RSS

Author Archives: Gary Davenport

Unknown's avatar

About Gary Davenport

Christian man, husband, father, father-in-law, and granddaddy

Results of the first Vietnam War draft lottery held December 1, 1969


RESULTS OF THE FIRST VIETNAM WAR DRAFT LOTTERY HELD DECEMBER 1, 1969

The highest number drafted in this group of men was 195. My number, based on my birthday, was 38, which meant I would definitely be drafted when I either left college or graduated (which I did in the summer 1972, from Middle Tennessee State University in Murfreesboro, Tennessee). I eventually served some 18 months as a conscientious objector in Chattanooga, Tennessee).

On December 1, 1969, the Selective Service System of the United States conducted two lotteries to determine the order of call to military service in the Vietnam War for men born from 1944 to 1950. These lotteries occurred during “the draft”—a period of conscription, controlled by the President, from just before World War II to 1973.

The lottery numbers assigned in December 1969 were used during calendar year 1970 both to call for induction and to call for physical examination, a preliminary call covering more men.

 

JANUARY FEBRUARY MARCH
Jan 1    305 Feb 1    86 Mar 1    108
Jan 2    159 Feb 2    144 Mar 2    29
Jan 3    251 Feb 3    297 Mar 3    267
Jan 4    215 Feb 4    210 Mar 4    275
Jan 5    101 Feb 5    214 Mar 5    293
Jan 6    224 Feb 6    347 Mar 6    139
Jan 7    306 Feb 7    91 Mar 7    122
Jan 8    199 Feb 8    181 Mar 8    213
Jan 9    194 Feb 9    338 Mar 9    317
Jan 10   325 Feb 10   216 Mar 10   323
Jan 11   329 Feb 11   150 Mar 11   136
Jan 12   221 Feb 12   68 Mar 12   300
Jan 13   318 Feb 13   152 Mar 13   259
Jan 14   238 Feb 14   4 Mar 14   354

 

Jan 15   17 Feb 15   89 Mar 15   169
Jan 16   121 Feb 16   212 Mar 16   166
Jan 17   235 Feb 17   189 Mar 17   33
Jan 18   140 Feb 18   292 Mar 18   332
Jan 19   58 Feb 19   25 Mar 19   200
Jan 20   280 Feb 20   302 Mar 20   239
Jan 21   186 Feb 21   363 Mar 21   334
Jan 22   337 Feb 22   290 Mar 22   265
Jan 23   118 Feb 23   57 Mar 23   256
Jan 24   59 Feb 24   236 Mar 24   258
Jan 25   52 Feb 25   179 Mar 25   343
Jan 26   92 Feb 26   365 Mar 26   170
Jan 27   355 Feb 27   205 Mar 27   268
Jan 28   77 Feb 28   299 Mar 28   223
Jan 29   349 Feb 29   285 Mar 29   362
Jan 30   164   Mar 30   217
Jan 31   211   Mar 31   30

 

APRIL MAY JUNE
Apr 1    32 May 1    330 Jun 1    249
Apr 2    271 May 2    298 Jun 2    228
Apr 3    83 May 3    40 Jun 3    301
Apr 4    81 May 4    276 Jun 4    20
Apr 5    269 May 5    364 Jun 5    28
Apr 6    253 May 6    155 Jun 6    110
Apr 7    147 May 7    35 Jun 7    85
Apr 8    312 May 8    321 Jun 8    366
Apr 9    219 May 9    197 Jun 9    335
Apr 10   218 May 10   65 Jun 10   206
Apr 11   14 May 11   37 Jun 11   134
Apr 12   346 May 12   133 Jun 12   272
Apr 13   124 May 13   295 Jun 13   69
Apr 14   231 May 14   178 Jun 14   356

 

Apr 15   273 May 15   130 Jun 15   180
Apr 16   148 May 16   55 Jun 16   274
Apr 17   260 May 17   112 Jun 17   73
Apr 18   90 May 18   278 Jun 18   341
Apr 19   336 May 19   75 Jun 19   104
Apr 20   345 May 20   183 Jun 20   360
Apr 21   62 May 21   250 Jun 21   60
Apr 22   316 May 22   326 Jun 22   247
Apr 23   252 May 23   319 Jun 23   109
Apr 24   2 May 24   31 Jun 24   358
Apr 25   351 May 25   361 Jun 25   137
Apr 26   340 May 26   357 Jun 26   22
Apr 27   74 May 27   296 Jun 27   64
Apr 28   262 May 28   308 Jun 28   222
Apr 29   191 May 29   226 Jun 29   353
Apr 30   208 May 30   103 Jun 30   209
  May 31   313  

 

JULY AUGUST SEPTEMBER
Jul 1    93 Aug 1    111 Sep 1    225
Jul 2   350 Aug 2    45 Sep 2    161
Jul 3   115 Aug 3    261 Sep 3    49
Jul 4    279 Aug 4    145 Sep 4    232
Jul 5    188 Aug 5    54 Sep 5    82
Jul 6    327 Aug 6    114 Sep 6    6
Jul 7    50 Aug 7    168 Sep 7    8
Jul 8    13 Aug 8    48 Sep 8    184
Jul 9    277 Aug 9    106 Sep 9    263
Jul 10   284 Aug 10   21 Sep 10   71
Jul 11   248 Aug 11   324 Sep 11   158
Jul 12   15 Aug 12   142 Sep 12   242
Jul 13   42 Aug 13   307 Sep 13   175
Jul 14   331 Aug 14   198 Sep 14   1

 

Jul 15   322 Aug 15   102 Sep 15   113
Jul 16   120 Aug 16   44 Sep 16   207
Jul 17   98 Aug 17   154 Sep 17   255
Jul 18   190 Aug 18   141 Sep 18   246
Jul 19   227 Aug 19   311 Sep 19   177
Jul 20   187 Aug 20   344 Sep 20   63
Jul 21   27 Aug 21   291 Sep 21   204
Jul 22   153 Aug 22   339 Sep 22   160
Jul 23   172 Aug 23   116 Sep 23   119
Jul 24   23 Aug 24   36 Sep 24   195
Jul 25   67 Aug 25   286 Sep 25   149
Jul 26   303 Aug 26   245 Sep 26   18
Jul 27   289 Aug 27   352 Sep 27   233
Jul 28   88 Aug 28   167 Sep 28   257
Jul 29   270 Aug 29   61 Sep 29   151
Jul 30   287 Aug 30   333 Sep 30   315
Jul 31   193 Aug 31   11  

 

