and what He’s calling us to do. Prayer sometimes consists of sitting down and just being quiet and listening.

   You know how people say, “Don’t just stand there, do something”? I believe God is telling us, “Don’t just do something, stand there.” God wants us to be quiet sometimes and just meditate. We have to listen before we can learn and obey.

There come times in our lives when we in our desperation and pain run to God and dial our 911 prayers. Sometimes we’re hysterical. Sometimes we don’t know the words to speak. But God hears. He knows our number and he knows our name and he knows our circumstance. That help is already on the way; God has already begun to bring the remedy to us.[2]

Since September 11, 2001, when those Twin Towers were destroyed by terrorists in New York City, our country has been more accommodating to the ‘idea’ of prayer as opposed to the secular attitude of many of our citizens. Even our politicians have been seen to turn to prayer in a way unlike recent years.

But there is a natural cynicism in wondering if their actions are truly genuine, reminding me of an Indiana farmer who took his family to the nation’s capital to see how their government worked.  After visiting the House of Representatives, they went to the Senate gallery, where the chaplain of the Senate was speaking.

 Daddy,” asked the farmer’s ten-year-old daughter, “does the chaplain pray for the Senate?”

“No,” said the farmer.  “He comes in, looks at the Senators, and then prays for the country.”[3]

Many are unaware that the Declaration of Independence did not come into being until a day of fasting and prayer had been observed. Appointed by the Continental Congress, it was kept by all the colonies on May 17, 1776. At that time in our history, God and the Bible were given more reverence and recognition than they are today. When the nation was finally born, our forefathers rang the Liberty Bell with great enthusiasm, and a legend says that it cracked as they zealously proclaimed their freedom. Years later the White Chapel Foundry of London offered to recast the huge carillon, but their proposal was of course refused. Apparently the symbolic value of the damaged bell, which recalls the religious and patriotic fervor of those early days, is something that America still wishes to preserve.

This in itself is good; but in view of our nation’s moral decline, the crack may also suggest a break in our basic ideals and a serious defect in our spiritual attitudes. We can remedy the situation and avert the judgment of the Lord only by repentance, prayer, and a return to the faith of our fathers. In this sense, there is no time for delay in “mending the bell.”

These words have a profound historical significance: “Almighty God, we acknowledge our dependence upon thee, and we beg thy blessings upon us, our teachers and our country.” This was the voluntary prayer the U.S. Supreme Court found violated the establishment clause of the Constitution in 1962 in Engel vs. Vitale. It reasoned that if this prayer was allowed, it would be a step toward establishment of a state-sponsored religion. The absurdity of this reasoning is self-evident.

The end of the Declaration of Independence provides: “with a firm reliance of the protection of divine providence….” At the opening of each day’s session of the Supreme Court the crier states: “God save the United States and this honorable court.” In 1952 the U.S. Supreme Court stated in Zorach vs. Clauson: “We are a religious people whose institutions presuppose a supreme being.” Carved above the entrance to the Supreme Court is: “In God we Trust.”

There are some of us within the legal system who desperately oppose the Supreme Court on this point and support those who courageously seek to change the law. Our children deserve better than the current moral anarchy.

Prayer is not overcoming God’s reluctance; it is adjusting to God’s willingness. God never sleeps, so He is never disturbed when we approach Him. God does not answer our much praying in order to get rid of us, but because He loves us.

Howard Hendricks tells of a church in Dallas a few years ago having trouble finding a teacher for a junior high boys class: “The list of prospects had only one name and when they told me who it was I said, “You’ve got to be kidding.” But I couldn’t have been more wrong about that young man. He took the class and revolutionized it.

“I was so impressed I invited him to my home for lunch and asked him the secret of his success. He pulled out a little black book. On each page he had a small picture of one of the boys, and under the boy’s name were comments like “having trouble in arithmetic,” or “comes to church against parents’ wishes,” or “would like to be a missionary some day, but doesn’t think he has what it takes.”

  “I pray over those pages every day,” he said, “and I can hardly wait to come to church each Sunday to see what God has been doing in their lives.”

Prayer does not fit us for the greater works; prayer is the greater work. Prayer . . . really is a silent surrendering of everything to God because it is not quite clear to us how we should pray.

What type things might we pray about? Pray for a tough hide and a tender heart. We might ask the lord to grant us a peaceful night and a perfect death.  The best prayers have often been more groans than words.

Benjamin Franklin suggested that we “Work as if you were to live a hundred years; pray as if you were to die tomorrow.”

There are days when we can bring before God a deep and glad laughter of joy and gratitude. There will be other days when we can only muster a bitter, angry complaint. If it is honest, be confident that God will accept whatever it is we truly have to lift up before him, and he will make it serve his purpose and our good.[4]

F.B. Meyer offered that “the great tragedy of life is not unanswered prayer, but unoffered prayer.”

A 17-century Roman Catholic Frenchman named Francois Fenelon wrote, “Tell God all that is in your heart, as one unloads one’s heart, its pleasures and its pains, to a dear friend. Tell Him your troubles, that He may comfort you; tell Him your joys, that He may sober them; tell Him your longings, that He may purify them; tell Him your dislikes, that He may help you to conquer them, talk to Him of your temptations, that He may shield you from them; show Him the wounds of your heart, that He may heal them; lay bare your indifference to good, your depraved tastes for evil, your instability. Tell Him how self-love makes you unjust to others, how vanity tempts you to be insincere, how pride disguises you to yourself and to others.