OCTOBER NOVEMBER DECEMBER
Oct 1    359 Nov 1    19 Dec 1    129
Oct 2    125 Nov 2    34 Dec 2    328
Oct 3    244 Nov 3    348 Dec 3    157
Oct 4    202 Nov 4    266 Dec 4    165
Oct 5    24 Nov 5    310 Dec 5    56
Oct 6    87 Nov 6    76 Dec 6    10
Oct 7    234 Nov 7    51 Dec 7    12
Oct 8    283 Nov 8    97 Dec 8    105
Oct 9    342 Nov 9    80 Dec 9    43
Oct 10   220 Nov 10   282 Dec 10   41
Oct 11   237 Nov 11   46 Dec 11   39
Oct 12   72 Nov 12   66 Dec 12   314
Oct 13   138 Nov 13   126 Dec 13   163
Oct 14   294 Nov 14   127 Dec 14   26

 

Oct 15   171 Nov 15   131 Dec 15   320
Oct 16   254 Nov 16   107 Dec 16   96
Oct 17   288 Nov 17   143 Dec 17   304
Oct 18   5 Nov 18   146 Dec 18   128
Oct 19   241 Nov 19   203 Dec 19   240
Oct 20   192 Nov 20   185 Dec 20   135
Oct 21   243 Nov 21   156 Dec 21   70
Oct 22   117 Nov 22   9 Dec 22   53
Oct 23   201 Nov 23   182 Dec 23   162
Oct 24   196 Nov 24   230 Dec 24   95
Oct 25   176 Nov 25   132 Dec 25   84
Oct 26   7 Nov 26   309 Dec 26   173
Oct 27   264 Nov 27   47 Dec 27   78
Oct 28   94 Nov 28   281 Dec 28   123
Oct 29   229 Nov 29   99 Dec 29   16
Oct 30   38 Nov 30   174 Dec 30   3
Oct 31   79   Dec 31   100

 

 

 
1 Comment

Posted by on January 12, 2016 in Sermon

 

Words To Live By Series: #2 Get Your Priorities Straight


prioritiesPowerpoint: Get Priorities Straight

There’s not a lot to brag about when it comes to flying on Southwest Airlines. The planes are high mileage. There’s in flight service is basic. Forget about movies and in-flight radio. There’s no formality. The flight crew is super-casual. You typically fly into the older, less used airports. Southwest is all about no frills bargains. It’s the Wal-Mart of airlines.

But Southwest Airlines has a way of making me feel great about flying on their planes. After the plane lands, a flight attendant grabs the mike and after announcing all the gates for connecting flights she will say, “We hope you enjoyed your flight today. We know that you have choices when you travel and we thank you for choosing Southwest Airlines.”

Southwest Airlines may not give me the greatest airline snacks, but they recognize that I have the power to choose and they respect that. They make me feel good for choosing them instead of Delta or American. Southwest knows that I am a customer and they are so thankful and appreciative of me.

Some suggest that perhaps God could learn a lesson from Southwest Airlines. You see, God has always been in competition with other gods. In ancient times there were dozens of gods to choose from. Really neat gods and goddesses with cool names – they went on adventures and had magic powers.

They say it this way: “well, we’re supposedly enlightened now and grown up past such beliefs. But there are still choices. Today one can choose different types of spirituality. One doesn’t even have to have a god in order to be spiritual. So, God isn’t the only option. God might think about the choices that people have and try to respect that. Maybe he should do more to greet us when we come to worship him and then send us out with a word of thanks saying, “I hope you enjoyed your worship today. I know that you have choices when it comes to a Supreme Being and I thank you for choosing God.”

But God isn’t listening to Southwest or their marketing agents. No, God has the audacity to make the following statement: Exodus 20:1-3 (ESV)  1  And God spoke all these words, saying,  2  “I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery.  3  “You shall have no other gods before me.

How on earth can God make such a statement? People do have choices, right? So why does God have to be so absolute?  There’s a relationship here when God says: I AM the one who delivered you. The Israelites who first heard these words at the base of Mount Sinai, had been slaves for generations in Egypt. God had delivered them from slavery. No other god. No other power.

God was the one who had saved them, fed them, nurtured them, and protected them. God is still delivering people from enslavement. People are enslaved to fear, worry, hatred, addiction, pride, poverty, loneliness, and despair. People are dehumanized and demeaned by oppressive powers of sin. But God is more powerful than the powers. What other God died for us and redeemed us? What other God made us into a people with purpose. What other God brings us hope? Before we ever thought about choosing God – He chose us!

Because of that relationship, there are certain claims established. God is our God and we are his people. It’s like a marriage. You have a choice in who you marry, but once you marry that relationship is exclusive. So God is all-inclusively exclusive. God knows that there are choices. I suppose you can choose another god, but once you choose God, it’s exclusive. Anyone can come to God. God can deliver anyone. But once you enter into the relationship – it’s you and God. It’s us and God. The relationship is established.

This is why the first word in the Ten Words is so important. You have to get the first one right or the others won’t follow. The other nine words don’t have the same effect when they are out of alignment without the first word.

 “You shall have no other gods before Me.” With these words God is commanding an exclusive relationship between Himself and His people. The command instructs Israel that God will not allow His people to have any gods in addition to Himself. The statement is simple and forthright.

First, Israel’s history demonstrates their tendency toward false worship. Israel lived 400 years in Egypt, a nation which had many gods, and the Israelites continued to attempt to worship them. It was for her rejection of God that Israel was sent into captivity.

Second, to have other gods is always to forsake God To my knowledge Israel never meant to reject God altogether by having other gods, but simply to add other gods to those which they would worship. The Old Testament consistently indicates that having any other god or gods always constitutes the forsaking of God. The relationship of the Israelites to her God is like that of a man’s relationship to his wife—it is an exclusive relationship which allows for no others. Thus, turning to other gods is called harlotry and adultery in the Bible.

Third, having other gods is evidence of one’s lack of faith in God. This commandment therefore suggests that once we cease to trust God for every area of our life, we have ceased trusting Him altogether, and have turned to other “gods.”

Ten generations of Jacob’s descendants grew up in Egypt. Although the Israelites maintained a degree of loyalty to the Lord, we would be naive to think they were not influenced by Egyptian culture, morals, and religion. Precisely because there had been some negative influences from their surroundings, they needed powerful assurances at the very beginning of the wilderness experience of the power, authority, and supremacy of their deity. They needed a positive assurance that their God – rather than Pharaoh or the other deities of Egypt – was the one, true God who alone deserved the allegiance and devotion of Israel.

This covenant name of the God of Israel is used for the first time in the text of Scripture:

Exodus 3:13-15 (ESV)  Then Moses said to God, “If I come to the people of Israel and say to them, ‘The God of your fathers has sent me to you,’ and they ask me, ‘What is his name?’ what shall I say to them?”
14  God said to Moses, “I AM WHO I AM.” And he said, “Say this to the people of Israel, ‘I AM has sent me to you.’”
15  God also said to Moses, “Say this to the people of Israel, ‘The LORD, the God of your fathers, the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob, has sent me to you.’ This is my name forever, and thus I am to be remembered throughout all generations.

The name YHWH had probably been used before this occasion but never before with this significance. From the time of the beginning of the Lord’s redemptive work among the Israelites, he was to be known by this personal name.

Exodus 6:2-5 (ESV) 2  God spoke to Moses and said to him, “I am the LORD.
3  I appeared to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, as God Almighty, but by my name the LORD I did not make myself known to them.
4  I also established my covenant with them to give them the land of Canaan, the land in which they lived as sojourners.
5  Moreover, I have heard the groaning of the people of Israel whom the Egyptians hold as slaves, and I have remembered my covenant.

The name means “I am that I am” or “I will be that I will be. ” It announces God’s unchanging character and faithfulness to his word. He is the one who is always the same. He is what he has always been, and he always will be just that!

He is not a fickle God; he is a stable, permanent, self-sufficient, and promise-keeping God. To the Hebrews, the name Yahweh came to be a oneword summary of all heaven’s dealings with them. It is similar to the way Jesus serves as a one-word summary of everything we Christians believe in and that God has done for us by his grace.

Thus, simply because of who he is, God deserves to be enshrined in human hearts and lives. When he brought the Israelites out of bondage by his mighty hand, he began his commandments to them by saying, “Acknowledge me for who I am! Fix the priority in your heart right now that I alone am God, and there is no other who is my rival or who could ever deserve your worship and allegiance!”

The fundamental decision that each of us must make in life can be put into words this way: What is going to be the most important thing in my life?

  • Live for pleasure and carnal satisfaction, and you will burn out and self-destruct! Galatians 6:8 (ESV) For the one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life.
  • Live for selfish ambition, and you will hurt those closest to you and wind up living in miserable isolation.
  • Live for God, and your life will take on the special qualities of peace and fulfillment that can be experienced only by those close to deity. Romans 12:2 (ESV) Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.

So the first rule of a good life is this: Get your priorities right. Put God first in everything. Let things of the kingdom of God have precedence over every other concern. “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon,” said the Lord Jesus (Matthew 6:24).

In the same context with the verse just cited, the Savior added: “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things shall be yours as well” (Matthew 6:33). These two statements from Jesus are simply alternate ways of putting the first commandment into human language.

The other rules of life will frustrate and annoy you until this one has been dealt with successfully.

It is important for Christians to have our priorites right than it was for the ancient Hebrews to fix theirs properly. In fact, every major failure in the church traces to a failure on this point.

Why does sinful behavior ever get into your life or mine? It is because we get our priorities confused. We get our feeings hurt and decide we have the right to retaliate; we get depressed and decide it will be all right to reach for some forbidden pleasure as a palliative; we forget that God and his will are all that really matter in this world and begin to neglect the Bible, put off prayer, and place the work of Christ’s church on the back burner of life.

For a devoted Christian, every aspect of life finds its meaning through Jesus. Why should chidren obey their parents? The answer of this text is that it is God’s will. Why should parents be patient with their children and train them so carefully about right and wrong? That is one of the primary ways parents serve the Lord.

The pious Christian, imitating his Jewish counterpart of generations ago, would do well to repeat the words of the Shema frequently: “Hear, 0 Israel: The Lord our God is one (i.e., the only) Lord; and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might” (Deuteronomy 6:4-5).

Jesus quoted the words of the Shema about loving God with all our heart, soul, and strength; he called this “the great and first commandment” (Matthew 22:37). Why is this the first rule for living? It puts God where he belongs. It makes him first and grants him absolute sovereignty over our lives.

When pleasure becomes your god, work and duty become burdensome. What starts as a legitimate diversion for an individual can enslave his time, money, and energy so as to become a sin for him. It may be fishing, hunting, playing tennis, playing or coaching baseball, or any number of things that are good within themselves. But when anyone of them becomes more important to you than your responsibilities as an adult, a provider, a human being, or a Christian, it has become a god to you.

When possessions become your god, money rules your thoughts and ambitions. You begin to neglect spiritual things and find yourself participating in things you would have never believed possible.

When position becomes your god, you begin taking yourself too seriously. You develop an over-inflated ego and think you are smarter and more important than you really are. Your “rights” become all-important to you, so the notion of humbling yourself to serve someone else or turning the other cheek when insulted becomes repulsive to you.

John summarized all this when he wrote: “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh [i.e., the Pleasure God] and the lust of the eyes [i.e., the Possession God] and the pride of life [i.e., the Position God], is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world passes away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides for ever” (I John 2:15-17).

Picture1Conclusion — The God of the Bible is a jealous God. His jealousy is a moral excellence rather than flaw, because it is the jealousy of a husband who justly desires his wife’s exclusive affection. It is not the sort of suspicious and accusing jealousy some husbands display toward their wives but the sort of holy jealousy a man and woman have over each other from love. A good man would be horrified if anyone else were to get any part of the devotion and affection that he alone has the right to receive from his wife.

In the same way, God will have first place or no place in your life. He will not share your loyalties and affections. If you will not give him the best and purest of your love, he will not take the leftovers.

Enthrone the true God in your heart, and keep that priority fixed forever.

 
Leave a comment

Posted by on January 11, 2016 in Doctrine

 

Discipleship


mp3icon YouTube JesusIsLordofthisWebSite placeforyou2 575273_579331012148169_1163921425_n

 ——————————————–

“When Christ calls a man, he bids him come and die,” wrote Dietrich Bonhoeffer. When Jesus called you to follow him, he didn’t call you to pleasantries and politeness. He called you to join him in battling against the spiritual forces of darkness that war against the human soul. He called you to step into the breach to battle for what is holy, pure, and just. To do that, I have to die to sin and self-will.

My father taught me: “Son, there are no free lunches.” I wonder if we should hang that sign over the Lord’s Supper? The redemption we commemorate in Communion certainly wasn’t free to him. How dare we think we can eat the bread and drink the ‘fruit of the vine’ of that communion meal and not pay a price for doing so.

Discipleship is a costly thing. If it isn’t to be taken seriously in my life, I would give God more honor by not paying lip-service to it. A theology that minimizes the commitment involved in following Jesus belies the significance of both Jesus’ cross and our own.

In 1937, in pre-war Germany, a book was published that exploded like a bombshell in a very liberal church that had become deaf to the voice of God. The author, a young minister who was deeply concerned about the life of this church, was only 30 years old when he wrote it. The book, The Cost of Discipleship by Dietrich Bonhoeffer, is really an exegetical study of the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5-7). Sixty-five years later it is still relevant.

In fact, Bonhoeffer’s introduction to the book sets the right tone for the passage we are studying today as we consider the relationship between the gospel of Jesus Christ and the call to discipleship: “Revival of church life always brings in its train a richer understanding of the Scriptures. Behind all the slogans and catchwords of ecclesiastical controversy, necessary though they are, there rises a more deter-mined quest for him who is the sole object of it all, for Jesus Christ himself. What did Jesus mean to say to us? What is his will for us today? How can he help us to be good Christians in the modern world? In the last resort, what we want to know is not what would this or that man, or this or that Church, have of us, but what Jesus Christ himself wants of us. When we go to church and listen to the sermon, what we want to hear is his Word–and that not merely for selfish reasons, but for the sake of the many for whom the Church and her message are foreign. We have a strange feeling that if Jesus himself–Jesus alone with his Word–could come into our midst at sermon time, we should find quite a different set of men hearing the Word, and quite a different set rejecting it. That is not to deny that the Word of God is to be heard in the preaching which goes on in our church. The real trouble is that the pure Word of Jesus has been overlaid with so much human ballast–burdensome rules and regulations, false hopes and consolations–that it has become extremely difficult to make a genuine decision for Christ.