“If you thus pour out all your weaknesses, needs, troubles, there will be no lack of what to say. You will never exhaust the subject. It is continually being renewed. People who have no secrets from each other never want for subjects of conversation. They do not weigh their words, for there is nothing to be held back, neither do they seek for something to say. They talk out of the abundance of the heart, without consideration they say just what they think. Blessed are they who attain to such familiar, unreserved intercourse with God.”

According to a poll on prayer for Newsweek in 1997, the following percentage said:

They ask for health or success for a child or family member when they pray — 82

They ask for strength to overcome a personal weakness — 75

They never ask for financial or career success —  36

The following percentages stated their beliefs about the prospects of prayer:

God answers prayers — 87

God doesn’t answer prayers —  51

They believe God does not play favorites in answering prayers — 82

God answers prayers for healing someone with an incurable disease — 79

Prayers for help in finding a job are answered —  73

They believe that when God doesn’t answer their prayers, it means it wasn’t God’s will to answer — 54

They don’t turn away from God when prayers go unanswered   —  82

According to researchers James Petterson and Peter Kim in their book, The Day America Told the Truth:  What People Really Believe about Everything that Really Matters, God is alive and well. But fewer people are listening to what He has to say than ever before. While 90 percent of those questioned by the authors said they believe in God, few turn to Him when they face a moral issue.

If Petterson and Kim are right — and other research results confirm America’s spiritual drift — then it’s no wonder that those willing to do right often seem few and maligned.

Prayer is not a stratagem for occasional use, a refuge to resort to now and then. It is rather like an established residence for the innermost self. All things have a home; the bird has a nest, the fox has a hole, the bee has a hive. A soul without prayer is a soul without a home.

Weary, sobbing, the soul, after roaming through a world festered with aimlessness, falsehoods, and absurdities, seeks a moment in which to gather up its scattered life, in which to divest itself of enforced pretensions and camouflage, in which to simplify complexities, in which to call for help without being a coward. Such a home is prayer.[5]

R.A. Torrey offers the following prescription that will bring revival — revival to any church, or community, or any city on earth. First: Let few Christians get thoroughly right with God. If this is not done, the rest will come to nothing. Second: Let them bind themselves together to pray for revival until God opens the windows of heaven and comes down. Third: Let them put themselves at the disposal of God for His use as He sees fit in winning others to Christ. That is all. I have given this prescription around the world… and in no instance has it failed. It cannot fail.

He also is credit with stating that “If all the sleeping folk will wake up, if all the lukewarm folk will fire up, if all the dishonest folk will confess up, if all the disgruntled folk will cheer up, if all the depressed folk will cheer up, if all the estranged folk will make up, if all the gossipers will shut up, if all true soldiers will stand up, if all the dry bones will shake up, if all the church members will pray up…then we can have a revival!”

The Untimely Death of Mrs. Prayer Meeting!

We are sorry to announce the passing of Mrs. Prayer Meeting. She died recently at the First Neglected Church on Ho-Hum Avenue. Born many years ago in the midst of a great revival, she was strong and healthy as a child, fed largely on testimony and Bible study she grew into world-wide prominence and was one of the most influential members of the Church family.

However, in recent years Sister Prayer Meeting has been failing in health, gradually wasting away until rendered helpless by stiffness of the knees, cooling of the heart, lack of spiritual sensitivity and the concern for spiritual things. Her last whispered words were inquiring about the strange absence of her loved ones, now so busy in the market place and places of wordly amusement on Wednesday evenings!

Experts, including Dr. Good Works, Dr. Socializing and Dr. Unconcerned disagree as to the fatal cause of her final illness. They all administered large doses of excuses, even ordered a last minute motivational bypass, all to no avail. A post-mortem examination showed that a deficiency of regular spiritual food, a lack of prayer and Christian fellowship, all contributed to her untimely demise.

The following prayer might be a good way to begin each and every day: I arise today through God’s strength to direct me, God’s might to uphold me, God’s wisdom to guide me, God’s eye to look before, God’s ear to hear me, God’s word to speak to me, God’s hand to guard me, God’s way to lie before me, God’s shield to protect me, God’s hosts to save me from snares of devils. From temptation of vices, From everyone who shall wish me ill, Afar and near, Alone and in a multitude.[6]

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[1] Howard Thurman in A Strange Freedom. Christianity Today, Vol. 43, no. 5.

[2] Leith Anderson, Men of Integrity, Vol. 2, no. 2.

[3] From Quote Magazine, reprinted in Reader’s Digest, March 1992, p. 50

[4] Gardner Taylor, quoted in Reflections,  Christianity Today, Vol. 45, no. 2.

[5] Abraham Joshua Heschel in Moral Grandeur and Spiritual Audacity.  Christianity Today, Vol. 42, no. 5.

[6] Attributed to St. Patrick, from “The Deer’s Cry” (St. Patrick’s Breastplate), translated by Kuno Meyer, quoted in “Reflections,” Christianity Today, Vol. 44, no. 13.

 
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