DISCIPLESHIP: A HIGH CALLING

When Jesus said to his first disciples, “Follow me and I will make you to become fishers of men,” and they immediately dropped their fishing nets and followed him, that was just the beginning of the process for them. I’m grateful that this is a process, and that God is patient and loving toward his disciples as he leads them into spiritual maturity.

The Lord’s mission on earth was to “…seek and to save that which was lost” (Mark 19:10). Once we place our faith in him as our Lord and Savior, his desire for us is that we join him as disciples in his mission on this earth-the redemption of men, women and children from the kingdom of darkness. We have likened this process to a school curriculum. Thus, we learned that Jesus said, “If anyone wishes to come after Me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow Me” (Luke 9:18-27.)

Jesus then warned that we are not to try to follow him with our own agenda, but rather when he calls us, we are to be willing to leave our security, family and friends immediately for, as he said, “No one after putting his hand to the plow and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God” (Luke 9:57-10:24.) In Discipleship #103, Jesus reminded all who desired to follow him and become his disciples that we must be willing to hate (love less, in other words) our families as well as our own lives and give up all our possessions (Luke 14: 25-35).

To help us see how some of these truths are worked out in flesh and blood, let me read to you an unknown author’s impression of the life of the apostle Paul once he came into a vital relationship with Jesus on the Damascus Road: “He is a man without the care of making friends, without the hope or desire of worldly goods, without the apprehension of worldly loss, without the care of life and without the fear of death. …A man of one thought—the Gospel of Christ. A man of one purpose-the glory of God. A fool, and content to be reckoned a fool for Christ. …He must speak or he must die, and though he should die, he will speak. He has no rest but hastens over land and sea, over rocks and trackless deserts.

“He cries aloud and spares not, and will not be hindered. In prisons he lifts up his voice and in the tempests of the ocean he is not silent. Before awful councils and throned kings, he witnesses in behalf of the truth. Nothing can quench his voice but death, and even in the article of death, before the knife has severed his head form his body, he speaks, he prays, he testifies, he confesses, he beseeches, he wars, and at length he blesses the cruel people” (True Discipleship, Wm. MacDonald).

Warren Webster: “If I had my life to live over again, I would live it to change the lives of men, because you haven’t changed anything until you’ve changed the lives of men.”

 
1 Comment

Posted by on January 7, 2016 in Doctrine

 

Words To Live By Series: #1 We Need Some Rules!


People of our generation seem to have no reluctance about challenging God’s authority over their lives. Almost every group in our nation would dare suggest doing away with certain of the principles that are taught in the Book of Books. Most of the rest of Rules-ROH us have felt free to challenge any (or all) of them that get in the way of our own self-willed lifestyles.

Murder, rape, theft, and perjury are in the news so often that we are not even shocked by them anymore. Corrupt politicians, dishonest businessmen, and philandering neighbors hardly raise an eyebrow. Pornography is sold at the comer market, drugs are dispensed in school hallways, and TV brings the coarsest of language right into our family rooms.

America is turning away from God, closing its ears, refusing to hear. We have created a world that has no significant place for God in its educational programs, scientific pursuits, movies, music, homes, or hearts. What fools we are to separate ourselves from the only hope we have for making life meaningful!

Everyone is talking about the problems facing our generation. Educators, sociologists, and politicians are acknowledging that we have lost all sense of moral direction as a society. Only one source of dependable direction is available. And we must turn back to that divine source quickly. We must remember God, seek God, hear God, obey God. We must begin living by the rules heaven has given in Scripture.

Frightening statistics point to the breakdown of law, moral responsibility, and even conscience in our world. Figures released by the federal government indicate that there is one serious crime committed every two seconds in the United States of America.

There is a murder every twenty-three minutes and a rape every six minutes. There is a robbery every fifty-eight seconds, an aggravated assault every forty-eight seconds, and a theft every four seconds.

We are a nation under siege. We are a people living in fear. Worse still, perhaps, is the involvement of so many young people in crime and immoral behavior. Teen-aged Americans account for almost a third of all violent crime arrests in the country.

What Has Gone Wrong? What has happened in this “enlightened” world of ours? Our society has rejected the notion of fixed norms for conduct, and we lack the internal control that comes to people who have a strong sense of right and wrong.

We’ve not only broken the old rules, we’ve gone beyond that to say that nobody has the right to make rules for our generation. Without rules, norms, or standards, we are moving toward chaos. We really do need a fixed standard for our lives. We need both goals and limits. We need a strong sense of what is desirable and what is forbidden. We need the security which comes or having some dependable rules for right living.

A U. S. Army official has said: “The army would like to see every American parent, teacher, and clergyman work to give our children . . . a firm regard for right and an abiding distaste for wrong.”

A sociologist, discussing the crime problem among teenagers, observed: “They grow up lacking the internal controls needed to stay on course.”

Right for me is what I want!” “Right is what makes me happy!” “Right for me is what gets me something of personal benefit; I’m sorry if somebody else gets hurt in the process, but it’s right for me if I want it and am able to get it!”

An impossible situation is created when this creed of self-interest governs our notions of what is right and wrong.

We must get back to the Word of God. We need to know the rules for right living. We simply must have a fixed standard by which to measure our deeds. The Bible provides exactly what we need for the moral direction of a human life.5b85d0e91c801225cd801f8036577c3e

Our self-chosen ways usually lead to our destruction. “There is a way which seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death” (Prov. 14:12).

God has not left it to us to decide what is right but only whether we will choose to walk the path of holiness he has marked for us. God alone is in position to know what is right and wrong. God is the only one who is holy enough, wise enough, and good enough to be able to tell us what is right and wrong.

My moral obligations to you do not arise from some sort of social contract we have established with one another. Those obligations grow out of the fact that you are in the image of God, and I owe you respect for that reason alone.

Since God is infinitely holy, wise, and just, we can put full confidence in the things he commands. His holiness is at the root of our obligation to moral purity. He asks nothing of us that is not already in evidence in his own character and nature.

I don’t resent the rules that I find God giving me in the Bible, because I know something about God and his workings. If I were to stumble across the Bible and read some of its rules for the living of a human life, I might not be too impressed. But because I know of the holiness, wisdom, and love of the one who wrote the book and gave the rules, I am going to take the moral commandments of Scripture seriously. I am going to commit myself to them in the confidence that doing so will help make life what it ought to be.

A World in Need of Rules. The Chairman of the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Chicago has said: “Our society and this ‘openness’ have created adjustment problems for the individual. There are fewer of these problems when a society has widely accepted standards for morals and manners. Today, we don’t have such a situation.”

People are happier, more secure, and their lives more manageable when they have some fixed norms and standards to appeal to for direction. The person who lacks a fixed point of integration for his or her behavior is going to be frustrated constantly.

I’m reminded of something Terry and I learned as young parents. When our back yard was enclosed by a fence, our children went to the areas of the yard away from our house…when we lived where there was not a fence, they were not as secure and stayed closer to the house. Rules…norms…restrictions serve the same purpose for us.

Many people refrain from stealing, adultery, murder, or other similar acts not because they fear punishment but because they believe such things are wrong. Internal restraints on behavior are far more powerful than external ones.

Reading through this text makes us recognize some important facts to understanding what the Ten Commandments are really all about …

God spoke all of this. They are words that God spoke. They are a vision of the kind of people God wants us to be They are God’s hope for us. These ten words describe how a people relate to God and how they relate to one another.

In this Decalogue, something is revealed about God and something is revealed about ourselves … God is a saving God. He rescues. He is the God who brought his people out of Egypt. He is the God who saves us from sin. He is the God that creates and sustains. He is the righteous judge who responds to sinfulness.

We see how holy God is and we see how we fall short. If we are self-righteous, these Ten Words show us that we are not nearly as righteous as we think. People often look over these Ten Words and ask, “Which of the commandments have I broken?” But that’s the question we ask if we view these ten words as a set of rules carved in stone, when we understand that “God spoke all of this” then we realize that WE ARE broken.

But the gospel of these Ten Words is that God is not going to leave us broken. God spoke all of this in order to draw a broken humanity closer to Him. God really intends for us to live differently. He knows that we can do better and mature. It seems impossible, but with God all things are possible.

 A man and his ne’er-do-well son went deep-sea fishing. When they started back toward the shore after dark, the older man was exhausted from the day. So he turned the boat over to his son and lay down to catch a nap on the boat. Before going to sleep, he showed the boy the North Star and told him how to keep the boat on course by navigating with it. No sooner had the father gone to sleep than the son decided to catch forty winks himself. When he woke up, however, he was frightened to discover that the boat had turned out to sea. They were lost, and the boy had no idea of how to reorient himself and get back to land safely.

He rushed over to where his father was sleeping, shook him by the shoulders, and said, “Dad, wake up! You’ve got to show me another star. We’ve run clean past that first one you showed me!”

You don’t run past the North Star in this hemisphere, although you can lose sight of it and get lost. In the same way, you don’t run past the Ten Commandments in charting a course for your moral and spiritual life. You may take your eyes off them and get terribly lost on an uncharted ocean of sin!

In this series of studies, no “new star” for our guidance is going to be identified. There will be an effort made to redirect our attention to the place where it should have been all along. We have been asleep! We have gotten our eyes off the North Star for right living! It is high time that we refocus our attention on the words of the Almighty and chart a life course by them.

 
Leave a comment

Posted by on January 4, 2016 in Sermon

 

It IS a wonderful life!


happy new year 2016I make the point annually to watch Jimmy Stewart’s popular holiday portrayal of George Bailey in It’s A Wonderful Life [1] (required viewing in my estimation for all who work daily to make a difference in people’s lives).

In a scene in the early minutes of the presentation, angels are talking in heaven of this person, George, in their endeavor to know more about him and enter into his world to offer assistance.

Clarence, the 2nd grade level guardian angel who eventually is assigned to task, asks, “What’s the matter with George. Is he sick? Is he in trouble?” “Much worse,” is the reply, “he’s discouraged.”Wonderful-life

George gets his wish (“I wish I’d never been born”) and eventually is led through a process of seeing the world as it would have been had he never been born.

The conclusion for his circumstances is identical to others – we do make a difference and our positive actions and kind words accumulate much greater than we could ever imagine. It is often difficult to keep an optimistic attitude, but we must.

People indeed observe and model what they see and hear from us. It’s humbling but certain that we have an influence in the eternity of another’s soul.

We each occupy a small fraction of space in this world. We do and must make a difference in the lives of others.

————————–

[1] A good but slightly ineffectual man tries to off himself after an error that really wasn’t his fault. In Christmas carol fashion, his crusty-but-lovable guardian angel shows up to give him a tour of the world without his presence, and it isn’t a pretty place. Moral courage, small-town American life, civic cooperation, and family love are glorified; corporate greed and self-involvement are vilified; at the climax, a blanket of snow like spun sugar makes everything pure and clean like redemption itself.

 mp3icon YouTube JesusIsLordofthisWebSite placeforyou2 575273_579331012148169_1163921425_n

 
Leave a comment

Posted by on January 1, 2016 in Encouragement

 

Some easy ways to improve your marriage


 mp3icon YouTube JesusIsLordofthisWebSite placeforyou2 575273_579331012148169_1163921425_n

 Eric/Wendy’s November 2015 newsletter from Kigali, Rwanda

——————————————–

Improving your marriage doesn’t necessarily have to involve huge changes on your part or your spouse’s. Many times, the cumulative effect of small changes can make a significant difference in the quality of a relationship. It can be discouraging to only focus on the big, sweeping long-range changes that you feel are needed, such as improved communication or increased intimacy. Instead, focus on making several small changes that can affect the quality of your relationship right away.respect

Once you generate some positive energy flow, it’ll be easier to tackle the larger issues. Plus, you’ll be more motivated to put forth the effort and to keep trying. Here are some easy ways you can improve your marriage:

  1. Schedule date nights on a regular basis. Did you know research by Idaho State University shows that one of the secrets to a happy marriage is scheduling regular dates? This study involving 132 couples found those who went on dates more often (the average was six dates a month) were more likely to be satisfied with their marriage than those who spent less time together. So get out your calendar and schedule some times for you and your spouse to go out and spend time together doing something you both enjoy. Doing everything with the children and not spending time alone with your spouse can be a way to try to avoid sex or to minimize romance. It’s a mistake to think this won’t hurt your marriage in the long run—because it will.
  2. Show respect when you’re talking to your spouse. You may not realize you’re doing damage to your marriage when your spouse is talking to you and you sigh with exasperation and roll your eyes. Psychologist John Gottman has conducted research on what attitudes increase the chances that a marriage will end unhappily. He has found contempt is the most damaging, and he says rolling your eyes when your spouse is talking to you is a classic sign that communicates contempt. You’re giving your partner important information about how you really feel about him (or her) when you show disrespect.
  3. Make time for vacations. The Wisconsin Medical Journal reported that when 1500 women were asked how often they took a vacation, 20% said that it had been six years or more. These non-vacationers were more likely to be stressed and unhappy in their marriages. Every day life can get so bogged down with details, work, and loose ends that fun and romance can easily become buried and neglected. Remember the old saying, “All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.” The same is certainly true of relationships—if there’s no time to play and have fun, then dullness, fatigue, and boredom often take hold. Passion and romance thrive on stimulation, building positive new memories, and the excitement that change brings. Just leaving home and seeing and doing different things can be energizing and perk up a stale relationship. The vacations don’t have to be expensive or exotic. Put on your creative thinking cap and see what’s possible.
  4. Remember to hug your mate each day. Doctors at the University of North Carolina have found that hugging boosts blood levels of oxytocin, a relaxing hormone that is linked to trust. According to Kathleen Light, Ph.D., professor of psychiatry at UNC and one of the study’s authors, “It is safe to say that oxytocin is linked to emotional as well as physical closeness in partners….” Make it a point to initiate more hugging, and don’t be bashful about asking for what you need and want. Note: If “hugs = sex” in your marriage, it’s time to make a change. Many wives complain their husbands only touch them—hold hands, hug, kiss, snuggle—when the husbands want sex. These wives often try to avoid physical contact with their husband because they don’t want to get him aroused. This leads to a pulling away and a lack of on-going closeness and connection. Thus, it’s important that hugging not be just a prelude to sex.
  5. Celebrate days that are special to the two of you. Take the time to record the special days on your personal calendar so you won’t forget. Through the years, I’ve heard many spouses express hurt that their mate never buys them a gift, even for their birthday. There’s no special dinner or birthday cake—nothing.  They might not receive a Valentine’s Day card or a Christmas present, either. I’m always sad to hear this, because it seems like such a loss of an opportunity to celebrate. And the message delivered to the mate is she (or he) isn’t valued and treasured. Life is short, and you can’t take your beloved partner for granted. Look for every opportunity to celebrate your love, your marriage, and the fact that you’re alive!
  6. Smile More Often. A genuine smile can warm the heart and make you more attractive to your spouse. That’s because smiles are sexy as well as contagious, and the energy they produce can give you and your spouse a needed boost just when you need it the most. A warm smile invites your spouse to come closer, to connect with you, and to linger in your presence. You’ll feel better and so will your spouse.
 
1 Comment

Posted by on December 31, 2015 in Marriage

 

Pressure From Every Side


I want us to begin by thinking of the word “chaos”?
· Theory that explained what went wrong in “Jurassic Park”?
· Your teenager’s bedroom?
 
I want to draw a working definition of chaos from Genesis 1:2:
(Gen 1:2) “Now the earth was formless and empty, darkness was over the surface of the deep, and the Spirit of God was hovering over the waters.”
 

Chaos: “a vacuum, a void, an emptiness … not filled and transformed by the voice or Word of God.”.
 
We often spend time talking about the culture in which we live and admitting that our culture is in a MESS.
 
But this is only symptomatic of a much deeper problem: void/vacuum/ emptiness that exists at center of American soul:
· A void marked by an absence or a poverty– of self-restraint, moral absolutes, compassion, civility.
· Void that cannot be filled, only exacerbated by drugs and alcohol, violence and immoral sex (real or vicarious), money, power or material goods.
 
Jim McGuiggan, in his book Caution: Men at Work…if the sign says “GOD at Work,” there is hope: for that’s what undid the chaos in beginning.
 
Talking about what we “DON’T” won’t do; to merely adopt a “prophetic” tone by cursing the darkness encourages among us the spirit of self-righteousness or superiority.
 
Our goal is to allow Peter to issue a call to Christian excellence and holy accountability.
 
The first action of God when it was time to create the universe? Deal with the chaos. That’s what God does!
· Where there is void, he wishes to fill it by His creative power
· Where there is emptiness and loneliness and chaos, He goes to work to bring into being something orderly and meaningful and beautiful.
 
(Isa 45:18-19)  “For this is what the LORD says– he who created the heavens, he is God; he who fashioned and made the earth, he founded it; he did not create it to be empty, but formed it to be inhabited– he says: “I am the LORD, and there is no other. {19} I have not spoken in secret, from somewhere in a land of darkness; I have not said to Jacob’s descendants, ‘Seek me in vain.’ I, the LORD, speak the truth; I declare what is right.”

Our God is a God of revelation…not of chaos but truth … did not cloaked His being in nature, but has spoken to us, once through his prophets, now  “by his Son, whom he appointed heir of all things, and through whom he created the universe.” (Heb 1:1-2)

Jesus told a chilling parable about that:

(Mat 12:43-45) “”When an evil spirit comes out of a man, it goes through arid places seeking rest and does not find it. {44} Then it says, ‘I will return to the house I left.’ When it arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. {45} Then it goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go in and live there. And the final condition of that man is worse than the first. That is how it will be with this wicked generation.”” (some have called this the Parable of the Haunted House.).
 
What makes this especially chilling: He was talking about not about houses but people …empty people: empty of joy, empty of authority; empty of Lordship, empty of God.
 
If ‘nature abhors vacuum’… then Satan loves one…he loves to “repossess” empty hearts.

The problem with chaos?: something WILL fill an emptiness, rush in to fill the void: that’s why people watch 40 hrs TV/wk … take drugs … hire prostitutes … shop till they drop … join cults — to fill the emptiness! (by no way am I listing items here in the order of harm done).
 
But any fullness but God’s…only deepens the hunger, only intensifies the emptiness, until the “final condition worse than first.”
 

What has PETER to say to us about the CHAOS? 1 Peter is written to a church in the midst of culture at best indifferent, at worst hostile, to it.
 
Roman culture was willing to tolerate Christians so long as they kept their religious notions to themselves … so long as they exhibited a broadminded spirit.
 
But this, Church of Jesus Christ could not do that… so they were persecuted.. (1 Pet 2:9-10): “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light. {10} Once you were not a people, but now you are the people of God; once you had not received mercy, but now you have received mercy.”
 

Peter’s wonderful strategy is to address this head on, immediately, from the first sentence in his letter: “Dear scattered strangers … spiritual exiles.”
 

Conventional wisdom today: always go “inclusive” … but Peter knows he must appeal to their set-apartness (holiness) if he is to keep Church from conforming to the Chaos of the secular world.
 
‘Yes, as “strangers in this world” they were made to feel strange … as “resident aliens” they experienced alienation … “peculiar people” will be looked upon as peculiar.
Peter’s words are sympathetic and supportive, but blunt and foreboding:  ‘I know these are tough times for believers … and they could get tougher.”
 
So he speaks to them of “TRIALS”:

(1 Pet 1:6-7) “In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. {7} These have come so that your faith–of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire–may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed.”

(1 Pet 4:12-13) “Dear friends, do not be surprised at the painful trial you are suffering, as though something strange were happening to you. {13} But rejoice that you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”

What is the purpose of trials? To force or encourage us to get at the TRUTH.
 

Interesting: the kinds of “trials” Peter speaks of, which would serve to reveal truth and the genuineness of their faith, were largely VERBAL: several different words are used in the verses: insults, slander, malicious talk: verbal violence. (2; 12, 3:9, 3:16, 4:14)
 
“Persecution” in 1 Peter: initially it was not in the form of Polycarp in the arena … but verbal rejection: slings and arrows of outrageous co-workers, or neighbors, who (4:4) “think it strange that you do not plunge with them into the same flood of dissipation”
 

Today it would be the person who is ridiculed because he won’t laugh at their sexist joke, who won’t stand quietly by and tolerate racist language, who won’t keep the gossip alive, who won’t trade insult for insult.
 
Along the way, Peter indirectly speaks of different “trials” — internal ones: evil desires (1:14), malice, deceit, slander, hypocrisy” (2: 1), even feelings of resentment, that they were undergoing trials (4:12)!
 
Peter’s challenge: Silence your critics, persecutors, peer-pressurers … with your LIVES.

(1 Pet 2:11-12) “Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. {12} Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us.”
 

Show them how Christians love … care … serve … speak … “do good” (Peter’s signature phrase in this epistle) … and if need be, die.
 
Story of a minister who found out he was going to die in next year of cancer…wondered what he would do with his time” “Thought of resigning my duties at church, so I could travel, or rest; then I thought, no, for years now I’ve been telling my church how to live … I figure now I have a chance to show them how to die. (I preached at a congregation in Mansfield, Ohio, that had a youth minister who had cancer and knew he would die in a few months…he stayed on the job and even made a video that was played at his funeral).
 
Four Items Which Bring About Chaos
A. Absence of Biblical authority.
(1 Pet 1:13) “Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus Christ is revealed.”
 

(1 Pet 3:15-16) “But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, {16} keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander.”
 

Chaos will always result when there is no authoritative source of truth. What fills that void? The WORD OF GOD, the revelation of God who has always spoken the truth, who always declared what is right.
 
Truth is not merely some abstract body of orthodox religious laws – truth is that which makes life work…grow…to be rich and full … in contrast, lies are what make our lives small, shrink and die.
 
Every society needs voices that keep asking the right questions of its values: Are they true? Not, fashionable, sophisticated, profitable, my right … but is it RIGHT?

(1) Is materialism true?

(2) Is individualism true?

(3) Sex okay between consenting adults?. Not if your body was created by God, and purchased with a price.  

But — I fear we are becoming more and more ill-equipped to answer the Chaos. While we were known as “People of the Book” in years past —for some, that has become more an honorary designation than an earned one.

1:13: “Prepare your minds for action.”

Gird up loins, roll up sleeves. We’re going to have to THINK!
 
3;15: “Be prepared to give an answer”

Apologian/defense/a reasoned response. Some Bible paraphrases offer to define that answer (Phillips: “quiet and reverent answer”) That is, not mean-spirited, not argumentative, not condescending.
 
A Biblically illiterate church will surely fall victim to “AIDS”: Acquired Immune-Deficient Spirituality.
 
When our faith is on trial, we will be found immune and deficient: no answer/ reason to offer for our hope … and hope without a reason is ultimately hopeless. People who know their theology … will not be such easy prey to modern secularism, or theological liberalism, or New Age pantheism. 

Absence of moral identity. 

  1. (1 Pet 1:15-16) “But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; {16} for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.””

    Peter makes sure his church knows who they are:
    · God’s elect/chosen (1:1-2) obedient children (1:14)
    · blood-bought redeemed (1:18-19) living stones in spiritual house (2:5)
    · holy priesthood (2:5) holy nation (2:9)
    · people of God (2: 10) free servants of God (2: 16)
    · brothers … saints … CHRISTIANS (4:16; only 2 other times, Acts).
     
    Morality grows out of, radiates from, identity.
     
    In Peter’s day, Christians could take a trip to Pompeii and gaze at erotica that decorated walls of public/private buildings; today, log onto internet and type in “SEX”: far and away the most popular search word on internet (did a search for this lesson and came back with “about 1,84 trillion results (0.35 seconds).
     
    Such confusion: tv/movies/professional sports has sought to give a legitimacy to the new paganism … not by argumentation and thoughtful reason … but by presenting images of attractive people doing shameful things.
     
    C. Absence of the experience of transcendence.
    (1 Pet 1:8-9) “Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, {9} for you are receiving the goal of your faith, the salvation of your souls.”

When Timothy Leary died a few years ago, he reminded us of the amazing decade of 60’s … psychedelic excursions into transcendental meditation and drug-induced mystical experiences (Leary, a hippie to end, was still exploring the wonders of reefer madness).
 
What drove that misguided quest, still drives much drug use today: HUNGER … for experience of transcendence (cheap substitute): something thrilling, be it faster roller coaster, stunningly-violent movie (“Pulp Fiction”), or a hit of crack cocaine.
What we have to offer is not some religious adrenalin experience (“getting high on Jesus”) .….but the possibility of a living relationship with transcendent God, creator of the deepest joys the human heart can know.
 
I am not talking about some contrived emotionalism or cheap sentimentalism (where we turn down the lights and sing “Kum Ba Ya”) … but centering our worship upon Almighty God, singing hearty praises to our risen Lord.
 
(1 Pet 1:3-6) “Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, {4} and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade–kept in heaven for you, {5} who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. {6} In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials.” 

Does that capture the spirit of your worship service? It should. 

 
D. Absence of a Sure Foundation.
(1 Pet 2:4-6) “As you come to him, the living Stone–rejected by men but chosen by God and precious to him– {5} you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ. {6} For in Scripture it says: “See, I lay a stone in Zion, a chosen and precious cornerstone, and the one who trusts in him will never be put to shame.””
 

Terry and I were in the Northeast for a weekend seminar/meeting when we realized we were a few hours from Washington, D.C. We went to see Mr. Lincoln, arriving around 10 pm on a very cold February evening. We saw what has been called “a craggy face captured in Georgia marble” by Daniel Chester French:

  • All worldly standards: Lincoln was an ugly man.
  • A Charleston paper: “horrid looking wretch”
  • Houston paper: “leanest, lankest most ungainly mass of legs and arms and hatchet face ever strung on a single frame.”
  • Another paper simply referred to Lincoln as “the gorilla.”
  • But our affection for Lincoln transcends physical features. We see beyond the ‘obvious’ and look at the heart and character of the man’s life.

Peter: They looked at the Master, rejected him (as Isa. 53 said) … perhaps because He was so ordinary, perhaps because He asked for so much.  

But we look at the alternatives … there is no other foundation. Nothing else fills the Void. For as his Father did at that first dawn, He has dealt with the Chaos (of our sin), and thus we are re-created in Him.
 
Conclusions
Our Age looks into the Chaos and says: “Let me indulge your every desire … Let me substitute illusion for Truth … Let me distract you, thrill you, entertain you … Surely this will fill your emptiness.

 
Our God looked into the Chaos and said: “Be strong, be faithful, be true.
 

1 Pet 1:18-21: “For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your forefathers, {19} but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect. {20} He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake. {21} Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God.”

 
Leave a comment

Posted by on December 28, 2015 in Sermon

 

Marriage…both serious and humorous


 mp3iconYouTube JesusIsLordofthisWebSite placeforyou2 575273_579331012148169_1163921425_n

Eric/Wendy’s December 2015 newsletter from Rwanda

==================================

The jokes are endless. They usually come from one who has learned to laugh at his mistakes, but they also can reveal a lot of pain:

  • Marriage is a gamble. You start with a pair. He shows a diamond. She shows a heart. Her father has a spade. There’s usually a joker around somewhere, but after a while he becomes a king, and she becomes a queen. Then they end up with a full house.Marriage-Crisis
  • One woman said to another, “Aren’t you wearing your wedding ring on the wrong finger?” the other replied, “Yes, I married the wrong guy.”
  • Man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is really finished.
  • Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his bachelor’s degree, and the woman gets her master’s.
    One man said, “I never knew what real happiness was until I got married; and then it was too late.

The failures will continue until God fills our marriages … the two really become one … the one fulfills the other… love is given fully and freely … giving is more important than getting … one considers the other more important than self, and selfishness retreats in defeat … each keeps his/her promises, and vows are not just words repeated after the preacher but are lifelong commitments … kindness rules the days, and helpfulness fills the moments … sex is love … and being together is love … and being apart is love … and arguments are loving … and monotony is love … and routine is love… ’til there is not “you and me,” but only “US.”

“… (man) shall Cleave Unto his Wife: and they Shall be One flesh”Genesis 2:24

 
Leave a comment

Posted by on December 24, 2015 in counsel

 

The church: is it a radical community?


Eric/Wendy’s December 2015 newsletter from Rwanda

==================================

Letter to Diognetus (AD 125): “Although they live in Greek and barbarian cities alike, as each man’s lot has been cast, and follow the customs of the country in clothing and food and other matters of daily living, at the same time (Christians) give proof of the remarkable and admittedly extraordinary constitution of their own commonwealth. They live in their own countries, but only as aliens…they busy themselves on earth, but their citizenship is in heaven. They obey the established laws, but in their own lives they go beyond what the laws require. They love all man, and by all men are persecuted…

blood of lambLetter to Hadrian (AD 125): “The Christians know and trust their God…If any of them have bondwomen or children, they persuade them to become Christians for the love they have toward them; and when they become so, they call them “brother” without distinction. They love one another…If they see a stranger, they take him into their dwellings and rejoice over him as a real brother; for they do not call each other brother after the flesh, but after the Spirit of “”God. If any among them is poor and needy, and they do not have food to spare, they fast two or three days that they may supply him with necessary food. But, the deeds which they do, they do not proclaim to the ears of the multitude, but they take care that no man shall perceive them. Thus they labor to become righteous. Truly, this is a new people and there is something divine in them.”

(Mark 3:32-35)  “A crowd was sitting around him, and they told him, “Your mother and brothers are outside looking for you.” {33} “Who are my mother and my brothers?” he asked. {34} Then he looked at those seated in a circle around him and said, “Here are my mother and my brothers! {35} Whoever does God’s will is my brother and sister and mother.””

When the first Christians were made part of the New Testament church, begun on the day of Pentecost in Acts 2, they knew hardly anything of Jesus and nothing at all of the “church.” Yet, immediately, they were thrust into a fellowship of other believers – a radical, consuming community which supplanted every other loyalty.

What did the church look like? They “devoted themselves” to meeting with a relative strangers (Acts 2:42). They sold their possessions to support one another (Acts 4). They met daily with their new friends to worship and commune in each other’s homes (Acts 2:46). They even rejoiced together when suffering persecution and ridicule!

All this had a revolutionary impact on the families, businesses, and friendships of these first Christians. Old loyalties were exchanged for new ones. The church became almost overnight the primary “reference group” for its members. In the New Testament, the church commanded the primary allegiance of disciples. No other group of people was allowed to take precedence over God’s people.

Even family ties were subordinated to the family of God. Families of origin were put at risk and even broken:

(Mark 10:29-30)  “”I tell you the truth,” Jesus replied, “no one who has left home or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or fields for me and the gospel {30} will fail to receive a hundred times as much in this present age (homes, brothers, sisters, mothers, children and fields–and with them, persecutions) and in the age to come, eternal life.”

This radical sense of community was true of the first century church. Is it true of the church today? Is it true that many other loyalties compete with our devotion to the body of Christ?

All that mattered in the 1st century was being in Christ. (Gal. 3:26-29)  “You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, {27} for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. {28} There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. {29} If you belong to Christ, then you are Abraham’s seed, and heirs according to the promise.”

We have an opportunity in this place at this time to rediscover what a radical community the church of Jesus can be. Are we willing to place as much importance on being together and serving each other as the early church? Can we adopt a new ethic for living life in this community? Perhaps we need to realize that the church is God’s means of saving us, and that we cannot make it alone!

Unity was demanded at Corinth by Paul. Read 1 Cor. 1:10-16 and 3:1-3.

Some evils of division. 1. Division among believers is wrong because it is directly opposed to the prayer of Jesus.

  1. Division among believers is wrong because it is contrary to the Scriptures.
  2. Division among God’s people is wrong because it results in a waste of time, means, and energy. Just imagine how powerful God’s cause would be if all believers worked in harmony!
  3. Division is wrong because it retards the salvation of lost souls. Several have told me that they are going to “try” every church until they find the right one.“ Sinners are confused by the conflicting doctrines and practices of various religious groups. Unity an individual obligation to Christians. (Eph 4:3) “Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.” Close by reading of the divine standard of unity. Eph 4:4-6.

How divisions can be avoided?  2 Timothy 2:14-23 (ESV)
14  Remind them of these things, and charge them before God not to quarrel about words, which does no good, but only ruins the hearers.

23  Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels.

 
1 Comment

Posted by on December 24, 2015 in Church

 

Countries that have visited this site in 2015


2015 in reviewEric/Wendy’s December 2015 newsletter from Rwanda

https://wordpress.com/stats/year/countryviews/tjsman.wordpress.com?startDate=2015-01-01

COUNTRIES

United States

VIEWS

1,199

China 38
Philippines 23
United Kingdom 10
Canada 10
Bahamas 8
Norway 8
European Union 7
Brazil 7
India 7
Australia 6
Russia 5
Rwanda 5
Nigeria 5
Ghana 5
Singapore 4
France 4
Thailand 4
Taiwan 4
Hungary 3
Italy 3
Romania 3
New Zealand 2
South Africa 2
Hong Kong SAR China 2
Tanzania 2
Netherlands 2
Nepal 1
Saudi Arabia 1
Denmark 1
South Korea 1
Puerto Rico 1
Montserrat 1
Kuwait 1
Germany 1
Malaysia 1
Ireland 1
Belgium 1
Peru 1
 
1 Comment

Posted by on December 19, 2015 in Article